Do you tell your significant other when people flirt with you 🤔?

Question

I tell mine. 😌 What about you? Do ya? 🤪

FunkyMonkee · Accepted Answer

I can barely TELL when they're flirting. At least, it's not what I'D consider to be flirting!
There's an episode of "Roswell" where Isabel, Mike and Maria are in the Crashdown and Mike & Maria are arguing about Mike having eaten some cake that he shouldn't have been eating and suddenly, Isabel says, "Are you two flirting? Oh my god!! CAN my life get ANY worse?" Flirting? Looks to me like they're arguing!!
Anyway, as long as I'm loyal to her and never get it on with any of the flirts, what does it really matter if I tell her? Not that it's any kind of a secret. If I think it's funny or that she'd be interested, I'd have no problem telling her.

Waldoe · Accepted Answer

no, because I do Not flirt back, and it would only upset her for NO reason. Keep the peace, don't toss a wildcat into a bathtub with the children

Horror_lover92 · Accepted Answer

I do only because it's more of a rant because the men can't take a hint that I'm not interested or when I clearly say, " I have a boyfriend " and they still keep trying. The amount of trust he has for me, makes him not really care what goes on, unless it's get to far and then he has to step in. But he usually just let me rant.

TransAm85 · Accepted Answer

Sometimes. I member when I didn't know much Spanish slang. This guy said I had a mucho grande culo and bet my pinocha was muy preciosa. I had to ask my husband wut he was saying. My husband was mad!

nawtee_me · Answer

If I had a significant other and if girls flirted with me I would tell her as well if I have one I would hope she would tell me too. I am not the jealous type and would not be with someone who was... That said I would appreciate knowing other guys thought the girl I was with was good looking. I mean if I think she is gorgeous then why shouldn't other guys too? The thing is that she is with me and not them so why get upset of jealous?

What about you?
Does your boyfriend get mad if others flirt with you?
Do you get mad if girls flirt with him?

Guy13 · Answer

No, we prefer to watch it together…. It turns us both on to see other one being bought a drink and chatted up or bumped up against by an Olde GRL telling one they look like a young Clooney…
AND we don’t have Black Lives Matter terrorizing the Downtown so we can get some Strange going in between the historic district bar scene/buildings. We are a bad people 😔

HighlyVolatile · Answer

Usually not but mainly because I think it'd annoy her. She already gets mildly annoyed when women flirt with me in front of her when she's around so I don't want to make her more annoyed by telling her when it happens when she's not around. I never flirt back though. When women do that I always start talking about how much I love my wife.

Anonymous · Answer

Mostly yeah, it's fun, we laugh about it, he always asks me what I said and somehow feel proud to know how I rejected them, but I don't tell him if anyone say anything inappropriate while flirting because things like that stays in his mind forever and it might hurt our relationship or the guy!! Lol.. he's kinda possessive and might get aggressive about things like that!!

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

Most of the people who flirt with me are her friends, and they do so in front of her. She doesn't care because she has nothing to worry about!.

20yearsolder · Answer

Not usually, why do you tell your significant other? Is it a turn on for them or you just feel guilty because somebody flirted with you

notwoke · Answer

no, and when you get older this will happen less and also you will learn that telling your SO adds no value to anyone whatsoever. Your just humble bragging and its counterproductive other than for self validation. Bragg to your sister or friend or stop behaving in a way that facilitates this if you really want to do the right thing.

sage2021 · Answer

He's the one that points it out to me that some guy was checking me out. He's always looking around to see if another guy starts talking to me in the stores. And yes, I do have guys talk to me. He gets jealous. Oh well...

Adam1978 · Answer

No I wouldn't. If any of her friends makes a serious move I certainly would tell her and obviously reject them. Because who has so bad moral that tries to steal their friends partner.

Bluemax · Answer

No, I didn't.  If I could somehow communicate with her, I think I would tell her that my student's little sister offered to marry me after my wife's passing.

NathanDavis · Answer

sometimes I would tell them, yes... when it was interesting or funny, or even weird... lol other times I would not tell them because it was just "meh"

Subarugirl · Answer

Some times, especially if someone makes me uncomfortable or harasses me then I definitely will. My days are usually the same old same old so we really only talk about things that are out of the ordinary.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

The question is WHY do you tell him? Are you trying to make him jealous? Letting him know you have options?

LovingLoverReturned · Answer

Would I.. not on purpose. Nobdoy should ever intend to make their S. O jealous... they will regret it :)

CubsterShura · Answer

Yes I tell him! He doesn't mind or get jealous, he becomes happy for me because he wants me to know my worth haha

Anonymous · Answer

I'd like to, I think it is just funny, and I like to hear it from him too. I find it positive that others also think my man is attractive ;P.. but I dated some who seemed jealous about such and so stopped mentioning it

dustybiker · Answer

Yes. I tell them everything. They get a fair amount themselves. It’s kind of a running thing between us.

Jaximus-Lion · Answer

Yes! For some odd reason, she likes it. She starts teasing others specially when we are out and the girl/s are in sight 😂

SinceYouAsked · Answer

My wife usually knew if someone was flirting with me before I did. I have never been good at picking up those subtle cues from women. Of course, nowadays, I don't remember the last time that happened.

genericname85 · Answer

depends, if it's a good enough story to tell honestly. it's just not something i feel huge urges talking about if there's nothing particularly interesting to it.

Razp_Sorbet · Answer

No, I'd have to tell him so many times a day it's not worth it 🤣

Sam_The_Savage · Answer

Slightly twist... I tell others significant that today I flirt with your significant other.😂

DJaQueef · Answer

Hell no. It usually backfires and I'm the one who gets in trouble for it.

weysally · Answer

I tell my husband, but a lot of the time he sees me flirting and enjoys it

yourmancallsme · Answer

Yh I tell my boyfriend everything and vice versa We usually laugh at the people who try and flirt with us  But I won’t lie no one flirts with my boyfriend unless it’s his dumb exes

clampfan101 · Answer

I’d never have any tales to tell. lol But if by some strange abnormal phenomenon someone did flirt with me, I’d tell my SO about it if I had one. 🤣😥

Anonymous · Answer

If she doesn't require it in relationship, I try not to bother her and instead, show the person who flirted that I'm not interested

Jltakk · Answer

No one's ever flirted with me, and I have no one to tell it to.

slatyb · Answer

Yes, because we both find it a bit amusing. She tells me when some man checks her out.

YourToy69 · Answer

Should not. Creates unnecessary problems. Insecurity?

DeeRocc · Answer

I tell her everything except when other people flirt with me.

Anonymous · Answer

Why you have a boyfriend at 20, i dk. But if I had a girlfriend, I would not tell her. I don't think EVERYTHING needs to be told.

JustinTheGreat · Answer

Yeah usually. He be getting jealous and it’s cute lol

Juxtapose · Answer

Yeah, turning down cheating is super easy but people are insecure about it so I detail to my lover what happened.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

I think I probably would. That is unless she doesn't want to hear about it. But if she wants me to tell her, I'll tell her everything.

Aakash_Hangargi · Answer

Archie , Betty , Veronica of the cartoons flirt with you it's totally fine 😂

Andres77 · Answer

She feels more empowered because she has what others want. Yes, I tell her.

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Yes i always do. She gets a little jealous sometimes but likes to know. Gets her turned on usually too.

justbeingashley · Answer

Depends on the situation. If the other person is flirting with a purpose, I will tell but if I can sense that it is a natural personality trait to be flirty, probably not.

zagor · Answer

No, why would I do that? That is kind of a creepy way of saying, look, I have options.

Pudsmucker · Answer

When a young woman flirts with me. It gives my ego a boost.

MountAverage · Answer

Definitely. It's always fun to talk about something like this :)

Better_off_here · Answer

well of course why hide the fact that hopefully, nothing happened? i think most people would want to know about it.

anylolone · Answer

If it's particularly interesting, yes. Otherwise it feels braggy. Or at least it's boring.

Ddhubz · Answer

Yes. I also like to hear about the opposite. I encourage her to flirt. When you get attention or your attentions are responded to it feels great.

Minahh · Answer

Nobody flirts with me *cries in loner*

COoperativez · Answer

Yes I do. He my rock rock rock

Drumlin2001 · Answer

No one ever flirts with me

AviatorTom · Answer

No. That would just get her upset.

Dargil · Answer

No reason to do that.

elizamichale1 · Answer

Not all the times but sometimes

tayxxlaxx · Answer

nope cuz i be flirting back

fatherocean · Answer

Yes thats something crazy

8Bit_LYNX · Answer

ARCHIE!!

JosyJosy · Answer

No, unless it's someone he knows.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

Only when it valid competition.

Wise4myage · Answer

I would see no reason to do that.

Yourfriend2021 · Answer

I would just like you.

BeachLuvR97 · Answer

This makes me sad. Girls don't flirt with me...

driven159 · Answer

Not really if you don't respond

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