Guys, in what way should a girl not flirt that is a turn off?

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Gibbons44 · Accepted Answer

It really is a matter of what she wants/hopes for. I can think of several girls I'd rather be sleeping with than spending the time alone. I am not certain any of them would be a matching long term relationship - our worlds are almost entirely different.

If any of them was flirting at 'easy gping get-together with no obligations' I'd be happy, even very happy, to go woth that.

Most girls flirt with getting taken care of for life/retirement invluded in mind, without saying anything about themselves or how they would contribute to their own financing, so that is obviously 'not much happening' since it is a huge risk to take (the 'we kissed now you must marry me, we slept together now I own your house, leave it to me and go to another woman' type.

It is inctrdible how many females are just out there fishing for their next victim, someone they can rip off/make feel guilty and steal from.

Drdeeznuts1132 · Accepted Answer

Don't come on too strong. Guys, we don't get compliments or flirted with a whole lot, so make it all count.

Here's what I recommend. Make the flirts almost like clock work.

Quality over quantity.
Make eye contact

Flirt a lot over a long period of time is what I'm saying - if you like this guy.

Let him develop feelings. Keyword develop. Don't come on too strong or he'll think you're fucking with him

This is how I would want it - I don't speak for all guys.

Try it out if you like.

Pinay_ako · Accepted Answer

Don’t be too aggressive/come on too strong  don’t be too confident/cocky  don’t act like you’re God’s gift to man even if you’re Ms. Universe  don’t use sing songy voice don't act like a spoiled brat  don’t call him daddy 🤣  don’t use marriage or kids on the first few dates  If you want him bad, don’t ever make him feel he has competition. Make him priority be genuine and don’t be rude don’t play mind games/ignoring to get attention

bean2k21 · Answer

If they start out by calling you "sir" or "Master" then it's a great start because, at that point, I realize that the training process will be a lot easier.

WanderingLoveWizard · Answer

I used to hate being picked on, and I still kinda do, but I know they're just flirting and it's ok.  I guess I'd be turned off if they took it too far and got straight up mean

magiusX26 · Answer

anything mind games such as the playing hard to get, "testing" him (her) , saying one thing but meaning an opposite, getting his (her) attention through jealousy

Pohjolan · Answer

If its a turn off then its probably not even flirting. Like don't pretend to be stupid. That's pathetic and not signaling interest. Also if you are a bad actor its cringeworthy.

thatssuppy190 · Answer

I dislike when i notice a girl liking me and she asks me like loads of questions where i can just answer yes or no all the time. It makes me unexcited and obviously i dont want to be rude by telling you to shut up

mobiusforniner · Answer

When she tries too hard and isn't being genuine to herself. Comes across desperate

JSmuve · Answer

I've always found girls who are too aggressive and pushy a turn off.

SoulmateSeeker1994 · Answer

Those who suddendly disrespect someone's private space, those who fake laugh out loud, those who have bitchy body language.

Anonymous · Answer

The way Amanda Knox flirted with that guy or guys in Italy. Don’t do that. Just don’t do it that way.

Thehandsomeone · Answer

Being overly aggressive like literally throwing themselves at me it's a turn off.

Anonymous · Answer

they are dogs so something dogs don't like it

Anonymous · Answer

Don’t flirt at all. It’s cringy and makes you look desperate.

Anonymous · Answer

Do girls flirt?

Guys, in what way should a girl not flirt that is a turn off?

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