He keeps poking me?

[Anonymous]

Me and this guy at work are good friends, today I came to work in my normal clothes and hair down. It was the first time he has seen me with my hair down and in nice clothes any way I went to work later that day and he was acting different when I was singing in he was walking down the stairs I say hi and he said it back then he stood behind me really close and begun poking My waist he keept doing it it felt different he has never been that close and we where alone does he like me?

[Anonymous]

I think so but poking is so immature, geeky, even offensive way to gain attention... I wonder if I would care if he does not not... more abuse like this is my future? ... like a spoiled child that knows not other way to get the spotlight?
Yeah, the hair down, etc. did it for him.

[Asker]

But he has a girlfriend, this is driving me crazy

[Opinion Owner]

GFs come & go and some guys have more than one + it's possible to flirt with friends of the opposite sex. I would object to the poking but not the fun implied... until it gets uncomfortable with the girlfriend. Best planning to avoid that would be to get to be friends with the girlfriend somehow ASAP.

[Asker]

But the more he flirts with me the more I like him and I can't do any thing about it I just want it to be clear

[Opinion Owner]

The only thing he/her need to be clear about is that there is a glass ceiling called "GF" that keeps your attraction to him contained as only a friendship.

[Asker]

He right I want them to be happy, I would hate myself if anything happens between them. I will try and ignore him

[Opinion Owner]

NO NEED! So long as the girlfriend is your friend & says OK, why lose a valuable friend like this? He probably has guy friends even more attractive to you anyway!

[WinterIsComing]

"does he like me?" is a pretty stupid thing to ask. really. just read your own wuestion and the answer should be clear. though poking is a bit creepy. he could've just said something if he wanted attention.

[Asker]

So is it a no?

[WinterIsComing]

yeah... whatever you want sweetheart.

[Asker]

I'd a very confusing dude lol but thank u for ur help