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If this is genuinely what you want you basically have to become the man in the relationship and flirt the way a man does and you have to set this frame early on. At the same time, unless you want a relationship with a complete pussy, you have to do it in a way that is respectful and doesn't emasculate him. This is the main reason guys won't let a woman lead - if you can lead while still making him feel like a man then it's win-win. You say you're not a sadist but more of a gentle dominant, so I guess you won't have trouble with that.
You have to be the one to make the first moves and take the lead, from asking the guy out to initiating physical contact, kissing, sex, establishing the relationship etc. You have to make this enjoyable. So for example if he tries to make the move, don't try to make him feel bad about it. Instead make it fun - tease him. Being teased is fun and sexy, being rejected isn't. Instead of an attitude of "how dare you try to make a move on me", instead it's "hmm nice try but not yet, not until I say so ;)"
Be comfortable with sexual tension - more comfortable than him. The more dominant one is usually the one who is and it all comes down to the tension battles: who looks away first, who fills in the tense silences, who is the shyer one when it comes to the sexual tension. Sexual tension is easy to create, I could probably write a whole take on it, but it exists naturally between two people who like each other. You just have to cut out things that break it e. g. talking a lot, being very reactive (supplicating facial expressions, laughing a lot, big goofy smiles, raised eyebrows etc.), fidgeting, being quick to fill in silences. All behaviours designed to break the natural tension that already exists. The person who does less of this is usually the more dominant one.
Use dominant language. When you want something tell, don't ask. When you're choosing where to go, don't ask "where do you want to go?", instead say "lets go to X" or "which do you fancy, X or Y?". Later on when you know you fancy him playfully accuse him of being trouble, of being naughty etc. Maybe even slip in some kinkier stuff if you're confident enough. "We know what happens to naughty boys...", "Seems like you need a little discipline". If he's attracted to you and isn't too interested in being the dominant one he'll find this kind of talk hot and will play into it.
If you are more into you're masculine at core then you need to find guys which are more into their feminine otherwise... if you gonna try to hit on guys which are more into their masculine. They gonna be turned off very quick. And the polarity is going to disappear.
Ideally, it would already be an asset if you were taller than him in the first place. This already gives you the advantage over him as you can look down at him, but not a negative way but more a way that suggests "I am in control".
Don't give him the opportunity to make him feel that he has the upper hand in what you do in common. That starts by settling each your own share if you go out. This is a signal that you are independent and that you are at least his equal.
When you talk, ensure that your answers are always precise and up to the point. Don't give him vague replies that would suggest that you lack character or rely on him to make a decision.
If you kiss, take the initiative to kiss him first. Best on a couch or bed while you chose the position. Sit on his lap and push him down on the bed/sofa while you take the upper position and kiss him where you want to kiss and not the opposite.
When and if you get intimate, don't let him ride you but take the initiative and take a reverse cowgirl position with you doing the pelvis movements. The reverse cowgirl position suggests that you don't need to have eye contact to feel at ease with what you do. Switch to the normal cowgirl position and place your hands over his chest, pinning him down while you make sure that your legs put a firm grip around his legs, as if you were riding a stallion.
Hot picture!
It should be easy enough. Tell them that you like a guy who knows his place - on all fours.
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Hum...
There's a *ton* of male subs over on fetlife...
A profile there would ensure that they'd know if that's what you want.
Mind you, some of them will top from the bottom...
As for dating sub males in a vanilla setting.
Honestly I don't have the faintest...
My own preferences are of the exact oppsite relationship type...
So all I can say is good luck...
I would love a more dominant woman, not because I am any less of a man but more because I just like to see her happy. If she is happy, I am happy... it is not a bad place to be!
The image expresses exactly what gentle femdom really means. She sits above him and he accepts his place at her feet. As well-behaved as he sits there, he would not contradict her when she asks him to kiss her feet. Likewise, he would certainly put up with her gently pushing her feet into his face and rubbing her toes on his cheeks. Many dominant women demonstrate their superiority in this way.
Gently slap him before kissing him. When sitting on the sofa, ask him to massage your feet, then put your feet on his face. Grab his hands and pin them down while kissing him. Those all sound good for a strat.
I agree, a woman's place should never be beneath a guy's. Too bad most girls love being degraded and subordinated like a piece of trash.
headpats are always a good thing to use to gauge receptiveness to gentle domming
Just find one of those skinny and awkward dudes that have never dated anyone
Because the average dude wouldn't let you do all that
Wrestle him, pin him down, and make him your bitch ;)
I would say talking about taking control. How it's fun to be bossy or make decisions. Makes jokes about it and see how the person responds. Look for embarrassment or funny expressions.
That's like basically saying you want a guy to be your pet lol and that makes you a sadistic, you'll need to find a masochist who submits to you 😂
Just flirt with the more effeminate guys and you'll be fine.
That’s actually very alluring!!!
ask them what they think about dominatrix
Psycho.
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