not really... men see this as they are being rejected. You might have lost a lot of opportunities with good people. Guys like to chase so they might take it as a challenge for them? I don't know.
I'm a very talkative and arrogant person I like to trouble my girlfriend all the time so I don't think I would find a quiet girl attractive... I mean I would find her attractive but wouldn't want a relationship
I mean, who likes cold people? Quiet and even a bit shy can be attractive to some people though. Depending on what you mean by quiet. If you're silent all the time who's going to get to know you and therefore get attracter to you?
I only like them when they respect me, I hate the quiet type that avoid my eye contact and don’t respond to me. it comes off as rude and makes me want to withdraw.
When a girl is Quiet, she is either shy, has nothing to say nor not interested in the guy. (Sorry but this app does have dating questions so I thought it was referring to dating / flirting)
No on the cold part, quite thinkers are awesome. I like a woman that can actually think things out, than runs off with the first thing that comes to mind.
No. I once tried to hit on one of those (because she was hot, and obviously hard to get). But she was cold as a mofo. It irritates me when people can't just reject you outright.
@PetrovaFire92 I simply don't mesh well with people who aren't going to be amiable or open to conversation in any form. When I initiate or reply to a conversation, I invest interest and time to it, if the other person is unwilling to do it for ANY reason, then I simply lose interest as fast as lightning strikes. A quiet and/or cold person usually don't reflect the investment I put into making a conversation or connection, hence I feel like I'm just wasting my time on them when I can use it on something else.
@Mikewatson Quiet > quiet. Cold > generally refers to unemotional or depending on who you talk to it can also be rude. When someone calls you "cold" it usually means you come across uncaring or unemotional. They're quite related as far as my personal understanding is concerned.
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not really... men see this as they are being rejected. You might have lost a lot of opportunities with good people. Guys like to chase so they might take it as a challenge for them? I don't know.
Absolutely attractive since I'm quite myself and wouldn't want to look boring or uninteresting if I'm with a wild extrovert one.
I'm a very talkative and arrogant person I like to trouble my girlfriend all the time so I don't think I would find a quiet girl attractive... I mean I would find her attractive but wouldn't want a relationship
Cold and silent treatment means NO
Don't have time to communicate with a creature who lacks communication skills and afraid of confrontation.
YES!!! 🤣😎
Oh i'm not confrontational but its not because i'm cold, I'm just a really shy person.
I mean, who likes cold people? Quiet and even a bit shy can be attractive to some people though. Depending on what you mean by quiet. If you're silent all the time who's going to get to know you and therefore get attracter to you?
I think outgoing and talkative women who are not afraid to show their emotions are more attractive. Everybody has a different taste though.
I only like them when they respect me, I hate the quiet type that avoid my eye contact and don’t respond to me. it comes off as rude and makes me want to withdraw.
When a girl is Quiet, she is either shy, has nothing to say nor not interested in the guy. (Sorry but this app does have dating questions so I thought it was referring to dating / flirting)
Accurate.
I don’t understand girls. I try to, in how they are feeling and emotions but I am very bad at that.
I don’t understand guys either
What do you mean "Cold"? I mean, I like quiet women, they usually are the shy and nice ones! I mean, I'm shy myself..
This is me expect I’m not quite all the time - guys don’t like my personality
Nah I need me someone who’s warm and affectionate. I don’t mind them being quiet.
Yes, they love my personality and how I am not shy and don't care what people think of me , I am just happy and outgoing
No on the cold part, quite thinkers are awesome. I like a woman that can actually think things out, than runs off with the first thing that comes to mind.
No. I once tried to hit on one of those (because she was hot, and obviously hard to get). But she was cold as a mofo. It irritates me when people can't just reject you outright.
Quiet is great... but not cold. If I can't communicate with her then I don't want her.
Quiet is okays, but I wouldn't want someone who is emotionally closed off
No not really, if anything, they are just harder to get along with.
Why how?
@PetrovaFire92 I simply don't mesh well with people who aren't going to be amiable or open to conversation in any form. When I initiate or reply to a conversation, I invest interest and time to it, if the other person is unwilling to do it for ANY reason, then I simply lose interest as fast as lightning strikes. A quiet and/or cold person usually don't reflect the investment I put into making a conversation or connection, hence I feel like I'm just wasting my time on them when I can use it on something else.
I don't get how being quiet and unemotional is apparently sexy, personally.
There is no relation between those things actually
@Mikewatson Quiet > quiet. Cold > generally refers to unemotional or depending on who you talk to it can also be rude. When someone calls you "cold" it usually means you come across uncaring or unemotional. They're quite related as far as my personal understanding is concerned.
Yes! Maybe the different look or the mystery in their eyes... I don't know, it have a special feeling x)
Quiet is fine, cold... nope! I'm an affectionate guy, I couldn't be with a cold woman.