Girls, is it an issue to date a guy who slept with a lot of women? (Page 2)
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I probably wouldn't just because I'd think someone like him would be less capable of settling down with one person. If he was going to continue making the films, definitely not. If he'd stop while with me, I'd need him to prove that he can stay with just one girl somehow. I'd be really reluctant.
Is that mostly insecurity? What would that be lack of compatibility maybe? What if I can show I a ready to settle?
I have a date coming up soon, do you mind if I message you?
It's not insecurity. I've known a lot of guys who just wanted to have sex and test all the waters. They'd only stay in a relationship for a month or 2.
To show it, you'd just have to make her see she's the only one you're concerned about. After a while, the trust will build. You can message me if you want. Not sure how much help I'd be.
I can't message you. My level is 1, do you mind messaging me? Thanks
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Considering my job takes into sexual pleasure as well, it definitely would sting seeing us both connect sexually with other people, but the real fact is that we would both have sex sometimes and it would be filled with passion and lust and loves, in which we don't I've our clients/Co workers
You work in the industry too? Mind if I message you?
Message away
Depends. I wouldn't want to be just another person he can sleep with. And I would definitely have problems with him sleeping with others while being with me. I don't think the women would be a problem as long as he don't give then headspace in the relationship. If he wants to put it behind him, then I'm not going to stop him from having normal relationships
I am worried simply because I have been rejected for disclosing my past, and now that I am entering the dating scene I am worried about the reactions.
I have a date coming up soon, do you mind if I message you?
Not at all, message away
Thanks for inviting me to this debate. I would honestly say where for a girl it wouldn't stop her from dating/loving the guy if she had an interest for him, she'd always worry about it in the back of her mind. But as long as the guy doesn't have any STD's than the really shouldn't be a reason not to date him, but the guy shouldn't be surprised if every once in a while the girl he's currently dating puts the 'you slept with tons of other women" card on him since, you know, its true.
Well actually, we have some of the most strict STD standards within the industry. We on average are more healthy then the general population. I am entering the dating scene I am worried about the reactions.
" puts the 'you slept with tons of other women" card "
Damn would that happen? I have a date coming up pretty soon, do you mind if I PM you?
no problem, you can message. You sound like you need help.
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I mean it wouldn't be a straight off no. I would try if I felt there was something worth stay for but I was feel like I would be compared to all the other girls he had done that stuff with or something. So many i would feel insecure for a while, but I wouldn't just not give him a chance.
Damn why would you feel insecure? That is good to hear that you would give me a chance
I have a date coming up soon, do you mind if I message you?
(I wouldn't rather disclose private information since I can't delete it on here)
Yeah, you can send a message. 😛
I think that a lot of girls (Including myself) will fear you have done it so much you won't feel any emotion. Other than that you should have no problem getting a girl, most men have slept with quite a bit.
Also dont feel like its something you have to tell people, simply saying you are not a virgin is fine. Your past is no one elses bussiness.
" will fear you have done it so much you won't feel any emotion"
What do you mean by this? There usually isn't emotion involved since its hard to fall in love with someone you only work with for a few hours.
But yay! I appreciate your opinion. That makes me feel good!
I actually have a date soon, do you mind if I message you for tips (there is private info I would rather not reveal that I can delete).
Not at all, go ahead :)
For me No.. For other women in general maybe. I think i would just question it.. It would just feel werid, Specially if he has done it them more than 20+ women , i would not feel special in the sexuall way. But no problem if the guy was not a adult actor just had many girlfriends before: )
Is it because its an insecurity thing?
I love a guy who has experience with other women because it's always nice to have an experienced guy guiding me through everything and satisfying me professionally. But sadly 250 women is too much! It is kindoff a turn off to me I mean I wouldn't want to have sex with a horny guy who has seen hundreds of other pussies you know? in my opinion it makes him seem kinda desperate and i wouldn't feel special having sex with him
Yeah, it'd bother me. I couldn't be with someone who was having sex with other people. Honestly, I wouldn't even consider being with someone like that. Simply because ik that the relationship probably wouldn't go anywhere because he probably wouldn't stop doing what he was doing and I wouldn't change my opinion about it. So, it'd just never work out.
I don't think its an issue. If there is a serious emotional connection between the two people I don't think it should matter unless the guy starts to get romantically interested in his co-stars. If there is trust in the relationship it should be able to work out, and at least he knows what he's doing lol.