I'm trying to act like a gentleman, but am I missing sexual cues?

[Anonymous]

Multiple times over the recent past, I've had incidental contact with attractive women that seemed to be ok with them, but in the interest of seeming like gentleman, I moved away.
-At a sporting event, I watched our knees get closer together until they touched, then *I* pulled away.
-Grabbing something from my bag, I had to pretzel around her although she could have waited for me. This led to a little incidental crotch-ass contact which didn't cause any recoil.(Later, she suggested we share a snack, which was also interesting.)
-She stood close to me at a gathering, at two different points--within my personal bubble for sure. When we inevitably brushed arms, she didn't pull away. I held out for a few beats before moving.
In each case, I didn't want to make them feel like I was trying to dominate their space, but I kind of sensed that they maybe didn't mind. Is it likely they found this incidental contact fun? Arousing?

[Whatever2929292]

You are not being a gentleman. You are simply using women for sex.

Not everything is about sex not even flirting. Some flirting is romantic. You would have to ask HER directly since not all women are the same. But if you are only using her for sex then just let her go.

Find some trash women who will let you do it and leave good women alone

[Loth2770]

Who are you even responding to? Your statement has nothing to do with the post.

[Whatever2929292]

@Loth2770 missing sexual clues... is everything about sex?

[Whatever2929292]

@Loth2770 speaking of the person who asked the question. Not you but HI!!!

[Loth2770]

I think you misunderstand. I believe he is wondering if she is giving him romantic/sexual cues, not clues

[Whatever2929292]

@Loth2770 same difference.

[Asker]

Ok, thanks for your answer. My headline was a little bait-y maybe. Really, I'm asking if I'm missing flirtatious cues. Flirtation can be platonic. Sometimes my barista is flirty, and I enjoy that, but I don't think she's interested in me romantically--how could she be? Her knowledge of me basically extends to my coffee order.

Flirtation can (of course) be romantic, too. But is that really any different than expressing physical attraction? I wouldn't flirt with someone who didn't interest me. So basically what I'm interested in knowing is, do any of these signs indicate that someone is interested in exploring something--especially in the case of women who do know my character somewhat.

[Whatever2929292]

Sometimes flirting is friendly and not really flirting. Sometimes flirting is purely romantic. I don't know the answer to that but I just say ask her why she is doing it I really have no idea.

I am guessing she at least likes you if you were on a date

[Whatever2929292]

YAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY

[athlete_7]

Happens a lot dood in real life i also do that