How should a woman signal to a man that she wants to be approached?

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If she doesn’t really know him but keeps running into him for instance.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Why can't people just be open about their feelings. Hey listen, I want to meet you, you seem genuine, nice, handsome or pretty, I want to get to know you. But this is such a broken society even saying that, people go into this high anxiety, anti-social, sheltered, what's in it for me, manipulative behaviour. Sure, physically if someone is not attracted to another people can't force that. I can't force that with girls. But we live in such individualistic times, what I question about females today is how serious are they and because women have more male suitors how many guys am I competing with because if she's agreeing to go on dates but she's talking to 10 other dudes and dating them to, I'll tell her see ya, why waste my time. I think people nowadays look at dating as short term temporary jobs. With a temp job, you don't care, you just want the pay (what benefits the person) and leave. Sad reality of this world. In terms of how guys take things when approached. I think if a woman or girl approaches a guy or man, if it were me I would say why is this girl talking to me does she want something from me to benefit her. Because I don't find girls that genuine these days. However, with guys, its easy to read by doing things such as giving him your #, asking to meet up, taking the time to call him, those are signs of interest.

ohmyguy · Accepted Answer

a simple discreet smile an wave and a come closer gesture.. with a simple state like... hey I like your. style.. chat a while.. or some else.. in a lighthearted tone... let's know we're receiving an invitation.. or permission to engage with you.

I can be easy to miss signals or misinterpret.. too subtle gestures... every guys confidence back fire incident, a nightmare of a situation when experienced.. makes us hesitant. and dismissive in our mindset.. we fear embarrassment the most.. so take that element out of the equation.. really helps out with the math.. for us

Altheavas · Accepted Answer

It’s not a bad question asking guys, how they like being approach Geesh😏 calm talk edges 😂😂

Well as a woman, I can’t give him any signal that I like him, or to let him know that I am approachable. I am a little hard to read. Being hard to read I’ve heard that multiple times from men.

So I rather make the move just like a man would, “hi, I am interested in you, would you want to get to know me?” that’s if I am available and can’t wait anymore. Which I have rarely done too. I don’t look that approachable anyways. But with a couple glasses of wine, a glass of mimosa or margarita, it won’t be difficult at all to approach him. Not a lot of alcohol just a little color so I can relax, when I have color my mood is a little more serious but more outgoing.

Worrying · Accepted Answer

Look at him in the eyes, smile warmly up to the corners of your eyes and give a downward nod. See if he would say at least a " hi" if you do that. Lol.

But don't look at him in a creepy manner. Look at him like you are looking at an adorable puppy that kind of soft look.

HawkPerception · Answer

This is the wrong mindset. Guys are oblivious most of the time and won't notice you unless you literally go up to them and say hi. Eye contact always works wonders as well, but that only works if they're already looking in your direction. But it's literally that easy. Go up to them and say hi.

tzdc21 · Answer

Guys don't take signals well. In fact when we think we know that it's a signal, we get deemed "creepy" or we get the "I was just being friendly" phrase. Best you tell us straight up that you like us and wanna go on a date with us.

JacobJordan · Answer

approach him. if you are in the west very few men are going to risk the potential life ending problems of approaching a woman. most men would rather go overseas since they won't be accused of sexual harassment for approaching a woman that finds him not attractive.

lightbulb27 · Answer

Wear bright colors. Wave your hands wildly and motion to come over to you saying some interesting words like "hi...".  Do not under any circumstances throw a Chipotle enchilada at him.

rigmarole · Answer

If you want it... Go get it... Trying to blow smoke signals is going to get you nowhere 99.9% of the time. You have to be assertive and take action.

slatyb · Answer

She should say "Hey, it seems I keep running into you... I'm "

SolsticeSnow · Answer

Why not just approach them? It's 2023 lol if you like the looks if someone, you can approach them :)

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Look at the guy and play with your hair while making eye contact with him and smile, give him deep stares.

Truthatanycost · Answer

Sometimes we know you want to be approached... we just aren't interested enough.

virtue2332 · Answer

Why not just approach if you can't you have to acknowledge him in a way that is receptive.

ThrillSeeker01 · Answer

Like draw him out by talking to him. And you can tell him about yourself and he'll be flattered that you trust him enough to talk to him about it.

Anonymous · Answer

Just put yourself near him a lot. If he likes you, he will approach you.

Pohjolan · Answer

A beckoning sign is a type of gesture intended to beckon or call-over someone or something. It is usually translated into "come here".

zagor · Answer

Where do you run into him? Is he a neighbor, a co-worker, someone who frequents the same bar, a jogger?

Paul09 · Answer

And why can't you speak to him? Princess treatment? You are an adult , not daddy's little princess anymore. Woman up! Speak your mind.

Anonymous · Answer

🤣 So you're asking a guy to teach you how to be a woman.

Anonymous · Answer

The best thing to do is smile at a guy. Everytime I would smile to be friendly guys would think they had a chance with me. Guys are retarded that way. Like bitch I just wanna be happy 😞

Kelly6 · Answer

give him kiss in air, or just wink. i do this at pub and guys understand

Guanfei · Answer

She gets her ass off of her chair and make the first move.

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Why don't you just start a conversation with him then go from there

Anonymous · Answer

They stare at you. They do this all the time to me.

MrCommodore · Answer

Smile and saying hi is a good start.

RingOfFire · Answer

You could flash him. 😃

jahaims · Answer

You don't signal. Be direct

Nifrayu · Answer

Just ask him out.

grega239 · Answer

Why not approach him yourself?

ethansf · Answer

A smile and a greeting usually work for me.

Anonymous · Answer

Make eye contact and give a little smile.

Jazzy54 · Answer

Flirt with him.

riverrat3 · Answer

Speak to him

whistlingwh0res · Answer

Grab his dick

How should a woman signal to a man that she wants to be approached?

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Look at the guy and play with your hair while making eye contact with him and smile, give him deep stares.

How should a woman signal to a man that she wants to be approached?

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Look at the guy and play with your hair while making eye contact with him and smile, give him deep stares.

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