My coworker was hitting on me and making sex jokes
Nobody in office complained
When we became more friends, people started to gossip and shame me for talking to him
My boss even said i walk behind him like a dog and we stay all day together
So im treated like "Im in love with hm" and get shamed for it
While i do absolutely nothing dont even talk to people in my office
Menwhile He, who in front of all the people flirts with me and says sexual comments , has no problems doing it
Nobody say "stop it" or "behave, leave her alone"
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That doesn't sound very fair.
Usually there's rules against people saying sexual comments in the workplace, it isn't very professional and can even be seen as sexual harassment in some cases. It is unfair if his supervisor is blaming you instead. Maybe some of them are jealous or just like to gossip?
Noone ever said anything to him
They do like to gissip because they have miserable lifes
But why jealous? of what?
Oh I just guessed that some of them may be a bit jealous that you like him and not them or something. I would need to be there to truly understand the situation.
Happened with same guy:he and other dude go to lunch break
And other guy asks
-what we are eating today?
Same guy grabs his balls with both hands, saying:you can eat this for lunch and dinner
... everyone laughed
But... i mean. wtf?
I never signs i like him
Wow, they sound pretty immature to be talking like that at work, especially in an office setting.
I guess working there you can just expect them to do stupid things and not be fair or reasonable because that's how they are. I'm sorry if you're stuck working with them for now, they don't seem like great people.
then tell him to stop if it bothers you. or just ignore people.