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Do you tell your significant other when people flirt with you 🤔?
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I can barely TELL when they're flirting. At least, it's not what I'D consider to be flirting!
There's an episode of "Roswell" where Isabel, Mike and Maria are in the Crashdown and Mike & Maria are arguing about Mike having eaten some cake that he shouldn't have been eating and suddenly, Isabel says, "Are you two flirting? Oh my god!! CAN my life get ANY worse?" Flirting? Looks to me like they're arguing!!
Anyway, as long as I'm loyal to her and never get it on with any of the flirts, what does it really matter if I tell her? Not that it's any kind of a secret. If I think it's funny or that she'd be interested, I'd have no problem telling her.
no, because I do Not flirt back, and it would only upset her for NO reason. Keep the peace, don't toss a wildcat into a bathtub with the children
I do only because it's more of a rant because the men can't take a hint that I'm not interested or when I clearly say, " I have a boyfriend " and they still keep trying. The amount of trust he has for me, makes him not really care what goes on, unless it's get to far and then he has to step in. But he usually just let me rant.
Sometimes. I member when I didn't know much Spanish slang. This guy said I had a mucho grande culo and bet my pinocha was muy preciosa. I had to ask my husband wut he was saying. My husband was mad!
OK - I guess my Spanish slang isn't very good either. Because I'm not familiar with 'pinocha'. Literally, it's pine needle or just needle. I'm guessing it's slang for something entirely different.
@SinceYouAsked It's slang for "pussy" just like huevos are eggs but they refer to their balls as huevos too..
Thanks. They didn't cover that in high school Spanish. 🤣
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If I had a significant other and if girls flirted with me I would tell her as well if I have one I would hope she would tell me too. I am not the jealous type and would not be with someone who was... That said I would appreciate knowing other guys thought the girl I was with was good looking. I mean if I think she is gorgeous then why shouldn't other guys too? The thing is that she is with me and not them so why get upset of jealous?
What about you?
Does your boyfriend get mad if others flirt with you?
Do you get mad if girls flirt with him?
No, we prefer to watch it together…. It turns us both on to see other one being bought a drink and chatted up or bumped up against by an Olde GRL telling one they look like a young Clooney…
AND we don’t have Black Lives Matter terrorizing the Downtown so we can get some Strange going in between the historic district bar scene/buildings. We are a bad people 😔
Usually not but mainly because I think it'd annoy her. She already gets mildly annoyed when women flirt with me in front of her when she's around so I don't want to make her more annoyed by telling her when it happens when she's not around. I never flirt back though. When women do that I always start talking about how much I love my wife.
One thing that really tends to get her a bit cranky is when women tell her things like, "You are so lucky to have him!" Then when we get home, she goes a bit berserk like, "Why am I so lucky to have you? They should say you're lucky to have me!" :-D So then I have to say like, "Of course, I'm so lucky to have you!" Things like that. So I don't think she wants to hear about women flirting with me when she's not even around.
Mostly yeah, it's fun, we laugh about it, he always asks me what I said and somehow feel proud to know how I rejected them, but I don't tell him if anyone say anything inappropriate while flirting because things like that stays in his mind forever and it might hurt our relationship or the guy!! Lol.. he's kinda possessive and might get aggressive about things like that!!
Most of the people who flirt with me are her friends, and they do so in front of her. She doesn't care because she has nothing to worry about!.
I forgot to add her gay friends flirt with me too. She finds it's funny when I play along!
Not usually, why do you tell your significant other? Is it a turn on for them or you just feel guilty because somebody flirted with you
no, and when you get older this will happen less and also you will learn that telling your SO adds no value to anyone whatsoever. Your just humble bragging and its counterproductive other than for self validation. Bragg to your sister or friend or stop behaving in a way that facilitates this if you really want to do the right thing.
He's the one that points it out to me that some guy was checking me out. He's always looking around to see if another guy starts talking to me in the stores. And yes, I do have guys talk to me. He gets jealous. Oh well...
No I wouldn't. If any of her friends makes a serious move I certainly would tell her and obviously reject them. Because who has so bad moral that tries to steal their friends partner.
No, I didn't.
If I could somehow communicate with her, I think I would tell her that my student's little sister offered to marry me after my wife's passing.
sometimes I would tell them, yes... when it was interesting or funny, or even weird... lol
other times I would not tell them because it was just "meh"
Some times, especially if someone makes me uncomfortable or harasses me then I definitely will. My days are usually the same old same old so we really only talk about things that are out of the ordinary.
The question is WHY do you tell him? Are you trying to make him jealous? Letting him know you have options?
The question is self explanatory. It seems to me you are trying to get a reaction from him.
My wife usually knew if someone was flirting with me before I did. I have never been good at picking up those subtle cues from women. Of course, nowadays, I don't remember the last time that happened.
Would I.. not on purpose. Nobdoy should ever intend to make their S. O jealous... they will regret it :)
Yes I tell him! He doesn't mind or get jealous, he becomes happy for me because he wants me to know my worth haha
I'd like to, I think it is just funny, and I like to hear it from him too. I find it positive that others also think my man is attractive ;P.. but I dated some who seemed jealous about such and so stopped mentioning it
Yes. I tell them everything. They get a fair amount themselves. It’s kind of a running thing between us.
Yes! For some odd reason, she likes it. She starts teasing others specially when we are out and the girl/s are in sight 😂
depends, if it's a good enough story to tell honestly. it's just not something i feel huge urges talking about if there's nothing particularly interesting to it.
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