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Girls, is it an issue to date a guy who slept with a lot of women? (Page 2)
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Hell yes its an issue.
For me, its disgusting. I dont feel special and feel like he would stick his dick in any vagina.
If its the other way around, a guy wouldn't date a girl who banged a lot of dudes.
They would fuck em... but not date.
It depends on how much you like the person. There was one guy that had slept with 15+ girls and I still really liked him, and then there was another guy that had slept with less and it just really bothered me for some reason.
Well thats a different answer.
I want to ask you specifics about my date Friday, but I don't want the info public since I can't delete the information, can I message you about her?
Yeah sure
I would because as I see it it's a man doing his job and getting paid for it. I support the sex industry and sex workers because it's a job and there is nothing wrong with sex as long as it is consensual for everyone involved
Wow that is very liberal of you, I have a date coming up pretty soon. I need help with a girl who seems more conservative, do you mind if I PM/message you? I wouldn't rather disclose private information that I can't delete
if it's a girl that is more conservative that is entirely her choice, first of all. she doesn't have to change her mind because some people are less comfortable with things like this. but sure, I guess
It's definitely a lot of responsibility because he has a lot of experience so he totally knows if you are doing something very wrong or not but at the same time imagining that his dick was at that many holes... 😂
Why do you think you'll do something wrong? I am worried simply because I have been rejected for disclosing my past, and now that I am entering the dating scene I am worried about the reactions
I actually have a date coming up soon, do you mind if I message you? I wouldn't rather disclose private information
Of course no problem
it depends on if he would still be sleeping with woman while he was dating them. But if that many girl has slept with him then there must be a good reason, meaning the girl shouldn't have to big of a problem.
I appreciate your opinion. Thank you for sharing it.
I was initially worried about my sexual past, and how others would react in defense to it.
I actually have a date coming up this Friday, mind if I message you for some tips? (would rather not post revealing info)
sure
The biggest problem for me would be if he has an STD and if I can trust him. I think if women are choosing to work with him, I'm assuming it's because he respects them? I know nothing about him, that's an assumption.
Crap.
Well I am worried simply because I have been rejected for disclosing my past, and now that I am entering the dating scene I am worried about the reactions.
We have some of the most rigorous STD testing standards. We on average are more healithy than the general population because of how often we get tested.
I have a date coming up soon, do you mind if I message you?
(I wouldn't rather disclose private information since I can't delete it on here)
I think they rejected you because they feel they can't trust you? Lots of people have slept with people that they regret sleeping with, so you're not the only one. What made you want to settle down? Try to emphasize that.
Yeah go ahead and message me, you just have to follow me.
Crap, I am xper1,
I will follow you, can you message me?
I'll try it now
It depends on the person, their intention and how they treat you. Their past wouldn't have that much of an impact, if he is really into me and he has changed then it's cool.
Yeah, I know genuinely wanting to settle down is a big part. I am worried simply because I have been rejected for disclosing my past, and now that I am entering the dating scene I am worried about the reactions.
I actually have a date coming up soon, do you mind if I message you? I wouldn't rather disclose private information that I can't delete
Sure
Great. follow me and then I can message you
For me, no disrespect, but yes. Unless he was an ex film star working on a career. I couldn't handle the thought of a guy I care about going out fuking other girls for money. It'd make me jealous and sad.
Is it an insecurity thing?
Mind if I message you? I actually have a date coming up this weekend, would appreciate your advice (There is private info, I would rather keep private)
Never. I wouldn't do that. I want to wait until marriage before having sex. And I want it to be the same for my girlfriend.
Wait, so it would be an issue? is it insecurity?
I have a date coming up soon, do you mind if I message you? I wouldn't rather disclose private information since I can't delete the information right here
I wouldn't date someone that had had sex before, as I don't want her to expect sex from me.
If they were committed to the relationship and didn’t get attached to any of them I wouldn’t see a problem. What’s goes on at work stays at work😂🤷🏼♀️
Wow! I hope I meet more women like you, your perfect! Now that I am getting back into the dating scene, I am worried about the reactions I am going to get
I want to ask you specifics about my date Friday, but I don't want the info public since I can't delete the information, can I message you about her?
It depends how much I like him. If I really liked him, then it would be an issue due to my insecurities and just not liking the thought of him being with that many people.
If on the other hand, I wasn't entirely in love with him, then it wouldn't be a problem
Damn so you really have to like the guy to forget about it huh? or at least your love makes you overcome your insecurities
I actually have a date soon, do you mind if I message you for tips (there is private info I would rather not reveal that I can delete)
I meant the opposite. So if I really like the guy, I wouldn't like that he has slept with so many people.
Being in love with someone doesn't actually help me personally overcome my insecurities but actually makes it worse.
Sometimes the guy is just too good looking that it makes me insecure 😂
And sure, go ahead and message me. Might time me time to reply as Im doing something
No thanks couldn't he find a real job besides fucking tons of girls its just so intresting to see another side in a men beside fucking that passionate devoted side of him and I'm sure he won't be able to keep a conversation
If he was still in the business or wanted to go back eventually, it would be a hard no. But if he wanted a 1:1 committed relationship, I would consider it!
Well I was actually worried. I have been rejected for disclosing my past, and now that I am entering the dating scene I am worried about the reactions. That is good to hear
I have a date coming up soon, do you mind if I message you? I wouldn't rather disclose private information since I can't delete the information right here
that's fine
follow me and I can message you
I'd feel a bit uneasy I think. I wouldn't feel safe in a relationship with a guy in that occupation, and 250 girls is quite a lot. I don't know if I'd feel comfortable being the 251st.
Ouch. What if I was committed to showing you that I am serious for a relationship? Thank you for your opinion.
I actually have a date coming up, I would appreciate your perspective, do you mind PM' me? (There is some personal info I would rather not reveal on here)
Hell no.
I prefer a guy who shares the same mindset of at least thought process as me.
In no possible way am I gonna date someone who is going to be having sex with other women while dating me or while in a relationship with me.
That still being in adult films is my concern.
I surely wouldn't date him for reason specified above,
But is wouldn't mind if it were kept at being friends with 300% platonic relationship.
If he has a good personality, I wouldn't on miss out on knowing him as a person, but I wouldn't possible be able to see as him as a date or potential love interest
Hmmmm difficult... Listen everyone need love. As long as his partner is careful an he is to this can be a very long and sustaining relationship. Watch out for STDs y'all
I agree, I am looking for something serious
As for the STD's we have some of the most strict STD standards. We on average are more healithy than the general population as a whole, simply because of rules and regulations in place
I actually have a date coming up this weekend, mind if I message you?
(There is private info, I would rather keep private)
yea sure go for it
Well that's great - what a relief
Follow me, then I can message you
sorry man looks like my Xper level isn't high enough - good luck tho
It's not an issue, I don't think so anyway. However many people a guy has slept with before me is none of my business. As long as he's clean I don't care
Awesome! Thats great to hear!
I have a date coming up soon, do you mind if I message you? I wouldn't rather disclose private information since I can't delete it
Yeah, you can message me
follow me, and then I can message you
As far as he keeps it to himself and stays honest and loyal in a relationship I wouldn't mind but he should respect a woman and should love her as she is... accept her with all her flaws and she'll accept him the way he is...
At first yes. I need to know what the reason is why he slept with a lot of women. Like all ONS? Diseases? Or all women he dated and he can't commit? I don't want to be just another number
Well it is my job. They weren't ONS, since its my job to preform in scenes and please the female talent. Even though we don't use protection, the testing standards are some of the most rigorous and we are some of the most healthy (compared to the general population)
I'm way too jealous for this :p
👀👀👀
Is it because its an insecurity thing? I am back into dating and worried about the reactions I would get
I don't know. Just some people wouldn't accept it.
250 is a lot of women but if he's clean and faithful I might look the other way but if he seems like a f*ckboy then no
Wow! Thats actually pretty liberal of you, kinda surprising. Though I am happy to hear :)
There is a date that I am going to go on soon.
Do you mind if I message you for some small help?
Private information, that I would rather keep private)
I don't think it would be a problem since I also slept with a lot of guys.
Awesome! I am actually a bit hesitant to get back into the dating scene because of my past. Well I am still kinda in the industry still (I am on the reserve).
I have a date soon, mind if I PM you for some advice? Don't want to reveal some personal information that I can't delete on here
No problem.
I myself won't date an adult actor but there are so many actors and actresses which date the one who they want beside the job. And also have a good long term relationships
Probably since I see sex as something really intimate. I'd probably always be insecure about my body compared to the models in those movies
Damn, that sucks. I have worked with a lot of different women in all shapes and sizes, and women are beautiful. I am just worried since, Now that I am getting back into the dating scene, I am worried about the reactions I am going to get
I want to ask you specifics about my date Friday, but I don't want the info public since I can't delete the information, can I message you about her?
Yeah :)
First of all do booboo got any STIs? It gonna be a problem. Once that's in the clear I don't see why not. I more for the emotional part not the sexual part.
I don't care what your history is as long as you're STI free. I may, however, have a problem if he (still) has emotional connections to some of these girls
It is difficult for a girl to be with a guy like that because it makes the girl ask herself if he values her... like does she matter to him or is she one of those girls...
I wouldn't be in the least bit interested in dating a guy like the one mentioned in the write-up, or any other guy who had slept with even just over 10 different women.
I would date him if he did it in the past. But if he's doing it now, I wouldn't be very comfortable with it
Ah, okay I was confused if he was your best friend or a guy you like. I know exactly how you can get him back. I am going to need more information and specifics though. Mind if I message you (or you message me) to get details?
I actually have a date soon, do you mind if I message you for tips?
I don't mind. But I have school right now.
Ah okay. So do you want to message me later?
yea, I can do that
Okay. How about in 3 hours? (also follow me so I can message you)
I can
A guy who has slept with several women is not an issue. I've personally slept with a guy who has done porn previously. What matters is if it's still going on. There's no chance for a successful relationship if a guy continues to sleep with other women for his job.