My boyfriend asked a random girl at a festival if she wants a line of coke and he gave her one while I was next to him. What are your opinions?

[Anonymous]

I would be interested to hear your thoughts if this is something that I should ask him about or just play it out cool. He has never asked a girl before if she wants to do a line before. We usually have lots of fun partying and dancing together when we are out or at festival and the such has never happened. Interested to hear what other peoples opinions are and if they have ever been in a similar situation, what did you end up doing?

[Whatever2929292]

a coke like a soda pop is fine. But if he is doing drugs call the police and they will deal with it. What if a kid gets their hands on it?

[Asker]

No kids at festivals 😂

[Whatever2929292]

Asker I don't really know what kind you are talking about. Drugs are illegal so call the cops and it will take care of the problem

[Anonymous]

Do you do it? Just curious if it was a case of asking her over you? I'm not a drug user, but I also don't know if I'd read too much into it or not? Many drug users won't "share" though I wouldn't think?

[Anonymous]

Did he offer a line to anyone else?

[Asker]

No he didn’t offer it to anyone but her at the festival. She was to his left and I was to his right. If this happened to you or you were him how would you take it? Would you confront him or think there is nothing to confront him about?

[Opinion Owner]

I don’t do drugs so I wouldn’t take it. If I were you I wouldn’t feel comfortable with him doing that to a random girl tbh, maybe he thought that the girl was you? Kinda weird tho

I think if you’re uncomfortable with it you can definitely ask him about it just don’t accuse him of anything.

[Asker]

He definitely knew that girl was not me. I was to his right and he leaned nicely and gave her a line to snort up. It was quite weird for me as he has never done that at a festival but maybe I am over thinking this. Thanks for your feedback!

[Opinion Owner]

No worries! I hope you can get it all sorted out 😊

[glennos89]

I don't really see the issue with that. As long as he isn't ignoring you totally I don't see any problems with it tbh

[Luckycharms12]

Normally ends up with someone to party with especially at festival

[Asker]

Right! That’s why he went to a festival with his girlfriend.

[Luckycharms12]

So doesn't mean sleep with people just party with everyone all there to have good time.

[Asker]

So would you say it was just out of the goodness - he asked someone right next to me if she wanted a line? So everyone can enjoy and party together?

[Luckycharms12]

That's way it works here pass it to the left

[Asker]

Did not know that’s a rule of thumb. If your girl shared a line with another boy and you were next to her, how would that make you feel?

[Luckycharms12]

That's cool with me

[Wise4myage]

Is the first time you know he did coke?

[Wise4myage]

I've never touched cocaine.

[Asker]

No, he enjoys using.

[Wise4myage]

Maybe he was just feeling generous?

[Asker]

He is a generous guy, I have to give him that. Yeah i guess maybe a good way of looking at it is not to be selfish from my perspective and actually let him be as generous as he wants. Was that the point you were trying to make?

[Wise4myage]

Yes, it was. :)

[Asker]

Should I ask him what made him prompt the generosity or should I not ask him at all and let it be?

[Wise4myage]

I say let it go, Its not like they went to the bathroom to do a line and came back smiling, lolol.

[Guy13]

Don’t do drugs.

[Asker]

Fair enough

[lpoots]

dont have an opinion