Girls, hey girls, need your opinion about what this type of hug means, please help?

[Anonymous]

Hi everyone :)
well let me start off by telling u about me this girl im seeing, im 26 and she is 19, we have hooked up a couple times, but haven't had "intercourse" (lmao sorry for a lack of better wording), but we aren't "official" bf-gf.

now what my question is, when I usually hug her for a long time and tightly, she grabs around my neck like usual, but then starts scratching my back and rubbing her hands around my back, so what does that mean lol? I thought if somebody rubs your back you are friendzoned lol, but we hookup.

what does it mean when she does that? also, what do you like and don't like a guy to do when he hugs you?

[smg1018]

Lol she’s not friend-zoning you, it’s just the way she hugs I guess. When a guy hugs me i just want a normal hug. I don’t want him to feel me up or anything, just a normal “bear” hug.

[Asker]

im not grabbing for the boobs or booty lol, just a nice bear hug to show I care for her, and I think at least, that it makes her feel loved, but I have no clue what she thinks lol

[smg1018]

She’ll like that :)

[Asker]

so you wouldn't do this to a guy you don't like right? I don't wanna look like a douche asking her personally lol

[smg1018]

Yeah you wouldn’t do that to a guy that you don’t like.

[Asker]

ok ty :)

[smg1018]

No problem

[fantasypeach]

Lol, I think she’s hella flirting with you. When I’m in the mood I rub my hand on his neck and down to his back when hugging

[Asker]

so u wouldn't do this to a guy you aren't "attracted to" or that you would friendzone his ass?

[fantasypeach]

If I wasn’t attracted to a guy/would friendzone someone, I don’t even think I’d hug them at all (if they hugged me I’d probably let them & just not hug back) so I don't know.

[Asker]

ok ty for askin :)

[Asker]

whoops, I mean answering lol