Id date a black women, because I believe 'race' is a product of social construct and I deffinitly do consider black women to be attractive. I think the reason why a lot of white men are put off in dating a black women is because I feel they may base their opinion of them based of socially constructed stereotypes that they use as a basis for understanding their personlity without knowing them thereself.
I think because there is the obvious racial differences, it may play a role in creating a barrior to some degree, I think the idea of a different race still scares people to some level because lets face it, everyone is scared of the unknown. it will be a lot harder to figure out if the black women will date them because all they have to go by is gut feeling unless they were friends before hand it would be much harder to gage how open they are.
Personally I find black women that are as dark as night to really light very attractive but id rather get to know them first on a personal level to see how they feel about it before id consider asking one out. your very attractive so it shouldn't be too hard for you, just try to be open and easy going and give off signs to show that it doesn't bother you.
Good luck :P
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Most people are not into multiracial relationships. Just look at the numbers, 2.9% of people identify as multiracial. That’s across all race lines. So very few people actually get together in serious relationships with anyone of another race and have it last. When you compare that to something else that is very uncommon like gay people (LGBT) who are 4.5% you can see how rare that really is. You’d have to be very aggressive and face a lot of rejection to find someone that matches up with your desires.
You're really gorgeous you probably intimidate a lot of white guys. No homo but you probably attract men of all races so all these people acting like black women are loud, ghetto and not cute..um hello look at this chicks profile and she is not a rare specimen either.
A lot of white guys are kinda insecure and less direct than other races. Where a black or latino would have already made his interest known, a white boy is probably gonna sit there staring at you. Do not approach him because if he wants you he should get off his ass and approach you, just smile at him and be open. If he still doesn't go after you he probably has a girlfriend or is gay lol
A lot of them actually think that they are not cool enough to approach a Black Woman so the tend to be a bit afraid. I've had some WM approach me walking and talking the way a gangster does because they think it would attract us somehow, but it's actually a huge turn off. If you see a WM you are interested in, don't be afraid to show him that you are because I think a lot of them are waithing from some kind of signal from you. That's how it was with my ex. Good luck.
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hmm afraid? not really. personally I would only approach a girl that is showing interest in me. so I would probably have to know her a little from friends etc.
although, speaking from personal experience most black women where I'm from are very loud and obnoxious. moreso than others at least. I also tend to like very small, cute and petite type features and lets face it, most black women don't have very petite features. do I find them unattractive? no. there are a lot of beautiful black girls. it basically boils down to how much we have in common. I haven't met very many black girls into my type of music, clothing style etc. and so far I haven't met very many that like the things I do.For most girls, I don't really approach until they have given me some kind of indicator that they are interested in me. While walking down the hallway of your school, look directly into the eyes of the guy you like, smile, wave, and say "Hi." After that happens a couple of times, I would probably try to talk to her unless I just wasn't into her at all. I'm not sure if you already do these things, but... This is mainly what I would need before I approach. I'm not sure about other white guys.
We aren't really that different from any other kind of guy, so I'm sure you can get a white guy if you really want one.this one guy is pretty rude(anonymous user). you don't need to be racist here f***in bastard. Obama was chosen by the people all around the US so if you don't like him then watch your f***in mouth. or are you jealous because your dad did not even qualified to become one of the US pres. and to date beyonce I believe she would say: "owh I'd rather f*** a horse than this dude"
Depends on whether or not I know them. If I do, then it isn't really a big deal. If I don't then it can be a little scary. For example, I would be less likely to approach a black woman at bar than a white woman because I'm not sure how she would take being approached by a white man. However, I have asked a black woman out before and, because I knew her well enough to know that race wouldn't be an issue, it really wasn't any more intimidating than asking out anyone else.
No, not at all. I've never approached one, but I rarely approach anyone ever. I would though. Race doesn't change anything if I like you and attracted to you. I remember one girl I went to high school with, she was gorgeous! I would have loved to ask her out, but she wasn't single. But don't wait for us guys to do it, approach them!
I'm not attracted to black girls. Plus you probably have a brother who would shoot me in the face if I upset you and I don't like that. Also Barack Obama is black, and I don't like him because he's the worst President ever. But maybe I would date a black girl. Like Stacey Dash or Beyonce.
Yes, because the cultural differences are usually so big. Most white guys don't even know what to say to black girls, which is why some white guys try to act black in a sense. Plus, there are a lot of black girls who really don't like white guys to the point of hating us. It's hard for us to know the difference.
Personally, I've never been attracted to a black girl. Perhaps being from an area were there are only white people I'm just used to liking white girls. Maybe I haven't seen the right girl? Who knows, but for now I still only like white girls.
yes! some are. They can be intimidated in all sorts of ways.
Yes, I think they are.
some are, because they think were not interested
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