Is it common for women to like receiving just oral, or is it common to NEED penetration to be satisfied? (Page 2)
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most women dont want oral due yo insecurity and or terrible men at doing it
Why insecurity? And why not TELL the guy what you like? We instruct women all the time, or just let you gals have @ it of you don't ask for tips on satisfying us. We're fine with it most times even if we don't nutt because out dicks were touched! Lmao
I've never had a guy instruct me on oral.
and its not that simple for some women to instruct.. it can also kill the mood
why insecurity? because wimen in porn look better than in real plus all the porn guys watch doesn't tell them about the smell and taste of a real vagina so women get worried they are odd and ignorant inexperienced guys accuse them if being diseased ir dirty and shame them about their bodies.
Interesting. Thank you.
I personally would need some kind of penetration to be completely satisfied.
Mmm oral sex is just fucken awesome n wod let any man women eat me any day... but giving oral is a turn on
So, you would get licked and then feel satisfied only if you could reciprocate? Interesting. I've experienced that. I figured I just did such a good job. LoL Never thought of it as an impulse on her part. Ha! All ego!
Personally my urge would not be sated from just oral.
Maybe giving him just oral.
But then I'd want his fingers...
Just so you know, only 30% of women can orgasm from simple penetration.
Just so I know? So, how did they do this scientific research?
They've done it several ways - it's been confirmed to be around 30% by 4 or 5 different studies. You're welcome to google it.
Yeah, I've checked that. Its old data, and, its misleading as women have several levels of orgasm and many of those studies didn't factor in the psychological restraints behind women actually orgasming. They never take cultural aspects in mind. There HAVE been studies showing that more women report having orgasms in the last 30 years than ever before. I do know a thing or two about this. Its not an uninformed question.
Some of its older studies, some quite recent. But what it tells me is that the many women who don't orgasm from simple penis in vagina sex aren't broken or orgasming wrong. We are, however, often having our needs ignored. This type of woman has been called frigid in the past, or basically told her way of having an orgasm is wrong.
Neither men nor women come to sexual relations without cultural and family "baggage". These particular studies didn't get into that, but others have.
I repeat this particular fact often on GAG, so that young men and women learn that sex is actually quite a bit different than what they have been led to believe. To open minds to the real mechanisms of female sexual satisfaction, nee empowerment.
I often post correct anitomical diagrams of the whole clitoris, and tons of recent research on such - often post links to the published studies so other people can examine it themselves. I even speak to other sexologists, and researchers to get answers to questions I don't immediately know the answer to when someone is asking a serious question on GAG.
Yes, with more information and focus on female sexual satisfaction, more women are orgasmic - but that doesn't refute the 30% number I often give. It is about HOW women tend to orgasm, not total anorgasmia.
So then why repeat the 30% if you're pointing all of the evidence against such a number being accurate? With the various ways women climax (with or without any vaginal contact), with cultural norms properly shifting in many areas to covet instead of condemn any woman's personal sexuality, with "satisfaction" meaning much more than just an orgasm, with the long over due breaking of the medical focus of positive sexual health being predominantly about men, given all that, what was the point in trying to throw this completely made up number into this topic in the way you did? Your information is helpful, but in what way does this fiat statistic hdo it any justice? I'm glad you shared all this, but I can't even see how you answered the question I originally posed with what you've given here. That being said, I do thank you for your depth and insight. I would love to read your other posts as you clearly are learned and (I'm glad to see) passionate about this topic, if that's ok with you.
The evidence I point to does not suggest the number is incorrect.
It's not just a made-up, fatuous number I pulled out of my ass. And I haven't even brought out the orgasm gap data.
Well, please do, as well as to answer the question @ hand, if you'd be so kind.
I DID answer the question at hand. I clicked a choice. I'm just providing the young people of this board with additional, factual information about sexuality, birth control, masturbation, etc. - all the questions they have the no adult is ever willing to answer honestly and explicitly. I ensure what I say is evidence based, and that I can provide references - I usually supply several different kinds of sources from popular media to the actual published studies.
You are a 37 year old man with some ideas about the female arousal and resolution cycle that aren't borne out by science. You won't allow yourself to be shown otherwise - you just attack the science, as if you know better than the people who are in the practice of researching anatomy and physiology of sex.
If YOU can prove my 30% statement wrong, with reliable, evidence-based sources, if you can prove these other claims you're making with reliable evidence-based sources - go right ahead.
Oral followed by penetration. That's the code.
Lmao There's a Code?
If you want her to orgasm, it's the easiest way.
Ah, gotchu.
But I'm only speaking for myself. Talk to your girl and ask her what she wants and likes in bed.
Oh, nah. We got all that WELL in order. LoL
Good!
Receving orl give pleasure but penetration is must for satisfaction
Yeah? Totally opposite for guys. Makes sense.
Yeah,
Because guys enjoy bjobs but girls enjoy penetration
Yeah, but we like hand jobs too. Women... Not so much.
Yes, i don't like hjob and bjobs but gives him due to him pleasure n demand
... why?
He cums on hands during hjob n
And you get off on that. Got it.
What about you though? Your manually procured satisfaction?
Doesn't it matter that oral feels great and gets y'all off?
Orl feel great
Some kind of phallus needed
... why?
I need bothh