I have no idea about female anatomy so is that some lame excuse you girls normally use or something?\
why would someone use THAT of all reasons?
honestly--yeah. that could be a perfectly legitimate reason to cancel a date, especially a physical one. periods can be painful, make you feel tired , irritable and just wanting to be alone. they can also make you feel bloated and unattractive. on the other hand, if you're in the middle of the relationship for me personally anyway, I actually feel hornier on my period. but like I said, this is once I've been with the guy a while.. so yeah, it could definately be a good reason.
even I think it's a little weird for her to name that as the reason, though...if it were me I would have been less specific "i'm not feeling well", etc. little too much information imo.
on the other hand, yeah= maybe she just wanted to get out of the date.
Personally, sometimes I can barely function on the first day I get it becasue of the pain, its because the woomb lining is literally tearing its way off and pumping its way out of your body, so it can almost feel like you're in labour at times because of the muscle spasms =/...also emotionally, I feel incredibly unsexy so I wouldn't want t be on a date anyway, I'd just be waiting on it to end, partly also because of the fact that many girls, like myself get very bloated and feel lethargic during the early stages i.e the first day or two...but I must say, its also a legit and handy excuse, so if the girl seems like she's not that into you, maybe she is lying- best to give her the benifit of the doubt though xxx
its a valid excuse.
i wouldn't even tell a guy about my period..it brings nasty images and is embarassing. But if I reallly do have it and can't handle the pain I can't help but vent and scream and shout and can't even move out of my bed.
Shes being serious...just cheer her up and tell her to feel better...this way you won't seem affected by her canceling..and you will also appear sincere and sweet that will make her day as her feminine pain gets worse! LOL.
Imagine that you've planned a date on Friday. On Thursday, you were hit really hard in the balls and they still hurt enough to make you nauseous Friday afternoon. From what my female friends describe, this is not too different from what bad menstrual cramps are like.
Yes, this could be a perfectly valid reason to cancel a date. If she's telling the truth, I'm impressed with her blunt honesty.
Holy SHIT!! I never thought cramps were that bad. I really hope she's alright. Darn.. it must be really weird being a woman sometimes. I texted her saying I hope she's feeling better.
OK, so we'll never *really* know what it feels like, nor will girls ever know what a testicle injury feels like, so any male/female analogies are imperfect. That said, many friends have told me what shortie said above - a period can temporarily mess with emotions and self-image and hurt like hell, all of which can totally ruin a date. I'd consider her to be on "injured reserve" for a few days ;)
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Period cramps can be painful especially during the first couple of days it starts at least that's for me but it depends on the girl. For me, I don't want to do anything accept for resting and pray that the pain will go away. Did she reschedule? If she did then she probably was telling the truth.
i think this could be a valid reason. I don't often have really bad cramps, but when I do they are enough to make me cry hysterically. having cramps have made me come home from school not play in volleyball games etc. so yes she could eb telling the truth. but if she uses this excuse more then once I would think she's blowing you off. having cramps that bad probably won't conflict with two dates in a row.
I wouldn't use that as an excuse unless it was actually true. I do sometimes get cramps so bad that I can't move, so there would be no way I could go out on a date.
Some girls get terrible cramps which actually leave them crying in pain, while some girls are completely fine... I'd say she probably got the short end of the stick
Lol she is very brave even to tell you about her cramps as some women find it really embarrising! I don't think she would have said this too you unless it was true because she would have saved herself the embarrasment, and given you an excuse like. . . Don't feel well, have 2look after bro/sis etc
The pains are different for everyone. On mine I can bare it but I wouldn't want to go out. In the other hand my sister can barely leave her bed.
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