Are quiet, cold women attractive to you? If so, what makes them more attractive?

[Anonymous]

[BitterSweetApplePie]

I've tested both.
I used to be very cold, quiet, and aloof and most people chose to avoid me. Especially guys.
Now I'm more open, warm, and bubbly and guys always want to talk to me, even if I'm in a relationship.

Blocking myself off in a deliberate way to everyone resulted in them having negative opinions of me and didn't attract guys. I couldn't get a date when I was like that, but as soon as I became a more open person I found a boyfriend almost immediately and I don't regret it. Guys don't like to be snubbed and ignored and honestly it doesn't seem like guys even like girls that play hard to get all of the time, maybe just a little bit but when that's what your entire personality consists of then you just come off as a bitch even if it's not done intentionally.

If a woman is attractive physically, then she's just that, but if her personality isn't present then he's probably not going to pursue.

[Anonymous]

theyre come off more mysterious for starters. Ambitious bc she seems like she doesn't care about anyone but herself. In essence, she seems confident. Charismatic bc of the little words she says but still come off witty and you just want to hear more of her voice.

[IamBeautyboy]

How so?

[Opinion Owner]

@IamBeautyboy how so what LOL be specific. The quietness lets your imagination go wild. You think about what kind of person she could be. A fantasy that you build in your head because she doesn't say much. thats what I think

[IamBeautyboy]

Dont think so... Why?

[Opinion Owner]

@IamBeautyboy fucking why what? Its just my opinion! Its what my brain processes when I see a quiet but strikingly beautiful girl. What do you think then.

[IamBeautyboy]

Can you please explain your opinion?

[Opinion Owner]

@IamBeautyboy Bruh there's nothing to explain. Its a fantasy that builds up in my head.

[IamBeautyboy]

there are still reasons on how it builds in your head. Some are unconscious , some are not.
It is supposed to be based on something that has to do with your thoughts, that have to do with something else.
I would like to know the real reason on that.

[Opinion Owner]

@IamBeautyboy It's probably because it's they type of girl that turns me on the most. Someone who is confident, charismatic, and strong-willed. When I see a girl who's quiet and has a intimidating aura, I guess my brain automatically associates her quietness as to someone who is grounded to her own thoughts and doesn't feel the need be friendly with others bc she can easily draw people in with her demeanor and wittiness.

[depeche2015]

i like don't like cold women but i do like quiet, nice girls. my brother has made me a little insecure by saying how quiet, introverted women are bitches and that no one likes them.

[Obfuscate]

it depends on how you define cold... quiet is not a big deal really... i am very quiet... cold has a wide variety of connotations, some of which would bother me... i know that some people think i am cold and other think i am very caring... i don't need to hear sweet nothings every second of the day to know i am cared about, but some sort of verbal expression (even if rare) is appreciated... i think there are a wide variety of ways to express fondness, compassion, and love... as long as i know that i matter, than they are potentially someone that i could be with...

[Guardian412]

The mystery and the resistance. They're a challenge for men. That is making them attractive. They're not playing hard to get. They're actually hard to get.

[jennifer_bloom]

I used to be very quiet and 2 of the hottest guys at school liked me. Dozens of guys liked me and i was only average looking and got terrible grades in school - this was back in my high school days. Now I'm very outgoing and loud.

[BigGuy8]

I think a lot of guys find these cold, quiet women may be "closet freaks" who turn out to secretly be a dominatrix like the librarian in the movie Tom Cats. We always find ourselves fantasizing about the woman you see every day who seems totally normal but behind closed doors is completely different. I think that fantasy spills over into the curiosities of what a quiet woman is hiding. Seemingly quiet, timid women could easily push you on your back and ride you into sunrise, or tease you in public. You just never know. The quiet can still be flirty and coy, and they keep you wondering what will come next if you take the bait. Sometimes it turns out she really is just quiet. Sometimes you find out you've found someone with a secret only certain people get let in on.

[Voyager_k]

It's a major attraction for me.
Mysterious girls are sexy!
Sexy in personality.
I find them very very attractive as I'm in the same league.

They are never over enthusiastic about anything.
Perfect excitement for everything.
They are the ones who understand me.
They can do any work calmly.

[Miristheiss]

"Cold"? I depends on what that means.

If she gives off a reserved demeanor..."cold" I'm fine with that so long as she isn't cold with me one on one, as long as she opens up to me and shares her heart and shows me the warmth in her heart that the rest of the world may not see than of course she'd be attractive. If she were cold to me as well and I always felt as if she doesn't care for me and won't share her heart with me than no, I'd not be attracted to that.

[OfDeath]

Lol wtf no! Have you ever tried actually living with someone like that?
Well I have. If you get into an argument with someone like that or just disagree with one of their ideas, they just go all silent on you for days and they don't give a crap either.
What's worse is they don't even tell you why they're pissed off or even try to compromise on anything.
The person I'm talking about would do things like throw away all the coffee cups in the house and then 3 weeks later when she finally decided to talk, it's because I left one cup in the sink unwashed lol

So no, women like that are psychos.

[TripleAce]

Not at all
I've been with both and quiet and cold is probably the worst combo
You can have in a women

Cold means she basically doesn't give a shit and quiet means she doesn't have the tenacity to fix situations or make moves that matter

Blah. Sooooo blah
P. s they also think we can like read their minds. So when shit goes bad they blame us but don't have the balls to mention it

Soooo annoying lol

[Sauron2099]

Quiet and cold in general or just with strangers? If the former then yes and very much so, since those women tend to rely more on the logical aspect of thinking rather than emotional, which is something I personally can't wait to find in a woman, I've got something to accomplish and I need as much depraved and intelligent woman as possible. As for the latter, no.

[guilly18butnot]

Quite yes. Cold, no way.

A person who plays cool is a person full of insecurities, particularly women. One thing is playing hard to catch and another thing is playing the role of a feelingless bitch. No thank you. Even if she's the most gorgeous woman on Earth.

[winterfox10]

Cold? No. Cold women are not attractive to me at all. Quiet women are, but there is a big big difference between cold and mysterious. Mysterious is playing things close to the vest, and not giving up many details about yourself very quickly, cold is not letting people even want to get closer to you.

[redreddyred]

I’m attracted to freezing sub-zero degree women. It makes sex hard because as soon as I stick my cock in her pussy, I start getting frozen. Then my dick freezes and snaps off as I try to pull out of her. She laughs at my pain and then freezes me with her powers. I then become a statue for her to look at. So hot...

[lemonzzz]

LMAOOO

[redreddyred]

Laugh it up ya dirty bitch 😘

[kiran07]

Bitch me please.
1. cold woman will be attratctd in frst moment with them if dy r beautyfl or if u lyk her.
2. cold woman is very very hard to go on long relationship.
3. i have xprnce cz i had sm1 lyk dt.
4. oly for romance it l make dm attractive dts fr sure. rest tooo much headache for boys

[VeryCrazyGuy]

Quiet colder persons are like that because the past made them like that.
I find them the most interesting girls because they never stop surprizing you
I like those funny girls... but i would always take the quiet one if i have to chose
Strong essences are always kept in small bottles somewhere behind

[Kawabanga1]

mysterious? lol all these guys commenting are lying to themselves.
its easy, idont like attention or girls that feed off attention and quiet, colder girls dont exactly need that much attention and they are just chill and cool to hang out with without having to work too hard , thats it really

[LivingDeath]

In my opinion it doesn't make them any different to any other person I've met. If they can still talk about stuff and generally have a good time, even if it's in a different way, then they would be a great girl in my eyes.

[BrittBratt2416]

hasn't worked for me.. im quiet and always cold.. I blame poor blood circulation for that.

[HOAAH]

lol, i liked this answer

[MrNameless]

hell no. Its one thing if she's quiet, but if she's cold/unapproachable, then its not gonna work with me. I'm not putting extra work for a woman that can't be friendly

[weaponsdude]

Let's see... quite is ok... cold? Negative ghost rider. Unfortunately, you don't find out just how cold someone is until after they have your heart to do with as they please. Cold bitches are usually better in bed too. So they are good for something.

[englisc]

I'm not sure, it depends on what you mean by that. If she's just introverted and not very expressive then that's fine, but if she's really closed off emotionally then no it's not attractive.

[amp3d]

If a cold person is found attractive, it most certainly has to be physical attraction. There is no reason why a cold, quiet person would he found attractive by any other means.

[Anonymous]

Not really, I'll assume they aren't interested and then not even bother investing time...

And then this is how shy guys meet bad girls...

We will find a girl who is open, friendly and seems to like us...

But then they end up manipulating us for attention, money, friendship, etc.