I’m 18 and literally don’t know how to kiss?

[Anonymous]

Long in the short— I’m a freshman in college. In high school, and I am not trying to be cocky, a lot of guys liked me. I had standards that were too high and whenever I was in a situation to actually kiss a guy I would panic and play it off like I didn’t like them. I also had a bad experience sophomore year where a guy tried to force himself onto me and since then guys trying to kiss me makes me anxious. Now I’m in college and the same thing is happening. Guys assume that I have done everything and the fact is I’ve done nothing. It’s embarrassing but give me kissing advice please!! Like making out

[MementoMori_]

You are not alone. I have known girls who were absolutely stunning but did not have any experience at all with even things like kissing like you. It's not as easy as people think be a beautiful girl with guys hitting you all the time. I can see how you would be wary of them.

Kissing isn't hard. Let the guy initiate it, you don't need to do that, it's his job (the first time anyway). If you are with someone who you want to kiss and he initiates it, just relax and let it come naturally. If he has some experience just follow his lead... you will get the hang of it very fast. I like to be very gentle the first time I kiss a girl... and let her tell me by her reaction if she wants to get a little hotter. I think the guy should lead the process...

Other than that, just go with it, play a little bit and do what you feel. Start out lightly... and see where things go.

[OnlyYouKnowThat]

Stop being embarrassed and admit that you are inexperienced there is no shame in not being experienced. Just because a guy likes you doesn't men you're obliged to kiss him you don't need to prove anything to him or anyone else. When you find someone you really like then kiss in your own time, it's not that hard and it will come naturally to you.

[ChocolateCheesecake]

When you meet somebody just tell him that you don't know how he will lead you'll get the hang of it

[alexandremp]

Instead of meet a guy and go for kiss, meet him as a person and tell them you can work out on your kisses. You can start very slow and soft. Small. After it will start to come very natural. It is normal dont know how to kiss. But even a bad kiss in your age is going to feel god 😂

[alexandremp]

Good*

[Luis-158]

Umm I think it would be good if you didn't panicked to begin with, besides of that I would recommend you letting your partner take the lead during the kiss, it was like that my first time

[Zer0Ghost]

There's no real advice here, practice makes you better and you can't practice if you never start to begin with

[serious]

it's fine if you don't know how to kiss. You don't have to know how to kiss.

[Anonymous]

Watch people making out online or in movies.
Then make a fist and practice on the side of your hand between your thumb and finger.
Mimic what they're doing.

[AntonSomm]

Relax , not a lot of tounge just little light soft licks , bite the bottom lip , pull them close to you , not a lot of tounge did I say not a lot of tounge already?

[christhomp]

Just start out slow and simply kissing lips, then follow his lead. You can also tell him the truth, if he's bothered by it (which I highly doubt any guys will be) then he's not worth your time.

[stormbreaker06]

don't think about it. just do it. and don't do something you shouldn't do.

[vald9inches]

you have to learn to kiss something else first... :3