My friends are super shy and can’t go up and talk to a girl if their lives depend on it. I on the other hand actually enjoy a bit of a challenge. Last night I introduced myself to the most attractive girl in a friend group, she was nice but small talk was minimal. Her friend asked me in my ear are your friends afraid to talk to girls, and I just said no their just a bit shy not realizing they were all just behind staring at me shooting my shot. So then I started I introducing the girl friends to my boys one by one and later to come one of the girls was interested in my buddy. Super happy for him but that was another girl I was also interested in. Anyways after a few shots and asking for my Instagram, the girl I was speaking to was completely ignoring me. Her phone was being blown up my multiple guys and to make a longer story short she was picked up by a guy in a Mercedes at the end of the night. Meanwhile two of my buds had arms linked with the other friends. I just had to bite my tongue because I’m not trying to show frustration when they situation changed. What also annoys me is that even though I’m the one who started it, and I’m not going to be the sleazy guy who makes his round in the friend group. My buddy who’s shy could’ve Re-involved my in the group of friends. Just to be nice instead of me sitting on the sidelines. What would you guys do in this situation?
What would you guys do as the outgoing one in a shy group, that when you introduce your friends, it backfires on you?
