How to approach a girl wearing headphones in the gym? And should I even?

[Anonymous]

There is this girl at the gym that always looks at me and just keeps circuling around me like a bee the whole workout but she always have her headphones
So is it OK to approach a girl with her headphones on and how?

Updates

+1 y

Side note: when I rest between sets she usually sits right in front of me and stares like every 5 secs so I am pretty sure she might be interested

[SueShe]

Headphone = DO NOT TALK, DO NOT DISTURB, DO NOT FLIRT.

The message could not be clearer than that. Whatever your hormones are telling you, you just don't do it.

Headphones are the number one sign that a person does not want to be disturbed. This is the best and most understandable sign and message that you should not flirt with a person that has a headphone.

If you would ever would do that to me, I would bite your head off.

[flaskhalffull]

Wearing headphones means she is in her own world and doesn't want anyone approaching her. She might not even notice you're there even if she does 'circle' you sometimes. I would not say anything to her.

She's just trying to be healthy and I doubt saying something to her will get you a positive reaction.

[Truthatanycost]

''so I am pretty sure she might be interested ''

Not necessarily. She may just be after your validation. This is why guys are too easy, a girl hardly has to do anything and already you're thinking about doing something. I say make them work for it!

[Asker]

Well guys are expected to make the first move most of the time

[jaygee933]

Typically the gym is not a good place to try to meet people unless there is an undeniable spark between both of you.

[Elleymei]

As a chick in the gym with big red headphones. They are a big red fuck off sign.

[Elleymei]

Based on your update: she wants to fuck you then.

[Asker]

Sarcastic or for real lol? I just don't wanna be rude as I tend to be mad when someone inturupt a good song during my workout

[Elleymei]

I don't know could be legit.. thing is you’re never gonna know unless you make a move to find out.. the thing about females is that we may be attracted to you and may try to hint it in some of your body language.. but typically women are confusing beings and wait for the guy to make the first move regardless of how attracted she is to him.

[October808]

Yes! Tap her nicely on the shoulder, ask her what she's listening to. She might let you listen; if you like what you hear you might be able to engage her more with your reaction to it.

[Iron_Man]

I don't bother with those I'm there to do a job to train not to find myself side tracked.
I leave mingling to the streets

[winterfox10]

Headphones are a surefire sign that you should NOT approach.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Yes. Its obvious she likes you. Make face to face eye contact with her then go from there and talk to her.

[Ray_Lala]

I use headphones in gym because I don't want to talk

[COMMODOREII]

Sure. Wave at her and ask her to spot you.