Why waste your time with someone that plays games? I'm not going to put any one sided effort in anyone like that when there are thousands of other potentials
I've never tried it as I've never had an admirer that I was aware of.. actually it might work very well as I've been asked out 3 times by not trying to get a girl 😅
playing hard to get is something most girls suck hard about, literally I've to encounter a girl who can keep this up with me in a way that doesn't show disinterest or moody behaviour
It all depends on the person. Playing hard to get is likely to go completely over my head and I'd probably just try to become friends with the person, however my friend used to love it when girls would do that.
What if she was usually initating the contact and he was passive - only responding. So she stops writing. What if he don’t write before the date to confirm? Should she not show up? The relation lasted for months.
I think that if you play "hard to get" and you want him to keep trying harder, you need to give him some little "pluses"... Play hard to get, but in certaim moment, touch her hand for exemple
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Why waste your time with someone that plays games? I'm not going to put any one sided effort in anyone like that when there are thousands of other potentials
I've never tried it as I've never had an admirer that I was aware of.. actually it might work very well as I've been asked out 3 times by not trying to get a girl 😅
Chase and Challenged Can help if Done, hun, The Right Way. xx
It doesn't work on me as a woman. However, it works on almost all guys at any age.
I love the chase. I don't want it to be easy, just like I don't want her to be easy. At the same time I don't want it to be so hard that I give up.
playing hard to get is something most girls suck hard about, literally I've to encounter a girl who can keep this up with me in a way that doesn't show disinterest or moody behaviour
No it doesn't.
With kids and immature youngsters, maybe.
+24 ish defo nah, it's seen as fake, childish, stupid and arrogant.
Depends on the guy probably. If they're pathetic then they'll probably want you more, if they're not then the opposite.
the moment a girl try to play it hard on me i stop cause i have a Pride to protect i hate to look like a needy guy ewww its not manly
If a girl like me back, I wish she'd just say it instead of trying to make me jump through hurdles ya know
Playing a little hard to get is good but not too aloof - that’s just a turn off, personally.
any kind of 'playing' or acting collapses sooner or later. Be yourself, and that's it
It all depends on the person. Playing hard to get is likely to go completely over my head and I'd probably just try to become friends with the person, however my friend used to love it when girls would do that.
Works on weird people who become obsessed with others. As in not person I would want to date.
Not for me, no.
Even as a hookup, I'd probably literally just kick you out of my place afterwards.
If a girl plays hard to get I assume she isn't interested and move on.
What if she was usually initating the contact and he was passive - only responding. So she stops writing. What if he don’t write before the date to confirm? Should she not show up? The relation lasted for months.
If he doesn't confirm, you should, maybe he thought it was already confirmed.
It would not work on me.
id just assume is it something i did wrong or are they being disrespectful
I wouldn't like either assumption if they really are a good person.
To play this kind of game is nothing but a shame.
I'm on of those guys who would despise of any bad lies,
and instead would be one that decides to be wise and realize
anytime they see it with their own eyes, whenever any bad problems might start to arise,
they solve them with nothing but peace and compromise.
stay in school, dont act a fool.
cause that's one thing that just ain't cool.
im one of them there type of guys
who thinks it would be wise to realize
when any lies or problems start to arise
I try solve them with peace and compronise.
playing hard to get,
is such a risky bet.
why should you do this to someone nice, that you've met?
when it only just might make them feel upset.
you might become someone, that they'd rather forget.
so don't try anything you might later regret.
be wise, apoligize, and dont create any debt.
I think that if you play "hard to get" and you want him to keep trying harder, you need to give him some little "pluses"... Play hard to get, but in certaim moment, touch her hand for exemple
Its annoying just go for it and don't try it. It won't attract the right guys
Personally. I'm flat faced about that kinda stuff so no, I'll just stop perusing