In August I went to a new club and immediately felt attracted to the resident DJ. I've been there every week for four months now and about five weeks ago he was off and hit on me for the first time. He told me, that he noticed me a while ago.
Then for two more weeks nothing happened except for a smile and a "hi, how are you?".
Week 3 he approached me, said how I would distract him from doing his work and if I would like to dance one day when he doesn't have to work.
A few days before Christmas I went to this club again with friends and he was there, not working this time.
He came up to me pretty quickly, we danced and had fun, went to another club together,where he kissed me. It really surprised me because we were in public and he is very well known in our town. Then we went to get pizza and then to his place. We talked for about two hours, but he didn't try to go any further.
I wanted to though, so I stayed until the early morning. I had to leave to catch a train to my home country to see my family for the holidays and he literally begged me to postpone my departure until monday and to spend the weekend with him, but I couldn't. He asked me to spend New Years with him..BUT he has my phone number and email and I didn't hear from him since. (I am in another country though..)
I haven't seen him for a week now and I will stay in my hometown for another week, but I don't get him out of my mind.
My problem is, he is a DJ..talk about judging people...every time when I told someone "hmm he is hot" they reacted like "yeah he is a DJ, can probably chose the girls". (people who didn't know him). But it gave me a weird feeling. I don't want to let myself fall and then fall flat on my face (again).
If I listen to my intuition and what he told me and what I saw (he never left with a girl/made out with a girl) then he is not a player.
But if I listen to what other people say and what I know about DJ's, then I'll get burned...
Additionally..i don't even know if I want to get myself involved into anything...but I keep thinking about him.
I will see him next Wednesday because he is working in the club and I have no idea how to behave...
If it was a One-Night Stand, then it was my first one ever and I don't know how to behave after something like this happened. If it wasn't..what should I do?
Hope you guys can make sense out of my weird state-of-mind!
Thanks :)
Then for two more weeks nothing happened except for a smile and a "hi, how are you?".
Week 3 he approached me, said how I would distract him from doing his work and if I would like to dance one day when he doesn't have to work.
A few days before Christmas I went to this club again with friends and he was there, not working this time.
He came up to me pretty quickly, we danced and had fun, went to another club together,where he kissed me. It really surprised me because we were in public and he is very well known in our town. Then we went to get pizza and then to his place. We talked for about two hours, but he didn't try to go any further.
I wanted to though, so I stayed until the early morning. I had to leave to catch a train to my home country to see my family for the holidays and he literally begged me to postpone my departure until monday and to spend the weekend with him, but I couldn't. He asked me to spend New Years with him..BUT he has my phone number and email and I didn't hear from him since. (I am in another country though..)
I haven't seen him for a week now and I will stay in my hometown for another week, but I don't get him out of my mind.
My problem is, he is a DJ..talk about judging people...every time when I told someone "hmm he is hot" they reacted like "yeah he is a DJ, can probably chose the girls". (people who didn't know him). But it gave me a weird feeling. I don't want to let myself fall and then fall flat on my face (again).
If I listen to my intuition and what he told me and what I saw (he never left with a girl/made out with a girl) then he is not a player.
But if I listen to what other people say and what I know about DJ's, then I'll get burned...
Additionally..i don't even know if I want to get myself involved into anything...but I keep thinking about him.
I will see him next Wednesday because he is working in the club and I have no idea how to behave...
If it was a One-Night Stand, then it was my first one ever and I don't know how to behave after something like this happened. If it wasn't..what should I do?
Hope you guys can make sense out of my weird state-of-mind!
Thanks :)
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