True or False - The More Confident He Is, The Less He Likes You?

[Anonymous]

True

False

[Punkin45]

The article that you're basing this off of has a false underlying assumption. The assumption is that the more you like somebody, the more insecure I feel around them. I don't think that's true at all, unless you're very insecure.

In general, the more I like someone, the more comfortable I feel around them because we have a lot in common and we get along well. Being with someone you like should make you feel better about yourself, not worse. So I challenge the premise of the question.

[Anonymous]

I've seen guys who do not come off as confident end up being very emotionally unavailable and so not connecting with a woman based on that. His shy/vulnerable act will get him to sex, but he doesn't actually share very much of himself so the connection stops there. It's not a question of confidence but of douchebagery.

[redeyemindtricks]

I was gna vote false, but, tbh, that doesn't even make enough sense to be false.

[Asker]

Question is based of this article:
www.therulesrevisited.com/.../...he-likes-you.html

[redeyemindtricks]

my comments are appended to consultantisback's comment thread ^^

[abc3643]

It's almost always true. The confident he is, the less he will be vulnerable and the root of men's love for a woman is not sex, but the need to be vulnerable and trusting in someone. Being very confident makes one feel less vulnerable and thus not need to seek female companionship.

[madhatters4]

i don't really see why that would be a necessary correlation.

[Asker]

Question is based of this article:
www.therulesrevisited.com/.../...he-likes-you.html

[jessi-chan]

True. The more he likes you, the more he's scared of being rejected by you, and therefore he appears less confident around you. And vice versa.

[JuicyBrain]

If that is true, then he didn't like you for the right reasons.

[Shruthynj]

If he is confident then I am sure he likes truly... onething I am sure we must love confident person only

[Asker]

Question is based of this article:
www.therulesrevisited.com/.../...he-likes-you.html

[ConsultantIsBack]

where in the world do you even come up with this stuff? lol

[Asker]

Question is based of this article:
www.therulesrevisited.com/.../...he-likes-you.html

[ConsultantIsBack]

hmm ill have to read that

[redeyemindtricks]

Lol the rules.

As if.

Hey, I'm gna be a bitch for the next 8 seconds:

The Rules are for girls who have absolutely nothing unique, different, or special to offer a man... so they teach how to create artificial scarcity/demand.
Srsly. If you buy sales books that tell you how to sell cheap products, you'll see EXACTLY the same techniques.

But... you bout that life?
You wanna sell a cheap product through deception?

Or do you actually want to improve the damn product?

Rules my ass.

[ConsultantIsBack]

@redeyemindtricks haha nailed it!!!

[redeyemindtricks]

crap @consultantisback that was supposed to go in my comment thread, not spam yours sry

[ConsultantIsBack]

@redeyemindtricks its all good, just copy & paste into your own comment and asker should give u mho lol you are 100% spot on

[redeyemindtricks]

lol thanks.

I mean, mb I am overly optimistic here, but, I mean, all that legerdemain just seems so much harder than, like, real self-improvement. #truestory

[Anonymous]

For me these is no correlation. I'm either comfortable talking with you or I'm not. It has nothing to do if I like you or not.

[alfonsosloan45]

now if you are insecure then yes

[Quelled]

If I'm fucking you, it means I like you slightly.

[justbanANNAz]

definitely not.