Hell no! It's your personality. I love it when girls check me out and glance at my package or make comments like, "damn he's fine" if I pass a group of them. It's such a confidence builder. Makes you feel really sexy if you ask me like someone desires me. Being a woman may seem odd, but it really shouldn't. I think this is what feminism is really about. Feeling good about yourself and confident about being a woman. If this makes you feel good about yourself, why is it a bad thing? I think it's human nature to have a sexual or that type of attraction to someone and I think it's fine to express it. Some people are offended by this because then they think they are nothing but a sexual object. However, we are sexual objects in many respects. Most of attraction is based on procreation at its basic fundamental roots. You don't know if someone's intelligent or has a great personality really by looks so the instinct is a sexual instinct. I mean it's always important and nice to be thought of as more than just a pretty face and to have intelligence and a great personality, but to me, being attractive physically to someone, helps in attracting that opposite sex. Also, it gives you the dive to meet that other person. Being sexually attractive, should make someone feel.. SEXY.
That isn't weird. That is actually pretty normal. Most people want to feel sexy and desirable. However if you are open about that, a lot of women will call you a slut, or accuse you of suffering from internal misogyny, or some other nonsense. Therefore you should probably keep that to yourself.
Typically women aren't offended unless the guy doing the objectification is ugly. Then she sees it as creepy. If some guy like Ryan Gosling is doing the exact same thing, then most women would be flattered for him to objectify her.
I get really annoyed when niggas not on my level talk about sexing me. It's like having a GED talking about what you're gonna do when you get accepted into Harvard. Um no, not going to happen you can't even get a rejection letter back lol
but if its someone i want back, like my man, then it turns me on and makes me feel good.
depends what they're saying. If they were saying you have a nice butt or something then that's more of a compliment, which are nice to have. But if it was more along the lines of 'you have such a pretty mouth, it belongs around my dick' then that's a different story...
No it doesn't make you a terrible person. I love being submissive in the bedroom. However when I watch porn that's how I like it, I feel a moral obligation to stop. I need to know that she also enjoys it the way I do and wasn't forced for the money.
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Everyone likes to feel sexy. The thing to remember is doing it with respect. If they truly do see you as nothing more than something to screw then that's not respect. If it's with a guy you're in a committed relationship with and you know he is sensitive to your feelings it's more acceptable when he says something dirty to you.
I do too! Glad I'm not the only one! It creeps me out when random guys yell stuff to me when I'm walking home at night, but sometimes I think to myself like yeahhhh he just complimented my ass that means the squats are working lol. And I kind of like a little bit of it in bed too- not super aggressive though. Just lots of comments on my body.
No, what your feeling does not make you a horrible person or weird. It's quite common for both males and females to take pleasure in being objectified. It's a form of validation. It's something we all do on some level. It really only becomes a problem when you or other only see you as an object.
Nope. Sometimes, it's super sexy. Adds some spice, and who cares? Ya ain't gotta give them the goods. Just take the compliment, and roll with it! Don't feel bad about that - AT ALL.
It doesn't make you horrible, unlike them. You might have issues or you might be a future Sasha Gray - it's hard to tell.
No actually attention of any form can turn a lot of people on
No you're not a horrible person. I assume the sexual comments were compliments, and everyone likes compliments sometimes.
Seriously girls. Stop with this 'objectifyng' bullshit. Since when did an object becomes sexually appealing to men? I mean I find girls sexy not because I think they're object its because they're humans like me.
I think it's normal to be flattered and like the attention. You have nothing to worry about
Meh lots of girls these days have daddy issues. Most women wouldn't be ok with that.
No it's not bad. Don't listen to dumb ass feminists. Just don't go being a slut if you want a good boyfriend.
Its ok do what makes you happy. I'm kind of like you lol
Bah! lol Your young so!
No, it's probably just a strange fetish.
I find it weird
That's normal op
Lmaoo daddy issues
basic women
Yes.
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