Would you understand if a girl canceled a date because of period cramps?

[Anonymous]

My period cramps are really bad. So bad that I throw up when I don’t have any ibuprofen. Ibuprofen helps a lot, but because of the research finding that ibuprofen can dramatically affect coronavirus patients and also you can have coronavirus for what? Up to 14 days without knowing? Because of that information, I have been taking Tylenol every month instead. Tylenol works but not as good, and it also makes me really sleepy. So going on a date is just really inconvenient. What do you think?

[PrudentGuy]

My direct answer is yes. But I'll not just give up that date because it presents an opportunity for sex.

I wonder if girls know, bare sex helps her relief period cramps.

No I'm not trying to be funny. Its something my SO and i discovered.

In actuality, I hated period sex. But when my SO has period cramps, she may ask for sex.

We usually do it in the toilet for easier clean up.

After it, she felt a lot better and would sleep soundly.

Hence to answer your question, I would offer to "help" relief her if she cancels the date.

[Reaperbot666]

I would understand. would also offer her some Ibuprofen or midol. if I could get my hands on any for her to be about to use.

some studies show that if a woman has sex during her period. it can help release some of the pain she is in. because when she climaxes it loosens the muscle groups around the private area. so just lay down extra towels or blankets to catch any of the possible mess. however might not be a great idea for heavy flow days.

but masturbation might also help in a similar regard.

[sarah2736132]

ok so coronavirus is still out and about and just cus restrictions have loosened doesn't mean we should go out for non necessities. dating is not a necessity. stay home. protect yourself and the person u like.
secondly i also get really sick when on my period so if your partner doesn't understand then its not worth it. you'll find someone who cares enough to stay in and heat a wheat pack up for u.

[McMillanD]

Of course. And if he is worth seeing than he will understand. Also you should try Alive. It is an over the counter muscle relaxer that works wonders for menstrual cramps. Also really good is Motrin.

[ohshee]

I would say sorry but not tonight because of what ever I could come up with but I woukd see if I could hang with you for about an Hr. As an Empath. I can take some of it from you (pain ) but then I would go home and get sick lol. No ,, but anytime than hapoens take care of your self. ,, and wow those sound strongb

[ShortCircuit]

Yeah, I wouldn't mind if it were me. Although I recommend making sure to reschedule for a specific date, because otherwise he might think you're lying and are just trying to get rid of him. Don't just say, "I can't make it because of my period." and leave it at that, with no follow up.

[Anonymous]

Understandable, just be honest and let him know that. Some guys might wonder if it's an excuse though. So my suggestion to avoid this is to cancel, give your reason, but make another date right after so he knows you're still interested. Say something like "I'm really sorry, I have to cancel because I'm having really bad period cramps. Can we change it to next Saturday?" Make a specific date/time.

[I-am-a-nobody]

I think if you explained it and mentioned you REALLY wanted to go out with him, it would soften the blow and be acceptable.

[jessicasissy]

Absolutely, one of my sisters had a debilitating monthly visitor that for 2 days made it so she could barely move.

[cth96190]

Of course I would be fine with that.
I would also suggest that she try a black cohosh medication called Remifemin. It helps.

[hello123456789]

Of course! I mean just explain it to me... be honest and I have no problem with that. It's biology.

[worldscolide]

seems a good reason.. On that same token, if you really wanted to go, cramps would not have stopped you, nor would sleepiness from tylenol.

[pleasestopthis]

Any guy who isn't willing to understand that is not worth the time.

[Trooper205]

I could never FULLY understand, But I can Sympathize and Let Her rest! ❤️

[winterfox10]

I think if you explained all of that, most guys would understand

[hiddendevil]

Definitely, Sit back and relax, have some chocolates or Nutella.
Why take meds, its natural.

[Paul09]

Yes I would understand, as long as we get a rain check.

[KrakenAttackin]

Take the fucking ibuprofen, you are not an "at risk" group.

[888theGreat]

Yes, because I know the next date , she is going to be really nice to me.

[Shamalien]

I'd wonder if it was a bullshit excuse but I'd understand

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Yes. I don't get mad easily. Patients... Just patients

[hiddendevil]

*Patience

[Dinosaursandanime65]

@hiddendevil yes. There's still time to run.

[rapfan107]

Been there I personally she was making an excuse but no way to be sure.

[Anonymous]

I don’t thing I know a female who would admit to having period cramps to a potential date.

[Anonymous]

Yes, it’s fine.
as long as you aren’t using that excuse to get out of a date.