Do Girls Like Guys Who Play Video Games A Lot?

[Kevin9]

You know I'm just wondering?

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Also after reading some of the comments is it romantic and fun or not? When your playing together?

[GoodManDave]

If the girl/woman likes video games, and if she's included, then it can fine.

However, if you're always making the both of you late for dates, etc because you HAVE to finish "just one more level" then it's a big turn off. If you're always making playing the games your date, then that can get monotonous. And if you're ignoring her too much because of the game, then it will become a problem. If she hates video games or never wants to play them, then it can become a problem a LOT quicker.

In other words, if video games are your life (and you're not a beta tester or professional gamer or writer) and you have an addiction to it, just like an addiction to anything else, it could be a BIG problem.

But if you like them, and use them to have some fun, and you aren't always playing then no, I would assume most girls would be ok with it.

Now if you've got someone who is morally opposed to gaming, then it will also become a problem... almost instantly - and I would suggest finding someone else.

Of course, provided you're aware of your gaming habits, you can use it to your advantage. If you NEED a couple of hours of gaming per day, and it's not conflicting with having a life, then you look for someone else with the same hobby. Then it will probably be a big plus.

Of course, being a guy, I can't tell you for sure... but this is what I'm assuming this is how most reasonable people would think.

[an0namoose]

My girl had no problems with gaming as long as it didn't interfere with my life or us.

A little tangential to the question, but I know a guy that claims he knew he wanted to marry his current wife when she beat him at command and conquer in college. Girl gamers tend to be rare, but they are definitely in demand.

My valentines day gift for her was a psp, and she seems to like it. I just had to get her cute games. Loco Roco, Patapon, Ratchet and Clank. As long as I stick to these and we play together it qualifies as romantic. I just have to watch for the "I'm getting bored now" symptoms as she's ADD and has trouble doing anything for more than about 2 hours straight.

[wicksjm]

I personally don't but the man I'm seeing is a physician and plays video games to relieve stress. After reading an article about video games, playing video games is great for physicians and especially if they perform surgical procedures. Something about the way the game is played with the joystick enables them to navigate through surgery much easier and smoother. Although I'm not a fan of video games, it's not a breaking point for me. There's more important things to concern myself with. Besides, every now and then I enjoy going to 'Dave and Busters.' which is an adult arcade.

[rasa_aesthetic]

I don't. I really have to say that it is a big turn off for me, I like guys who go out and do stuff and not sit inside and waste their lives in some sort of digital fantasy world, and I could not give a damn whether you made something dance in the legend of zelda or whatever. My boyfriend plays limited video games, which is OK, I expect most guys to do it a little, but he can expect to be patronized for it if he brings it up in conversation. Likewise I expect the same if I would try to talk to him about sewing.

[Miss_Desirae]

I like it a lot. I'm a girl gamer, and my boyfriend is a gamer too, so a lot of the time, we both like playing video games together when we're at his place and aren't doing much of anything. ^_^ It's fun for the both of us. :D

[jtj25m]

*takes picture so I have proof of the ever elusive female gamer creature*=P Nah they're sneaking out of the woodworks more and more nowadays.

[The_Box]

Female gamers? Everyone knows that's a hoax.

[Miss_Desirae]

It is also kind of romantic in a way, because my boyfriend and I are spending time together, and sometimes we make bets/dares, like "whoever wins has to... (fill in the blank)". It makes it just a bit more exciting. ^_^

jtj25m: Lols! You're funny. :) But yeah, there are plenty of female gamers. A lot of my friends are, too.

[Miss_Desirae]

The Box: No way! Don't say that! I love my Final Fantasy, Castlevania, Zelda, Devil May Cry, Street Fighter, Dynasty Warriors, Guilty Gear, Shinobi, Mario, Harvest Moon (don't laugh), Animal Crossing (again, don't laugh), Dead or Alive, Soul Calibur, Metal Gear Solid, Soul Reaver, Kingdom Hearts, Halo, and CoD!

[Kevin9]

Those are some of the best games. CoD is awsome!

[jtj25m]

*blushes* well thank ya Ms Desirae. But to be honest, I'm more quantity than quality with my sense of humor, you'd probably just roll your eyes and shake your head if you heard half the things I consider worth a laugh. =P *does the happy dance for you cause you got best answer* o.o

[Miss_Desirae]

Question Asker: Yes, it is! I love it. :) And I forgot to add Phoenix Wright to my list! Lols!

jtj25m: No problem! :) And really? Because sometimes when I come across your answers, there's something that makes me laugh. And thanks for the happy dance, too! Lols!

[SCW_Secret]

Kingdom Hearts FTW! Also Zelda FTW!

[Brando]

If she's interested video games too, then it shouldn't be a problem (obviously lol). But I think it depends not so much on the video game part, but HOW MUCH you play them. If you play them too much and don't put yourself out into the world then they'll never know you exist.

[wicksjm]

I totally agree.

[Kevin9]

Exactly nicely said!

[shes-a-lady]

Yea. basically, I could never date someone who hardly ever leaves the house

[torken]

Well, video game playing among males its becoming more and more mainstream. We video game geeks are finally the majority!

So, it actually doesn't really matter if they like it or not, because they are going to have to accept it as a part of society. Just like they probably don't love how guys get obsessed with watching football, or card-night with the bros.

On the other hand, girls, believe me. If you pick up that controller and get into gaming, I PROMISE you it will do more for getting you a guy than any hot low-cut shirt.

[vballbutterfly]

I love watching football, playing vid games and card nights sooooooo were out there :)

[SmoothBlue17]

I agree, good answer!

[Happyfeet]

Yeah it's Awesome! Esp if I'm playing with the guy.

However too much gaming(excessive to the extreme) would be detrimental to the persons realtionships with others, thus pushing people away. There needs to be a balance. EVERYTHING should be done in moderation. ^_^*

[Killfest400]

I'd have to agree with you entirely.

[rosalie13]

hey I'm guilty here...i like to play video games...so I wouldn't mind a guy who did either...

[Kevin9]

Cool!

[Mankow]

You do realize that you are pretty much every guys dream girl right?

[rosalie13]

Not really..... :)

[Sirhc001]

....This was an April fool's right? Geez, Mankow was right. Dream come true. A pretty girl who plays video games

[rosalie13]

Mmmm...never thought I was any guys dream girl...i just thought I was geeky because I liked video games

[buttercup444]

when its like an obession and constantly playing video games its a turn off. when its when there's nothing better to do and you let your girl play on 2 player with you and stuff its awesome. my man plays his video games like 3 nights a week and I love watching =]

i wouldn't say its romantic really but just fun

[aggregate]

Depends on how much you play. A huge frag match of halo or gears shouldnt really substitute for a date lol. but again it depends on how much the two play. I've got friends in WoW that are married or are seeing each other. The family/couple that plays together stays together. ^.^

[Kevin9]

Exactly games build a relationship (sometimes)!

[516brooklynn]

no I think its a totall turn off. I like guys that actually do something with there lifes..so unless you are 12 and under do be obbsessed with video games..once in awhile is okay but not all the time to where you are blowing things off like your girl..

[Professor_Zoom]

If a guy is going to blow you off over a video game, then he will blow you off for lots of other things as well.

[tyrantfuryre]

It's more productive than watching tv. At least you're thinking and interacting. What are your favorite shows? Jersey Shore? CSI? American Idol? Any of that stuff is bullsh*t. Yet people spend a lot of time watching it...yep, so much more of a life. ;)

[MrNameless]

This is the most ignorant answer I've read on girlsaskguys for a long time...

What's wrong with playing videogames? Its not for kids. Most gamers nowadays ARE adults, and its not just guys who play them. Its a good stress reliever too. Girls who aren't much into games, could take advantage of this and use it as bonding time with their boyfriends.

If one is obsessed, and constantly off-puts spending time with their sig. other, then that will cause a problem of course.

[Anonymous]

I know I would. Then again, I'm not your average female. Of course if your life is games, then it's not really that awesome to be playing games 24/7. Even though I love video games, I still have hobbies on the side like drawing, playing music and basketball.

I just think it's sorta romantic, though, playing games with each other. Fun when competing against each other. It creates a perfect combination of love and friendship. Video games are things that can help relationships bond.

Not letting me play with you, though? *smh* Not good.

[DragonLord]

no way one of my other hobbies is basketball pretty much I'm like a geek because I play video games new and old school you know like super Mario brothers 1 and 2 street fighter 4 and I work and play on computers and I love Pokemon and yes I love anime and I'm still looking for a girlfriend that share same passion me of computers and video games and yes I like a gamer girlfriend because it will be so much fun

[Anonymous]

It can definitely be fun to play video games together, but I HATE it when a guy lets me win. And if you spend as much time on video games as other hobbies than I would see it the same way I'd see those hobbies. Just don't let them take over your life. Plus video gaming is a better hobby, than say, bug collecting (imho, I'm sure there are girls who like that so yeah).

[savvyg11]

I don't care as long as it doesn't affect our relationship. If he's dropping plans and never wants to do anything else... yeah that's a problem! I don't know if it's "romantic" to play together but it definitely creates more of a bond I guess.

[tyrantfuryre]

Best answer ^^

[butterfly_girl]

Its not really something that important in a relationship :)

My boyfriend plays on his xbox quite a bit and I don't mind it at all as long as he makes time for me too.

xoxox

[DeathWillNotDivide]

i don't care as long as he isn't obsessive over his games... my boyfriend loves his guitar more than me I swear so I tease him bout cheating on me with his guitar... basicly we are fine with it as long as it doesn't take our place and you still can come back to earth afterwards... <3

[Standingpretty]

Well, I don't mind it. All the bfs I have ever had played video games a lot. It's fun if they let me play but all they usually do is kill me in halo :(

[mysmileyface]

a girl who wouldn't mind a guy who played video games and actually enjoyed playing games herself is a girl I have yet to find but wishes that did. total turn on right there for sure!

[elven_majik]

Yep, it's way fun especially when playing together. I love video games so I definitely date guys who play them.

[jbowy4]

Yes it is hell fun. You can play vid games WITH them so you can hang out heaps, as long as they don't put games before me, I'm all for it :P

[DragonLord]

do you still love the classics games/retro games like me and my dad do you know like NES, Nintendo 64 and super Nintendo

[lovelaughlive]

It doesn't really bother me. I play sometimes myself, so yeah the competition is fun. If rather my boyfriend be a gamer then out doing other things..lol

[jackie1836]

personally, no. id rather be playing sports and doing things outside, I've never been a gamer. But playing together every now and then does have a certain appeal.

[meggers27]

no girl likes sitting there and their boyfriend glued to the tv screen, them wishing there was a mute button to shut us up. but two player games sometimes work, for ex my significant other and I play monopoly on playstation two..so corny but definitely spending time with each other

[hotlozza]

I don't mind it, I just hate it when my boyfriend talks and talks about it! Even when I went over to his house he was playing Call of duty! ARGH.