Gave a bartender my phone number?

[1-3-2-4]

I don't know if I overdid it.. but I had to shoot my shot.. So it wasn't until my friends told me that she would be more chatty with me when they walked outside for a bit but when they came back she was a bit more reserved. The other night she wasn't my server but she was training a new guy but she still smiled when she saw me and I asked how she was and she made sure I was taken care of.. I gave her a $5 tip and she's like what's this and I said a tip for the beer she was happy. When it was time to leave that's when I handed her my number and she said thank you and put it in her pocket.

[Guy13]

Good for you... someone who RISKS !!! She may not act upon it but she will remember it. And when you return, close the deal. I have enjoyed interacting you and would like to take you out... something that will be deserving of your night off... or even in the day time? Do that !!

[1-3-2-4]

LOL man if I looked at myself in the mirror like 10 years ago I'd never do anything like that ever lmao.. hell I went to the bathroom and my friend followed me I was like dude I can't believe I just did that hahha.. I'm so temped to go in alone so I could really test the waters but I'm unsure because my friend would want to go the next day lol

[Guy13]

Go CLOSE the damn deal. She wants a man... tired of bar flirts.

[1-3-2-4]

Yeah sounds about right I know for sure she knew that was not money when I was leaving (I did tip her) I saw on here another person gave a bartender his number and she didn't call back but waited for him to come back by then she ended up putting her number on the receipt.

Before I gave her my number the Friday before I wrote thank you with a winking face on her receipt I like how she picked it up and kinda turned it a little to read it lol but she didn't say anything but she was very thankful.. I was at the bar by myself when she was about to leave she turned around and said by and she nodded at me with her hands pressed together.

[Guy13]

Just close it. You are close to being another flirt thst she has to deal with….

[1-3-2-4]

I'll let you know what happens she deff picked up quickly when I called her name I remember a few weeks ago I asked her what her name was she put a shorter version of her name on her name tag.

We shall see I have it kind of planned out.. some food a beer and for her to mix a drink

[Guy13]

Update question afterwards snd 💪. She lover you dude…

[1-3-2-4]

Update is she told me she has a boyfriend.. SO a week later I came in with a girl I just started to see but she wanted to come see my friends at the bar as well.. Man.. So my friends who were at the bar before me told me the bartender just arrived.. she saw me and she asked if I wanted a separate check which I said yes to (She messed this up) For the about 2 hours I was at the bar.. only the first 2 min did she say anything the rest of the night she ignored me as in not even look my way.. my date had to leave before me so her friend picked her up but even then she knew she was gone she refused to make eye contact or serve me any drinks or check up on me.

As for the bill I asked for the check to be separate from my friends.. she still put it under the same check (I'm thinking tips) My guess if she split the bill she knew her tip was going to be less my friends noticed her not making any eye contact.

[Avicenna]

Yeah, well, I wouldn't have big expectations since she was just doing her job, but you never know.

[1-3-2-4]

True.. but she's younger and I heard of one story where the girl kept the number but waited for the guy to come back later.. I can assure you she will remember my face lol.

[Avicenna]

You can certainly go back and talk to her. She'll definitely take note, especially if you tip well.

[1-3-2-4]

Yeah I'm pretty sure I'll stop in on Thursday now haha I can hear her now asking where are your friends or your here alone?

[Avicenna]

LMAO... well... good luck!

[1-3-2-4]

Thanks!

[1-3-2-4]

Is it bad to overtip tho? I don't want her to get a bad vibe off that too

[Avicenna]

No, that’s fine

[1-3-2-4]

Ok thanks!

[1-3-2-4]

Update.. so I went in today alone and she was working so she didn’t talk much but would talk when I talked to her.. so I saw she dropped my tab in the glass.. I picked it up and I saw it had my name on it which means she remembered my name.. so my bill was like $34 I left her a $60 tip I asked if she was working on Saturday and she’s like yeah I should be here and I told her that I should be back and she’s like I’ll see you then! It was a little awkward it started to pick up because of happy hour but I was kinda shocked she remembered my name..

Oh and the biggest thing was I heard the guy not too far from me asking how was her boyfriend and it sounded like things aren’t so good.

[Avicenna]

OK, well, you're living in exciting times. Leaving a good tip is great, but $60 was serious overkill.

[1-3-2-4]

Lol I don’t know her reaction because she was doing a drink mix at the time.. I’m sure it was shock.. lol ok an extra tip for remembering my name. That’s almost a week ago.

[Avicenna]

Well, I guess if you're a regular, she'll really remember you

[1-3-2-4]

I mean I had my work uniform on but she clearly remembers the name now lol

[Avicenna]

All right, that's the first step

[1-3-2-4]

Last night was long.. went back with my friends got a spot at the corner (sucks) she came over in our area and she was like hey! I didn't notice you guys here.. I was chatting with her I was like yeah I noticed they don't have happy hours on Saturday.. Now mind you she's not our bartender... a guy opened my tab (I paid for my two friends plus food).. but he only came once and that was it... Now the bartender who I'm into once she knew where we sat at. When she came over she checked on me the most.

I needed another beer and she already knew what I was drinking I was proud she knew how to say the German beer this time I taught her how to when it was slow I turned to my friends and said she's good lol she laughed. So when it was time to close my tab I noticed she put every drink that we had that night on happy hour discounts.. she ended up getting my $60 tip

I wonder how common is that for the original bartender not show up again to check up on us.. unless she said something to him I thought it was kinda interesting.

[Avicenna]

She probably did. That's great- you've really made an impression on her. Now look for an opening to get her number or social media, but don't force it if it isn't there.

[1-3-2-4]

Damn how did I miss it on Thursday when I went in she gave me happy hour pricing before happy hour I might scoot in again on Thur I kinda want to ask what she does out of work I kinda want her to open up a bit more.

[Avicenna]

Don't force it- you'll get to the point soon where she might volunteer some info

[1-3-2-4]

Yeah didn’t force it tbh I didn’t even get to ask her yet she was asking me my hours at work she’s a little on the shy. But she did let me know she’s working at 4pm tomorrow I let her know I’d be working on Saturday but would be getting off a little late she asked if it was local I’m like yeah.

She asked her manager if I could get a gift card for the regulars and I got a $25 card and she took care of me again on drinks.

The odd thing was the girl my friend is interested in she said hi to me as I went alone.. first time she ever spoke.

[Avicenna]

OK, that’s good

[JustinTheGreat]

I don’t think you overdid anything. Worst case scenario, she just doesn’t contact you.
but I don’t think you did too much to come off as creepy or anything.

[1-3-2-4]

Well it's been two days and nothing but Friday I plan on going back she may or may not say anything and if she doesn't contact me that's ok as well.

[1-3-2-4]

I found her on facebook (I didn't contact her) I kept the receipt since her nametag was just a aberration of her name still going to play it cool.. I earned myself a free appetizer so I'm going to create small talk to ask which one is her fav just to get a feel how she feels.

[Anonymous]

It’s kind of their job to be nice to everybody so it’s hard to tell if she was actually interested in you or not

[1-3-2-4]

Yeah that’s what I heard but I mean I would have expected her to act the same when my friends were around.

She offered to wash my stein without me asking but not my friend he had to ask to get his washed.

[Opinion Owner]

Well I guess if you don’t hear from her then she was just being nice

[1-3-2-4]

I would be seeing her again on Friday she may or may not say anything about it

[In_Trance]

Smh... yea you and dozens of other guys