True or False: If a guy likes you, you'll know.

[ducatisti]

What if guys pretend to not like a girl but they actually do because of underlying circumstances? If a guy likes you, will you know?

[Anonymous]

lmao TOTALLY false.

Ive known friends who like my friends but are too scared to tell them.

Ive had friends who like other girls but are currently dating someone and they think its wrong to end a relationship, even if they aren't into their girl anymore.

I've heard rumors about guys liking me who I would have never guessed liked me. One particular case stood out in high school.

Some guy from high school, this shy kid, kind of nerdy but also really attractive actually, liked me all through middle school and high school. He lived in my neighborhood, and I kid you not, this kid NEVER talked to me in high school until senior year. before that year, the last conversation we'd had was when I was 12 and I stopped by his house selling girlscout cookies. I had no idea he liked me. then apparently some people found out he was going to ask me out because my ex-bf and I were split up on account of him being an ass wipe. Said ex-bf found out before I did and went to the kids house and beat him up on his own front lawn. I didn't find out about this until a few days later. I was confused, I knew the ex was a jerk, but this kid was never on his radar before so I wanted to know why he beat him up, but he didn't tell me. Luckily, the rumor mill served me well in high school, and I found out through others, confronted my ex about it, and he confessed. huge argument followed, and we were really done. I was pissed, I called his mom and insulted her for raising an asshole...yeah. it was officially over. insult a guys mom and for most mamma's boys, that's a sure way to end all contact with them, which was what I was going for. I knew he wasn't going to apologize, so I went to the kids house and I apologized myself, and just kind of talked to him. he seemed more comfortable talking to me after being beaten up, which kind of shocked me. every other time I saw him in school, he barely spoke to me, never made eye contact, I felt like he brushed me off to end conversations quickly. here he was with a black eye, resting on his bed, and he was just really comfortable talking to me for the first time. I decided to ask him to prom because I figured he didn't have a date. it was a huge step for me, I had never asked a guy out, or even made the first move. but I did it. he was floored, smiling from ear to ear and I was happy I didn't get rejected! lol we didn't start a relationship or anything, but we had an amazing prom night. my friends were really welcoming of him and his friends (some of both of our groups shared a limo) even though we came from two different worlds. we had a great night.

just my little story. lol but yeah the point is that a lot of guys don't have confidence or guts to go after the girl, some girls don't notice signs or don't return them so the guy feels cool asking her out, etc. even sometimes the most attractive, confident guys may have problems with a type of girl they aren't used to, but happen to like this time. you just never know.

[ducatisti]

that was the best answer, thank you! :)

[Opinion Owner]

thanks girl :)

[Anonymous]

Don't drive yourself crazy over what the men on here are telling you. If he really, truly likes you, how could you not know? You would have to be very non-observant and not perceptive at all to not be able to notice someone constantly looking at you or sitting near you. Sure, men can have fleeting crushes, but the only ones worth noting are the ones who show that they like you. So - YES. Does it matter if he likes you but he doesn't show it at all because he's hiding it under a thick facade or because he's too busy for a relationship? Nope! He won't try to ask you out anyway.

[Anonymous]

I don't know how, but I've always been surprisingly accurate with guessing if a guy liked me or not. There have been a few times where I felt as if a guy liked me, but he wouldn't make a move. Then I'd find out months later from a mutual friend that he did like me at the time.

So yeah, I'm pretty confident about my ability to tell. :)

[Anonymous]

True. For example, at work, if he cares about his work he would be professional. He's going to be talking to you on a professional level. But he would pay you a little more attention, smile, direct eye contact, etc. You know, if he liked you he would care about you in a professional sense.

[255110]

falso! I don't try on the girls I like but I flirt like crazy to my friend-girls (as opposed to girlfriends)

[Freetobe007]

If he likes you enough, then yes, you will know. He won't be able to hide it. Even if he's shy to admit it or tell you, you'll notice it in the way he looks at you, he'll stare at you, little things in his body language will make it show.

[-StillWater-]

Even if a guy is burning up to be with you he may never make a move - for some perhaps completely different reason -unrelated to you.

[mike5150]

False. A lot of guys don't express there real feelings towards women they like but they do show frequant signs of interest even if they don't notice.

[Anonymous]

no I have had a crush or two never acted on them because of other things going on in my life

[tohrment]

False. I.e. shy guys.

[sa230e]

False. And I speak from personal experience.

[Anonymous]

With the right guy, you will. :)

[Anonymous]

You might never know.

[Anonymous]

Not necessarily. This is the correct answer.

[Shaun]

False.

[Anonymous]

Good question!

[moviedude714]

false

[SnackG]

False.

[Dom163]

False

[Shadoww]

False!