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you can make the decision to stay with him or give him a second chance. or yourself another chance to get hit. if you stay with him it will happen again. and if you can forgive him once he'll think it can happen again. and it was like an arm pull warning sign it was a full on punch to the face blacked out bloody head. I personally would have called up a few guys and have his ass beaten because your just not getting away with that bullsh*t. I bet he wouldn't let it go if you punched him in the face hit hit his head and blacked out
Wow. Some of the female answers here are saying to give him one more chance. This sad. DO NOT. This guy wasn't crying because he hurt YOU. He was crying because he was afraid of what you will do to hurt HIM, i.e. press charges.
Take action, or leave.
And don't listen to this people saying to give him one chance. This is no accident.
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The only thing you can do is dump him and get out while you can! It only gets easier and easier to hit someone and "apologize" afterwards but it doesn't mean anything! He shouldn't have even hit you that hard in the first place a real man would never do that. Please get out before you ruin your life.
I will quote what Oprah said
"LOVE DOESN'T HURT".
Please leave him instantly. For the sake of your well-being, all the people who answered you here will give you the definite support to do it. It's very difficult to do so, but you must and you will leave. Absolutely no one deserves to be treated like that. Also tell your family and friends about this to get support.
A punch on the arm is one thing. You blacking out and bleeding from the head is a felony assault anywhere. This person deserves to be single, unemployed and picking up trash on the side of a highway for quite some time. Don't let him hit you again.
Oh, and see a doctor about that head injury. Maybe a cop as well.
He'll 100% do it again. Hope this p**** don't drink. WHEN he knocks you out again take a baseball bat & smash his skull. Don't get any pets if you stay with him because cowards like that like abusing animals too, he will kill it. I've seen it first hand with my sister & the piece of crap had the nerve to charge me when I broke his arm after my sister didn't charge him for beating her. Their all the same, cowards.
There's no excuse for hitting you. No excuse, no excuse. Dump him. This will happen again unless he gets therapy.
I feel rreally bad because I flirted with a girl once and her boyfriend beat her up...not as badly as a punch in the face, but still...it was my fault, she couldn't help my flirting with her, but he was one of the 'I own you' types like yours.
So please take my advice!
If you don't react to this right now, he may think that you will never react to such physical acts.
You have to react as fast as possible.
Try not to talk to him for at least a week, not returning his calls, not texting him, etc.
After a week, tell him that you are ready to forgive him.
Tell him she's ready to forgive him? Are you f** serious?
No way, do NOT do that! You don't go back to abusive parents after 7 days and just forgive them! this is no different.
Woah!
It may be a mistake done for once (even if this is not really common)! Everyone deserves a second chance!
You are right about not returning to him if he repeats the same thing, but if he did it just once...
About the abusive parents example, well, my dad hit me once. I didn't talk to him for a couple of days. I clearly expressed that I hated him with my body language and the post-it notes I left stuck to the bathroom door.
He apologized for days, and I didn't listen to him. I acted as if I didn't hear him. It was hard. I was crying every night. I hated being that cold to my dad.
A week or so later, I accepted his apology. He never hit me, ever again.
NEVER give a second chance to wifebeaters! :@
Honey, my ex promised me & begged me to stay & said he would never do it again. don't believe him trust me I know from experience. don't be stupid.
dump his ass! and you should have called 911 after you got concious, nomatter how much he apologised, that's domestic violence and abusive relationships never work out (unless ur one of those who get a kick out of it (no pun intended)) shame on him if he hit you once and shame on you if he hit you twice
He isn't sorry. He wouldn't have hit you otherwise. It isn't good behavior on his part and he should check into counselling perhaps to resolve his anger issues and insecurity.
If he chooses not to believe you that you love him more than your ex, then it's your fault. It's not right he hit you for no reason.
okay, I really don't think this was an accident.
i think he got super jealous and couldn't handle it.
he needs trust issues help and anger help
yes tell him you need a break or leave him for good.
this isn't love if he hit you over something that wasn't even true.
just do what's best for you.
none of us girls deserve too be hit.
i can c like getting close too the face but not actually touching when playing around but he put alota force into that, so do what you think is right
leave him...he's probably bound to do it again...even if you do love him its not worth hving sumone treat you unfairly..also he's probably the type to get jealous; if he punched u, it's most definitely not an accident..and tell someone bout this..its better to let someone know because if you dnt and you daty w/him and sumthin bad happens no ones gonna noe why he did it cusz you nvr spoke up.
hope this helps! (:
I'm glad you're doing better, and that you did the smart thing! :)
One other thing to think about here is this: Why didn't he drive you to the hospital? Why did he just put you on the couch?!?
He is demented!
And what Littletad pointed out, he cried because he was worried about himself, not you! ---and THAT'S WHY he didn't drive you to the hospital or why he didn't call the ambulance. . .
i will give the you the best advice you will ever get, and you better listen to me. I was with my "baby daddy" for 5 years, and the whole time he would hit me, and always promise it would never happen again. it took me that long to realize he would never stop, & it always got worse. he was going to end up killing me eventually. a man that hits you doesn't love you. I don't give a f**** what he says. leave him now, before it gets to the point where you are afraid to leave him like I was.
I recently broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years. started out with him cheating , being dishonest... when we drank we would fight he pushed me once, the next year he hit me hard across my face drunk. He cried and loved on me and said he was so sorry he would never do this again. One year a month ago it was a Saturday afternoon we were going hiking he became very jealous and angry and he hit me so many times that I don't remember , he made me get in the room so he could leave. he ruptured my eardrum and hurt my jaw. I couldn't workout all month. he has come by and stalked me and will not stop calling and leaving messages. He says he is so sorry and he will always protect me and he will never hit me again etc etc. I ALMOST fell for it. it is hard when you love someone , but I am now trying to love myself again... my ex husband beat me for 6 years and I left him. honey, they hit you once THEY WILL HIT AGAIN!!!
Holy crap. How could you endure so much abuse? I know love is love, but still. You deserve so much better. Great to hear you have left both relationships. I hope you are doing better.
Thank you! I I just want a man to be kind to me, i give my all.. it will come one day. The rest of my life i am truly blessed! :)
Get out of that relationship at once. If he can do it once he will do it again. You are not married to him and his anger is already out of control. Imagine what can happen in the future. I am certain that he is begging for forgiveness, but there will definitely be a next time.
ok,...there are certain rules that a real man follows.1. never hit a girl 2. never hit someone when they are not ready. so he violated two of my major rules.
I am pretty sure he is honestly sorry, but,...still he should never have even attempted.
UIi think get away from him,...talk it out and agknowledge that he is sorry, but realy explain to him that you can not forgive something like that, cause you can't
Hmmm... do you truly believe he won't do it again? If you do, talk to him, get him anger management classes, and give him another chance. But if you have any fear he'll do it again.. dump his stupid ass. You shouldn't live in fear of being assaulted by your boyfriend.
Woah. Leave him. I was in a relationship like that one time, and he did it once, just like this, and then he apologized but when we went to talk about it again, the same thing happened. I don't care what you were talking about, he had NO right to lay his hands on you. and I know many people who have lost their lives because of abuse from their partner. It's a very scary thing, so get yourself out of it before it gets any worse.
Good Luckk
hey..it's good that he did appologized to u. I think he loves u. just couldn't have digested that siuituation.
cheers and just tell him that he has no right to hit you for anything...it's very unmanly.
tell him that if he couldn't trust you now then how come he will trust you in future.
good luck