Why I Don't Say Yes To Guys Who Approach Me (Page 3)

[NotTheFBI]

Um... interesting MyTake Future Crazy Cat Lady... but do you usually approach them instead of the opposite is the question?

[Yeahno12]

Yeah I must admit I get the same thing.. I get paranoid even if he is attractive.

[red324]

Just wait until you graduate college and the only "friends'' you have are the ones you work with and really don't want to see anymore than the 50hrs a week you do see them.

[Omali]

I think this take is pretty fucked up. People aren't creepy just because they're outgoing. It's cool to not like talking to strangers, but don't think other people are creepy because they do.

[ShayanMortazavi1]

You're probably one of those women who are going to grow old, alone, with a bunch of cats

[ShayanMortazavi1]

I think my IQ dropped a few points after reading this

[becca123]

Only if she knows the cats. No strays :)

[Smells-like-lavender]

What if the guy was attractive? Would that change things?

[Prof_Don]

*ears are wide open waiting this reply*

[ikissedtheskyonce]

@Prof_Don let me follow this shiz lol

[Smells-like-lavender]

@ikissedtheskyonce I like your name it sounds like a song title

[mattty]

All your friends were once strangers until you met them and got to know them. Did you consider them desperate and creepy when you first met them?

[Doffydood]

Finally, someone saying what I've been thinking all this time! It's nice to know I'm not the only one. :)

[myTake Owner]

Thinking what?

[Doffydood]

Thinking that straight up approaching someone out of the blue with the intention of making friends with them and possibly getting into a relationship is super creepy.

[myTake Owner]

Yeah it is! I was surprised that so many people disagreed with what I wrote. I wasn't talking about guys I see around all the time, but apparently people didn't understand that. Thanks for being different.

[Doffydood]

Haha, no problem :)
To be honest, I was surprised by the comments as well. :/

[orphan]

because you're 20.

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[orphan]

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[Reflexy]

By this logic you would never have met/talked to a man in your whole life... Seems kinda crap

[myTake Owner]

I was talking about sexual cold approaching lol

[Jon_Gre_g]

Uhh. Okay. What are you judging this opinion of yours on?

[SovereignessofVamps]

I can agree with this... but most guys are probably harmless, it can just be really awkward.

[Soshy]

Every guy that has approached me on the stress has been creeping. I have stories to back it up too.

[tynamite]

Approaching people you don't know for friendships, relationships and sex, is how the whole thing is supposed to work. Good luck with cats.

[Anonymous]

you are very beta. you should congratulate men for being direct and having balls.

[Opinion Owner]

we'll keep approaching even if mental misandrists like you exist... .

[timbergag]

You'll probably end up marrying your cousin. Huzzah!

[Careless_Whisper]

I too always reject women. I guess guys have to be desperate to approach such a stubborn feminist like you.

[Anonymous]

You are exactly the reason why I don't approach... sadly

[Words_and_Wisdom]

Don't talk to strangers. Unless you want to meet anyone. Ever.

smh.

[Anonymous]

I sense a little paranoia in you.

[Prof_Don]

Maybe she was molested or sexually assaulted in her past... all I know is that she is abnormal and has a social problem that needs to be fixed