Why doesn't he want people to know?

Anonymous
Ok, so I have a boyfriend and we knew each other for about 4 years buy we never went out until he started goig to my school. We have been together since November and then in January we broke up for a month and a day and then two day after Valentine's day he asked me back out, but secrely he wanted to go back out. When we broke up like a lot if people were like go back out, y'all were so cute together. I'm not sure if that's why he doest want people to know why. Or that he's talking to someone else while we're together and if it works out he'll break up with me, but I'm Not sure. I'm paranoid and that was a simmilar reason we broke up the first time. Its not that I don't trust him I do, but he has never liked only one girl. It's always been more than one and he left his old girlfriend for me and Idkk if he'd do that to me, but it's like we have this special connection and something about him I love and attracts me to him and the same thing for me to him. He tells me he loves me and I feel that he means it, I love to to the fullest and I think he knows that. But I'm not sure why he doesn't want people to know we date, people already say it anyway so why not admit it. And before me he went out with this girl and that was his first love, and now they are "best friends" sometimes he tells me that he wants her back and if they didn't break up they would have been together for ever and stuff like that, when he says that that makes me feel like I'm just someone he's setteling for and I think he didn't even tell her we go out because he's trying to get her back even though I think he thinks it might not happen but he doesn't want to give up faith. I feel like I have him but then I feel like I don't since he's still in love with his ex. Is that maybe a reason he doesn't want anyone to know? I'm so confused, please help me. I love him so much and I don't want to let him go, but I really need some advice.
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She doesn't love him back like that.
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I know he might hurt me but itsalways something that brings up back together. Hetold me he likes me more than her and everyone still has feelings for their exs. Istill have some for mine but right now at the moment Iam completely in love with my boyfriend
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