What could be the signs that can tell them apart before it's too late?
Many people say that seeing someone sings of attraction means that she likes you but what barely anyone says is if they like you as a friend or not.
What confuses you is that usually the basics of a friendship are in common with the basics of a (good) relationship: trust, enjoying conversations, interests or mindset in common, mutual understanding/support, good laughs etc. But the problem is these things alone can't grant a relationship, which requires also romantic and physical attraction, chemistry of that sort.
For sure, if a girl tells you, specifying, that she likes you as a friend, it means she cares about telling she lacks of romantic/physical attraction towards you. So this would be the most obvious indicator. But if you can't get her to say that, try to check her social lifestyle: some girls are just outgoing and great in friendships with any gender. If she has other close male friends (who are friends-only, and straight), then the positive signals you get might be meaningless and you might be just one of her new friends (might! Not granted). But if she has no close male friends, probably it means she is generally not so compatible with the male gender and doesn't spend much effort on that unless she has romantic/physical interest behind. Check also her interests and mindset: if she was a guy, would it make sense, for how she is, to still search contact with you? Is there any other basics you could have a friendship with her (interests in common, mindset, values), other than being of opposite genders and straight?
Check also how fast she is going: did she start to look for your attention in a short time or do you have a long term mutual exchange that developed on some basics during the time? If fast, probably she has a greater motivation behind, which might be attraction.
And lastly: women are usually surgically careful about not sending positive signals to anyone, because are used to get "assaulted" of attention by guys who are hungry as hell, as soon as they see a microscopic chance. So if you aren't yet close friends, but she is giving you signals that could be ambiguous if expressed to any guy, then maybe she is open to be chased. If she is interested and actively in contact with you, she will also try to check if you are interested in her by how you reply to some topics she opens or some small provocations, some indirect invitations for action, some private and spicy confessions that might lead you to tell similar things for exchange, etc. This, if you didn't make your interest obvious already.
Keep in mind women's technique is generally very very indirect and shy, built in a way that is meant to open your path to let you chase them, showing their availability in general. They very rarely will chase you directly. So try seeing signals that she is trying to show you that you're welcome to go further. If you don't, and she is interested, she will probably continue to make her availability clearer and clearer.
If I like a guy I will respond to his words more and try to win his respect and be overly fixated on my social behaviour around him, because I want him to respect me, I want him to pay attention to me, and I want him to choose me over the other girls.
Yes, there definitely is. I have female friends that I would not want to date. Presumably you do too.
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A girl that is your best friend then ends up falling in love with you is my fairy tale. I wanna fall inlove that way. Seems like it be a great relationship. People don’t think like that anymore. It’s all sexual chemistry first then find out who your dating.. totally backwards. Bring back courtship
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