Are you more comfortable romantically committing to someone who is direct and very confident or indirect but confident enough to show interest?

[Jammaa]

Direct and very confident

Vote A

Indirect but confident enough to show interest

Vote B

Updates:

[Anonymous]

It depends what you mean by "direct". I find in many cases women who call themselves "direct" are really just rude but want to call it something a little more palatable than that. It makes them feel better about it. They tend to be the same ones who say mean things and then, when they get called out for it, they say "well it's true". If we all just said everything we think of that is true the world would be a very unfriendly place.

My answer to your question was buried in there somewhere, I just wasn't very direct about it. :)

[TheSpaceGnome]

Direct.

But as far as confidence goes though, I think having the nerve to approach is one of the times it doesn't matter. Thats more something that matters with skills/talents/goals, being nervous is fine and I don't see that as an opposite to confidence.

[DizzyDesii]

I dont need them to be direct to straightforward. I need them to be as respectfully honest as possible and I do think its okay to beat around the bush sometimes. I dont need a rude blunt direct honest person. As for confidence, all I ask is that they don't go on about their insecurities. You can be insecure in silence as you work on them

[Noodle_fan]

i am really bad at reading women , so for me the relationship will only work with women who direct and blunt