I told a girl that I had a crush on her in the second text?

[Anonymous]

I asked my crush that can I say her something. Her reply was 'sure'. Later I told her that i have seen her in the work premises and found her pretty and i had a crush on her. She replied with an emoji '😅'. I was bit confused about the emoji, so i asked her what shall I consider the emoji as? There wasn't any reply from her, i felt guilty and apologized her saying that ' I am sorry, if I made u feel uncomfortable'. Later she replied ' It's ok' . I am still confused with the emoji and not sure that i really made her feel uncomfortable or what? Now I am left only with guilt and don't dare to text or ask her whether i really made her feel uncomfortable?

[DaveJord]

😅 Grinning Face with Sweat

Intended to depict nerves or discomfort but commonly used to express a close call, as if saying Whew! and wiping sweat from the forehead.

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Not good my man out of all the emoji's she could have sent... she chose this one... which is rather vague and indecisive. So that not good, she is trying to be nice, but I would assume she not interested. I would leave her alone and giver maximum space.

At 25 to 29 years old I really do not understand why you would tell a woman, in text of all things, you have a crush on her... I mean it's pretty highschool and immature. If you liked her, you should of just asked her out on a date in person, why even reach out in text?

Just saying if I was a woman, I would be unimpressed that a guy I see in person all the time sends me a text like that, when he could have just acted like a real man and asked me out in person. You approached her like a boy, when you when you should have acted like a man.

Give her a week or two, then start talking to her in person and if you get a good feel from her ask her out like a real man would. If she says no, then leave her alone indefinitely.

[lightbulb27]

That's a lot of fun and education and growth there...

First... good job for speaking your truth. a little risky at work.

That is possibly bad in the work place because now it puts you two in an awkward position. This is why it's good to make things cheeky fun and you don't care what the answer is, to downplay it... easy peasy like, no worries. If it gets all serious, then it's a mess and makes stress.

you could just say, you probably get that all the time, so no worries. back to work I go... hi ho! Or whatever is funny and takes pressure off.

then leave her alone and ignore her, ball in her court... go about enjoying your life everywhere else.

have you figured out what the Egyptian hyropliphics means? Me neither.. stop trying to interpret emojis... wasting your time!

[PrettyPriya]

I would not try to interpret emojis as much as her reaction. Emojis can mean different things to different people. I think the more important takeaway is her silence and short answers. I can take a guess at the way she was feeling. I have two theories.

One is that she was very uncomfortable and did not share the same feelings. She didn't really know how to react. Then, it just got awkward and she stopped responded. It may also be because she started thinking of all the negatives that can come with a workplace relationship. That is why so many companies have policies against them.

The second guess is she was completely caught off guard and had no idea what to says. This could go hand in hand with the first guess. It may also mean she just did not know how to respond and was thinking about the whole situation.

Either way, you need to let her contact you at this point, if she even wants to. You put yourself out there and she can either reciprocate or ignore and go about work.

[Summeroflove]

Nervous laughter. You didn’t do anything wrong. I just think it isn’t meant to be. Probably would be better to give a more direct response and give some closure.

But seems she said it’s okay so no hard feelings. I would move on. If she is into you. She knows you like her

[Guy13]

You should have done that in person so that she will believe it. Now you are another text guy confessing love and partially freaking her out because you don't know how to be a man about things.

[Asker]

Before i thought of meeting her in personal and express my feelings. She had switched the company, which made me to text her. The whole scenario happened after she left the company and before that we had never interacted. 😄😄

[Guy13]

Too much drama for me...

[coachTanthony]

At this point you just need to let it go. Next time don't text someone you like you talk to women you like in person. If you feel a vibe then ask her out in person. Stay away from texting.

[OlderAndWiser]

Why in the hell did you do this in a text instead of talking to her? Was it not THAT important?

[Vikkrram]

Buddy now next time how she reacts when you both would meet each other would tell a lot. Do update us

[Asker]

Before i thought of meeting her in personal and express my feelings. She had switched the company, which made me to text her. The whole scenario happened after she left the company and before that we had never interacted. 😄😄

[Vikkrram]

So no tention man. Then Relax

[Vikkrram]

Sir you know i got blocked by just apologizing to a girl 😅

[Asker]

Can feel that the buddy.😄😅

[Vikkrram]

But sir she didn't know my name and nor did i have my profile picture in mine I'd..

I think here i made a huge mistake 😂

[Asker]

The best lessons a man ever learns are from his mistakes. Don't mind it happens but never repeat them.👍

[Aguy29]

There you go. She basically let you off easy without turning you down and knowing she would never see you again. Don't listen to anyone else on this. Don't ever do that again unless you really never get attention from girls. I won't go after a girl if she hasn't flirted with me in some way. Ever. And I never get turned down showing my interest in a girl because I flirt back and if I'm not turned down then I just keep going up the ladder until I'm in there.

[spartan55]

Did you learn anything here? NEVER have a discussion like that over text... this is why.

[HippieVeganJewslim]

Feel guilty not. Whatever that emoticon may be, it shouldn't be too bad. The same emoticons mean different things to different people.

[Camson22]

it looks like the emoji that means relief. you probably made her scared about what u were asking and then when u asked that then she was like phew glad he wasn't asking anything sexual.

[Aguy29]

Which he was

[chilldude33]

I think that meant an awkward chuckle. She is not into you, but it's okay that you confessed to her.