Do you care if your partner goes to the strip club? (Page 2)

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And Does it make a difference if your boyfriend/girlfriend goes to the stripclub vs if your husband/wife does? Like does their status matter? I’m personally not cool with it. They need to get all their hoeing out before they get with me lol. Plus i just find it a bit disrespectful. Looking at other girls is one thing but to actually go to a stripclub to see them is too far. Also, I dont want him wasting his money on hoes. I’m all for paying for my own things but shit if he's gonna throw some ones, please make me first in line 😂 It ain't that hard to install a pole in the house. But yo this video below 
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zed-789 · Answer

I would be upset. So ur telling me ur going to go spend money u already barely have on a half naked girl that will only dance with u. Why? When I can be my man’s half naked girl who will dance and give him sex. He can throw that money my way and I can use it to buy dinner. Men can still think with their dicks... but at least think smart.

Jjpayne · Answer

I guess it's up to them, it's their life but, there needs to be an acknowledgement that we are a couple and not something they can trade partners with. Hopefully it's a good trust moment in the relationship

Ellie-V · Answer

That is a single person activity. They can go all they want... and I will go too... out of their life 😂

DaveToo · Answer

Most women won't install a pole or feel comfortable performing for their man in such a manner. He will look elsewhere for that kind of stimulation. He still comes home to you and, if he's horny after seeing women stripping, he'll want to have sex with you.

Also, you call these women ho's, yet most of them are working mothers, either separated, divorced, or never married, just trying to get by on what they can make using their bodies. Some are even college students or post-grads trying to pay off that massive debt of student loans. Don't judge until you know.

FlutteringFeelings · Answer

The club life isn’t my cup of tea so I wouldn’t date someone who’s into the night life and the strip clubs.

FreyaRed · Answer

I don't care and wish him to find a better girlfriend there.  It's his choice and my choice is he is an ex from this point.

Unit1 · Answer

Like this? And she said "trust me". Screw that!

Ally247 · Answer

If he goes to the strip club he can also renew his membership with the single club.

Gabboo · Answer

anyone who says it's just looking has serious mental problems. Just because it's looking doesn't make it less disrespectful. People are fucking dumb think it is any different 🤣

modelUN242 · Answer

I wouldn't be with a trashy guy like that, that's a deal-breaker.

flamiE · Answer

Every once in a while would be fine. I went to a strip club with my ex once. No not because I didn’t trust him. I was dragged there cause I was one of the boys 😂😂 it was alright, nothing crazy. If I don’t trust my man to go by himself I’d just not date him. There’s something nice about knowing there’s a woman dancing in his lap but he isn’t impressed cause he knows he has a better one at home.

natured · Answer

I'm so happy that Strip-Clubs are not a HUGE thing in italy, there are some, but just loosers go there... And I'm glad that they are not a trend.
Honestly, my man wouldn't even need to I can give him free lapdances anytime he wants..
*tks tks*
-D-

Alyssa11 · Answer

Of course I’d be mad- he doesn’t need to go to a strip club if he’s with me?

ladsin · Answer

I guess A? Don’t have a significant other right now, but generally I would think I wouldn’t be happy about it. I know how strip clubs go and I wouldn’t be happy with other people putting their hands on my significant other whether or not it’s at a club.
My ex and I went together a few times. It was all well and good to me, but when they went by themselves or with friends I’d get suspicious. He was a whore though so there’s that 😂

Jaximus-Lion · Answer

We are cool! We don not have many of these here in Sweden. All i know we have about 13 or 14 strip clubs in thee whole country. I would be cool with it, specially if the wife is going out with her girlfriends. When we were in Vegas in 2018 we wanted to go in but she changed her mind because she felt very uncomfortable. I don not go to such palces, i don't even go to night clubs since 2009, vegas does not count 😝

Tyrael · Answer

Couldn't care less, other than got financial reasons. I've been to strip clubs before and ultimately found them to be just a huge waste of money. And it wasn't even a "look, but don't touch" place, it was pretty full on and it was still a waste of money.

Dchrls78104 · Answer

Wouldn't be cool with that; she'd be disrespecting both me and herself, as well as our relationship; it would be a declaration that she no longer loved me or wanted to be with me.

Gwenhwyfar · Answer

For a bachelor party once a year? I’m cool with that. Every weekend? Not gonna happen.

MsTaniaUncensored · Answer

I personally don't care all that much provided he is just there to watch naked ladies dance. I do object to lap dances though, that's my job and I don't want other woman's hands on my man as that intimate contact crosses a line that I see as adultery.

But I show my man trust until I have a reason to revoke it and if that ever happens there is a good chance we are done anyway.

KloexJayne · Answer

I guess it all depends on how much they frequent a strip club. And who are they going with? Do you get to tag along or not and what would be their reaction if the table was turned? ... so many underlying issues that would factor into my feelings towards the situation lol

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