True. As I said to someone else the strange thing is he keeps texting me, but they are short answers. So I have stopped speaking to him, last message was him and I left it at that and then he snapchatted me. I've ignored that too.
It might not necessarily indicate anything. Are they consistently shorter than they used to be? Are yours of a similar length to when you started texting?
The strange thing is he keeps texting me, but they are short answers. So I have stopped speaking to him, last message was him and I left it at that and then he snapchatted me. I've ignored that too.
From a guy's perspective, it now sounds like he's being one sided with his interest. He needs to give you your space and think more about where you're coming from. I think you did the right thing. Give it some time, and maybe he'll come to his senses.
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Maybe he's just getting comfortable with you and doesn't feel the need to send lengthy messages anymore.
True. As I said to someone else the strange thing is he keeps texting me, but they are short answers. So I have stopped speaking to him, last message was him and I left it at that and then he snapchatted me. I've ignored that too.
Well at least you know he's still interested in you, so that's not a problem
His fingers are getting sore...
It might not necessarily indicate anything. Are they consistently shorter than they used to be? Are yours of a similar length to when you started texting?
They are just text messages. If you two get on well with each other in person then what the hell :)
Best answer! So true.
He probably isn't a "texter" meaning he doesn't reply on his phone to express him self , dont worry
Past experiences offer this
lazy
stupid
so don't worry, maybe you say "what?" a lot as well
That's how most guys roll. Texting takes too much damn time.
Maybe he's busy? Or I don't know he could be bored. I hope it's the former.
He is into something else at the time you are texting him. That's why they are short. What he is into doesn't allow him to text you like he used to.
Usually it's another girl!
Nothing about you, he's probably just busy, call him, or ask if he wants to call.
he is either bored or feels obligated
This one! He's just toying with you. Surprise his ass by blocking him on everything. Mr ego will take a hit
Bored of me or the texting? We haven't slept together or talked about feelings of such and it's been about 2-3 months.
Bored of everything
He wants to slowly break off the relationship without hurting you.
I'm a guy and it usually means I'm not interested , tired , or busy. Sorry.
could be busy? try calling and listen to the tone of his voice. That should tip you off
He's bothered by something
By what?
Doesn't want to take the time to write it out
How much have you seen him drink usually?
As in, does he drink most weekends or when I'm with him, does he drink?
Yes.
Which one haha?
How much does he drink all together? Does he drink every day? A lot on weekends?
He drinks most weekends from what I'm aware of!
Ask his family if he has a drinking problem. If so you have something bigger to deal with.
he is either bussy, or he has lost interest.
He lost interest. It happens, move on.
How did you gather that from his drunk texts?
I
He should feel the desire to want to 'chase' you a bit, and if he cared he would've noticed your unsettledness and stopped.
The strange thing is he keeps texting me, but they are short answers. So I have stopped speaking to him, last message was him and I left it at that and then he snapchatted me. I've ignored that too.
From a guy's perspective, it now sounds like he's being one sided with his interest. He needs to give you your space and think more about where you're coming from. I think you did the right thing. Give it some time, and maybe he'll come to his senses.
What do you mean being one sided with his interest?
i'd ask him about it. he could be losing interest.
you did the right thing
error go home, you're drunk
Why am I here... twice.