Signs a girl is just using you to boost her ego and make her feel good?

[Anonymous]

wht are the differences betwrrn this and a girl who is genuinly interested in you?
would shr initiate touch, convos etc

[coffeprince]

Id like to know aswell lol.. but I'm guessing...

Egoboost: initiates conversations, and hangouts but she'll play anything romantic down. She will text or call you on her terms, if you need something she'll act bored until you shower her with attn.

Genuine interest: initiates conversations, and hangouts, may ask you questions, tease you, might make flirty statements or tell you details of her life so you get to know her better. She may touch you.. kino. note that if you need something she may act indifferent, but if she tries to help/ or is concerned/thinks/worries shut about you or goes out of her way to help you with anything then she's being legit.

[Asker]

Interesting there's this one girl who exactly like as what you describe a genuine interest BUT she has a bf?

[coffeprince]

Ohhh thats a toughie.. she might like you, but its likely she's only being friendly. Can you give an example of what you take as flirty behaviors? Sometimes we ourselves misunderstand what is flirty behavior, so it's best to get a 3rd party perspective :)

[somerandomirish]

if a girl is genuinely interested:
she will touch you, every chance she gets. (kinda like what guys do alot)
she will talk to you all the time, every chance she gets. most of the time, she will talk to you a lot to see if she really likes you.
when you pass her friends (or her and her friends) they will look at you and giggle and look at her and tease her. because that means she talks about you and they know she likes you and so they will tease her.
she sometimes will be kinda mean or seem really un interested, but then will be flirtatious.
thats only half the list but i can't think of the rest xD

[unforgetable]

She may initiate touch over time, maybe not initially especially if she is nervous or unsure the feeling is mutual. But she's not gonna flirt back just to boost her ego. And she may initiate convo, but if nervous she'll wait for you to.

[Blueeyes81]

Does she blow you off? Is she always busy? Is it always about her?

[KBob93]

When she constantly asks you if she's fat, or makes negative comments about herself because she knows you'll refute them & say she's not fat, she's beautiful, etc. Because honest to God, we love hearing it.