My crush just called me a "biotch", did he completely friend-zoned me?

[Anonymous]

I recently met this guy and we clicked. At first we were very shy with each other and we were also very nice to each other. We complimented each other and everything was so sweet. Then we got to know each other better and to feel more comfortable. We spend a lot of 1 on 1 time together and 2 days ago when he was at my place we had a pillow fight that turned into throwing food and water at each other. He teases me a lot and I tease him too and well then we become crazy teenagers. We used to flirt with each other and now is just teasing. He used to do all the sweet things like open the door for me, smile at me, cuddle me, compliment me, basically do anything I wanted him too. Now that's gone. Now he is way more relaxed and laid back, he seems like he doesn't want to impress me anymore.
Anyways he just sent me a link of some funny movie and wrote "Watch this, biotch! And if you don't like it I will never talk to you again. Best movie evah!"
I'm kinda bothered by this "biotch" part. :( We don't know each other THAT well for him to call me a bitch, even if it's just a joke. Am I right?

[Anonymous]

If anything I suspect that he thinks he is the one in the friend zone, and has started moving on. You even say that he use to do anything you wanted, and he still didn't end up with you. In his mind that most likely means you rejected his attempts to impress you.

[Asker]

No, he rejected ME when we first met. He gave me some excuse about not getting over his ex yet.

[Opinion Owner]

Then its odd that he would go that far to impress you. Maybe he was just using you as an emotional crutch while he got over his ex. Sort of like a substitute girlfriend or something. If that is the case, he shouldn't have lead you on by treating you differently than he would treat any other friend.

[Asker]

Yeah I know, but even for a friend calling someone "a bitch" is rude in my opinion. I think he finally started treating me as any other friend and I honestly don't like it. I've noticed he calls his best girl friend a bitch sometimes too and I dunno, I just don't like it.

[Opinion Owner]

I understand that and it is very reasonable that you feel that way. Reply back that you are a lady, and don't appreciate being called a bitch.

[noisette91]

Maybe I'm right and he IS gay and thet's why he rejected you LOL... I know when a guy rejects a girl it doesn't automatically mean he's gay, but I just have a really strong feeling about this :D hahaha

[Opinion Owner]

@noisette91 I don't think he would have been putting that much work into the relationship by doing whatever she wanted if he was gay.

[Asker]

@noisette91 Haha now you got me worried! :O Okay, how do I find out if he is gay then?

[ameliajp]

its never bad when your crush gets comfortable with you. call him out like "woa, im no biotch but i watched it and... [insert reaction]"

[noisette91]

Are you sure he's straight? I'm having a gay vibe from the description for some reason?

[Asker]

Well he was in a 5 y/o long relationship a year ago, with a girl. They have lots of pictures together, like kissing and stuff, so I would say he's not guy, I dunno.

[noisette91]

Huh, weird, are you bothered mostly because of the "biotch" word or because you like him and don't want to be friend-zoned?

[Asker]

About the "biotch" word. :( I don't why it bothered me that much? No one ever called me like that, not even my best friends (guys/girls). Maybe only long ago when we were like 15, my best friend would say like "yo bitch, wassup?". But now when I hear that word it's just not funny anymore, I find degrading and immature.

[noisette91]

Just say, "Okay I'll watch it, thanks. But call me the B word one more time and I'll be the one who won't talk to you again" wink emoticone to make it less agressive and that's done.

[Asker]

Damn, that's a great response. It's kinda too late now because I already responded, kinda similar. I said "Don't call me a bitch again. Thanks for movie, I will watch it tomorrow."

[noisette91]

That's good too, I hope you enjoy the movie.. care to share the title? maybe I'll watch it too? :p

[Asker]

Kung Furry. :D I watched it it's really good haha