How often do/are you willing to compliment your current/future crush/significant other? (Page 2)

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It’s just not my style. I won't go into details about all the reasons why me and this last douche didn't work out, but one of the reasons was how much he fished for compliments. We talked for a month but It was so annoying. Like first impression was amazing and we liked eachothers looks/personality. But later on he kept blowing up my phone with all his insta pics (because i dont have insta).  Like he needed me to compliment every selfie he posted. I don't know if it was cause he was a cancer zodiac lol but He needed constant validation about his hotness. Yea Im not gonna be a parrot repeating what i already told you once before and what you obviously already know looks good. This mf went so far as to start talking to other people to receive more compliments. So far as to use that app filter that turns him into a girl just so he could troll guys and get compliments. Like wtf. He claims he's not gay/bi but thats some crazy caitlyn jenner shit right there. That was enough to make me dip and dodge his ass.  by the way, I see nothing wrong with randomly complimenting someone once or twice a week, but if you make me do it more than that, then im not being genuine. I also dont like to be complimented constantly, especially with big words like “beautiful”/“gorgeous”. I may believe it the first time but afterwards, it feels like bullshit. Call it insecurities if you want but i know when somethings no longer genuine #FeelFreeToList #FishinForCompliments

Jamie05rhs · Answer

I have no problem giving out compliments in a relationship, or even to friends. But if it's someone I don't know who I have a crush on, I will generally keep my mouth shut.

Avicenna · Answer

Quite often. I dont hide my positive opinion of her.

whitehide · Answer

I would be willing to compliment my future girlfriend every day. I love building up the people I love

venomhbk1313 · Answer

It's always good to compliment a woman on her beauty and other things the way she looks the way her hair looks it's always good to do that cuz if you don't then she may never know you like her

Anpu23 · Answer

I try and compliment her daily. Especially in areas where she is struggling.

nodnol32 · Answer

I only compliment her when i feel its coming naturally and I'm not trying hard.

Uptowngirl88 · Answer

Not often because I don't want someone who needs constant validation. If im with you obviously I like you

Juxtapose · Answer

If a woman doesn't compliment me even a quarter as much as I compliment her, she probably doesn't feel much about me.

Dchrls78104 · Answer

Anytime, as much as the love in my heart impelled me to, and as long as I know she appreciated them instead of demanding or fishing for it.

Tunasub · Answer

I give compliments as I see fit... I can't stand when folks fish for compliments

bklynbadboy1 · Answer

I don't mind complimenting a girl but I don't like it if the fish for them let me do it on my own free will

Lovely_kh · Answer

True... But, I have seen girls in this character. They wanted to keep getting compliments from time to time. A guy doing this is something strange... Lol 😅

Chris2769 · Answer

Aa much as she needs. How much does girls “need” it , in a respectable way?✌🏻

vasilias · Answer

Fishing for compliments is just wrong. Earn it instead. I'll compliment if I see the need to. If she dress nicely. Smell good. Done something nice etc

GreenGold1992 · Answer

as much as reasonably possible, but not too much, don't wanna overdo it.

Anonymous · Answer

Often enough to the point where they tell me to shut up while blushing lol.

Anonymous · Answer

I compliment the boyfriend constantly. It’s something couples should do to boost each other. It feels good for us and he does it for me.

lanadelrey25 · Answer

All the time, I love giving compliments.

worldscolide · Answer

All the time. Like as much as i can honestly.

Dnice1 · Answer

All the time! He's truly an amazing Guy! ❤❤❤

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