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Why you (women) don't get approached or asked out (Page 5)
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Well I'm super hot or ugly. In my case I think guys don't approach me due to resting bitch face.
Whatever, I like girls with serious faces, its such an honorable challenge, but I understand you are not upset.
THEIR TOO EXPENSIVE.
WHY SPEND YOU DIMES ON A $6000 BROAD.
WHEN YOU CAN GET A CHEAPER FEMALE FOR LESS.
gag is filled with cheap females who are not about the money.
I'm not sure if you're trying to be flattering or what. But I don't think girls like being called cheap.
you can't call females anything nowadays, I'm breaking that rule.
well women feel the same way- i'll see a cute guy and be interested but most guys are taken or people are...
i know how u feel... i feel the same way when i see a girl too--its not like it's easy to approach a girl.. or a guy... i mean if i was a guy i'd be scared too--sort of.. but i'd be a little more open if it was a really hot girl i wanted
what do you mean by us woman not getting approached
Well a girl could be thinking the same thing about a guy.
No one's denying that.
https://oi57.tinypic.com/33msnbc.jpg Best take ever.
do popular somewhat cocky guys think this stuff too?
Depends on how much they socialize. I'm sure they feel this on some level, but are more capable of shutting down those thoughts.
I'm some what a cocky person and yea I do in the first place then just try something with them if they reject me then oh well
They don't care. One woman rejects them and they'll go after another one until they get a yes.
God. You make it sound like women are evil. We're fucking human like you.
Thank you, for some reason when I say this out gets down voted, it has to come from a girl I guess
How so?
@consultant - The truth always gets downvoted.
Wtf? How so what? Abd what's the worst that can happen? She'll be a total bitch? Big fucking deal. Screw her and move on.
You're not making sense... how am I making women look like the devil?
Oh. Seriously? Read your take again.
How about you just explain yourself instead so I can take you seriously?
I didn't get that vibe from him :/
Okay, firstly, most girls will be courteous when you approach them.
Secondly, why do you assume that she's not interested? Or that she'll think you're an idiot? Or that she's trying to cheat on someone? Or that she's saying things she doesn't mean? Like what the heck?
He's just saying that's what we think when we see a cute girl. He's not saying that girls actually will act that way. Like he said, there's nothing wrong with you. It's our mentality that is the problem.
How is it that an honest statement of insecurities is taken by you as an indictment of all women
Is he wrong to have these (quite common) feelings
Or is he just wrong to publicly admit to having these feelings
The myTake is spot on from my perspective and illustrates quite well how my 20's was a period of no women, no dating and no relationships.
I understood that from the beginning. I don't understand WHY. @danodamano333
Grey_sailor, I really have no clue what that had to do with anything but, k.
Oh, sorry. I must've misinterpreted what you were saying, then. It's just because we're insecure. We don't want to get hurt, and we tend to come up with every possible way to justify avoiding the girl because she MIGHT be that rare girl that is annoyed by us. A lot of us just have issues with ourselves.
Understood. Thanks for explaining :)) @danodamano333
Thanks, danodamano333. Couldn't have said it better.
@danodamano333
Good job explaining the logic of the myTake.
Thanks for the help.
@Chick180 it is easy for you to say since you are an attractive person. Ugly people like myself get shot down nonstop. And many women don't even want to talk to a guy that is ugly, that is why many guys don't bother approaching.
I ask girls out on GaG all the time!
@linkywinky wanna go out with me?
Can we go see a movie? I'm in the mood to go see a movie.
@linkywinky Sure, I haven't watched Furious 7 yet.
SWEET ME EITHER
@linkywinky When are you free? Lets go!
Right nooooowwww
@linkywinky butt tt i'm at work. :o
#GaGLove 💗
@Prof_Don she is no more
I serious doubt that any guy that approaches me will ever think that. It will probably be the opposite.
For some guys who manage to get out of their fearful mindset yes. Most guys though haven't.
Studies show testosterone makes people more social and guys had enough testosterone to become a male, so they move first.
Then why are gay guys so talkative?
They have enough testosterone to be a male. I still do make the first move, I'm just saying that the guys first thing makes sense for this reason.
Woah that's crazy.
What does that say about shy quiet guys? Aren't girls usually the more social ones anyway, at least with each other?
You do know that a women wouldn't become men even if they had the same amount of testosteron right. Also, I'd like sources for these studies also I need more than one study because you used plural which means there have been several studies..
Ha no! Just generally, 2/3 people are extroverts. I'm a girl introvert, shy, but still make the first move. I'm all for making the first move! I have before! I'm just sayin' that it makes sense. For a given introvert or extrovert male, chances are that the male will be more social. Doesn't mean he'll be less shy!
You can google them.
Yes, I know that. Look, don't argue! I'm not sexist. I love you, bud! I just have a different perspective to offer but it doesn't mean that you shouldn't not tolerate it! :)
Oh. I thought it was because wasn't wanted nor appreciated for who I am.
women don't like being approached. why do you think they are such rude bitches when you do approach them?
Depends on the type of girls that you are approaching!
why am i getting downvoted to hell when i speak the truth?
Depends how you approach them.
Because the wrong ones seem to be the only ones to approach us.
yea... thats basically the whole list.
Most attractive women get asked out pretty regularly, from what I've observed.
Yeah... For sex. Or if she treats a guy like shit, he falls for her for more than sex.
Some of u men are so dramatic... y'all should be girls 😜. Just observe her and make a move... just be respectful.
If you think it's so easy why don't you go approach guys and escalate the conversation?
I know right... Easier said than done
How would that help when I think those exact things?
Yas please shed us sum light ma boi 🙏🏻
Mah Boi.
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so some men lack the bollocks to dare
to dare is to do!
Awesome take thank you for sharing