Underage girl crushing on me is starting to get annoying. What do I do?

[WeaponZero]

My sister used to babysit for this girl named Katie when we were younger and apparently she's had a crush on me for a long time now. She's 16 and I'm 28, I thought she'd grow out of it as she got older (Its been almost 8 years!) but she hasn't and it's starting to seem somewhat scary, light she might be obsessing. I tried talking to her about it and telling her she doesn't actually "love" me and that its just a phase she's going thru but she's not hearing any of it and it's really starting to get under my skin. What to do?

[EnglishGentleman]

I feel your pain (I'm a 19 yo guy) and I babysit my next door neighbors the oldest is 15 and she has a 10 yo brother and a 7 yo brother. well the 15 yo is beginning to get hormones and it is freaky. I'm 19 and she's 15 (illegal!) I've tried the same thing with explaining its a phase and everything and she does not know the meaning of your words (you said it better than I could) and she does obsess over me. What I did but it involves the p-word (parents) is talking to her about it. certainly did help but it quite honestly mitigated the situation not completely eliminated it. that's what came out of it. If she continues to have a crush on you remove yourself from the situation (easier said then done) {dont cross paths don't encounter her etc} I hope I can be of any help, good luck I understand your pain.

[Little-Hippie]

The best way to deal with these situations is to take fill advantage of them and allow things to get excessive, upwardly sexual, and highly emotional.

After that happens, things usually calm themselves down.

Nah, I'm just messing.

Just make yourself less available. Being around less will put distance between you.

It's harder for her to crush on you if you're a distant memory of the past.

[Cool-Relax]

Were you her first crush or something? It's kinda cute :P It's hard to let those go though (even if they are unrealistic).

In time, she'll meet some guy her own age and he'll be all she can think about. Then she'll probably laugh at herself for being obsessed with a guy who's 12 years older than her for the past eight years. Until then, just leave her alone. You can't talk someone out of their feelings, and you can't control them. Acknowledging her feelings will only give her false hope that she can change your mind; ignoring them will give her the hint that you're not interested and that's not going to change.

[sammyangel9991]

just stay away from the girl. And just so you know, a crush isn't something that can just be turned off or on whenever a girl likes someone. She probably doesn't want to like you, but she can't help it. Don't talk to her about liking you either.big mistake. The only thing you accomplish with that is embarassing the poor girl. Do you actually think she wants to like a guy 10 years older than her?The only thing that will make this girl stop crushing on you is time and distance. I know these things.im around her age.

[amberview]

If you don't want her, don't tell her how she is feeling, tell her how you feel. You can tell a girl that you have been nice before, but it's time you tell her that you are just not into her. It sounds mean, but some girls need to be told this and some guys for that matter. By being "nice" to these people we are enabling them to keep up a fantasy that they have a chance.

[mountain-girl]

Hey Weapon Zero! Next time she's around you, could you let her know that because your sister used to babysit for her, that you look at her 'as a sister'? Maybe that would put a different image of the situation in her mind. Good luck on this because young crushes are serious to girls that age. See what you get for being a great guy?!

[TrixiesBoozSmirnoff]

man haha she really GOT IT 4 ya huh!

hahah EIGHT YEARS?!?!

wow. well, since you know her so well, this shouldnt b hard 2 do but just b like 'hey, I really don't like you like that. you can like me but plz don't BOTHER ME' hahah that's what I would do.

[WeaponZero]

Ive done that, it hasn't worked =(

[Hercules]

Just ignore her I guess. If things get bad enough you could talk to her parents, but as long as you don't socialize with her I think it'll all fade away.

[coolguy93939]

. what's she doing

thats so annoying?

wheres the annoyance?

just be mean

to her

[wally]

try to avoid her .