Have you ever been hit on by someone way older than you?

Question

BullShark · Accepted Answer

Growing up as a cute kid, yeah, getting hit on my older women was pretty common for me, and my mom would tell me stories of her friends, or my neighbors' older teenage daughters picking me up and showing me to their friends back when I was a toddler or an infant.

As I grew into my childhood days, this became more apparent when my friends' older sisters, or senior girls from my school would randomly approach me, teasing me to get a laugh out of me (which i later realized was flirtatious teasing) and sometimes even pass jokes like "I bet all the girls in your class must be crazy for you, huh?" or sometimes going even as far as to say stuff like "if only you were a few years older..."

So yeah. I still do get hit on by older women even now at the age of 24, but this time, usually by married ones, but I don't mind the attention much nowadays. However, there are still limits therein.

HawkPerception · Accepted Answer

I'm not sure honestly. There was an occasion where I was working as a busboy (around when I was 22 I think?) and there was this older lady (around like 40-something years old) that just started as a server and told me I look like a model. She was a really attractive lady, especially for her age and I would've honestly dated her, even if it was a short term fling, but there were too many unknown factors. Was she single? (She never mentioned if she had a partner or not and I think you just kind of assume at that age they do, especially if they're that attractive). Was she just giving a compliment or was it slight flirting? I decided to let the moment pass by and just said "Thank you. I'm flattered."

Luv2BRealExotic13 · Accepted Answer

Yes a lot of times. I just ignore them mostly it’s creepy. The older men that hit on me are usually old enough to be my father’s age. I don’t have daddy issues and I think it’s really gross bc I really don’t have all that much in common with a man in their 50s and 60s. I barely have anything in common with anyone that 40. If I know this I know an older man definitely knows that.

ZiaCowel2000 · Accepted Answer

No I’ve never been hit on, but I’ve been complimented lots, like I’m pretty or cute.(I don’t think It’s sincere, it’s mostly from family or family acquaintances.) I think I come off stand off-ish so I don’t have to worry about men coming up to hit on me. (I’m like a 4/10)

jennifer_bloom · Answer

When I was 20 a 60 year old or older tried to date me.

molonski2 · Answer

I only go out and am with much younger girls than myself , they have ranged from 19 to around 35 , the oldest being 40 , but she looked particularly young , the last being 29 .

But , when I was 18 I was seduced by my older neighbor who was 27 ..

And hit on many times in my 20s..

But , I always liked younger , so it was never an issue.

WhiteSteve · Answer

I don’t know about seriously hit on, but I did have some lady next to me in line at CVS who was probably pushing 90 emphatically telling me how handsome I was, like really making kind of a thing about it, as if she’d never encountered someone who looked that good in real life. I probably struck out 11 times at the bar that night with chicks my own age, I’m sure. Old lady probably had dementia😂

sawno · Answer

10 years older receptionist asked me out for dinner at her place, so if that counts then yes. I was 5 years older in my personality, she was 5 years younger in her personality so on that level we aligned. But I did reject as I found the age difference to high and I didn't want to cause any trouble with the customer she worked for.

ByronWolf · Answer

Once I was helping one of my wife’s friends kid play baseball. I came inside and sat there and talked to her for like two hours it’s just her and I. I was 28 she was close to 40 but I was super naive and didn’t know what she was doing until I went home and told my wife about the day. Looking back now I’m pretty positive she wanted me to take her bed. She was hot too.

bulldog617 · Answer

When I was about 13 I got hit on by older men A LOT. And I'm not saying other teenagers I am talking about grown men probably 30+. I told my parents about it and they never left me alone in a store. Either they had to be with me or my boyfriend was with me from that point on.

AaronKrieger · Answer

Mildly. I was a freshman and she was a senior, but it wasn't straight up hitting me. She definitely knew I had a crush on her and would be flirty for the fun of it a few times. I didn't mind it at the time 😂

Nikki1989 · Answer

Yes, it has been happening for most of my life, and then I ended up marrying someone way older.

PBandJ_Nerd · Answer

I look younger than my age, so nobody ever comes up to me.

AutumnSerenity · Answer

All the time. You’re 16 though. Don’t do it. That’s a pedo.

ManOnFire · Answer

Of course. I've been hit on by quite a few women who were significantly older than me. But I don't mind it because I like older women anyway.

TaureanBull81 · Answer

I have been hit on by older women where most of them were married. Unfortunately I had to turn down their advances as I don't want any complications in my life 🤪

TadBehaya · Answer

Yeah. When I was 16, some 45 year old wanted to creep in

Al_Musafir · Answer

Yeah, several times. Oldest was a 40 year old woman.

syncheart · Answer

I don't feel like anyone has hit on me. But then again, I'm an ugly looking guy that nobody wants. :(

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, numerous times. I used to hookup w this nurse who at the time was 42. I was 25. That’s when a big part of my world changed lol

Sharkstealth · Answer

Most Onlyfans girls make a living out of just that. This is what social media has changed society in to.

Starrrboy · Answer

Yeah I attract a lot of 30 something women ( both mature and immature ones 🤣 ).. and also a lot of 18/19 year olds lol..

Anonymous · Answer

Since I was 12 years old hit on by boys my age all the way up to 50 and 60 years old.

Wise4myage · Answer

Yes, that happened to me when I was 15. But it only happened once.

YourSong · Answer

Yes when I was a teenager. By older men, really creepy

Anonymous · Answer

An older woman walked in on me while I was changing one time, looked at my privates, smiled and said "not bad" then left. Not a hit on I guess but meh.

Pterodon · Answer

Yes I had a cougar that was 15 years older than me when I was younger

iFarted · Answer

Yeah, there's always cougars on the prowl at this one small restaurant/dive bar.

Anonymous · Answer

Most men will never have women hitting on them and that will likely be the norm for all eternity

7Phoenix7 · Answer

Of course, probably everyone has

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Yes I have. Have you and if yes what did that feel like?

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

ONCE I THINK... I JUST WALKED AWAY

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah I get hit on often by older men

Shedzij567 · Answer

Just like 15 years older

mandyfire98 · Answer

Many many times

Amara_09 · Answer

Yes, it was nothing dramatic

DarkCarousel · Answer

Yes, at least 20 years older.

4ngelic · Answer

yea many times

Summeroflove · Answer

Yeah lol

andreasderjuengere · Answer

Only until I was about 8 years old

Yannae · Answer

Yes. Sent shivers down my spine.

jamesgoldman · Answer

Nah, I've hit on them but not the other way round

Kelly6 · Answer

Happen to me a lot

Staximus · Answer

Yep, way older

LiamJHayden · Answer

Yes. It's flattering.

Tomisworthless · Answer

Nah lol nobodies been attracted to me

shortster · Answer

Maybe a few years older

smashleyy · Answer

all the time

Rohaan2020 · Answer

Yes a couple of times

dolemite58 · Answer

numerous times

serious · Answer

The answer is No

Altheavas · Answer

Yeah!

Rc2020 · Answer

Yeah it's all good 👍😊

riverrat3 · Answer

When i was a teen, she was about 30

QuietRunner · Answer

not way older no

Booklover_90 · Answer

Yup.

collie22 · Answer

Yep .

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

Yep.

12karen · Answer

Yep, always

LavLavLuv · Answer

Yes..

jahaims · Answer

Yeah

BarryLiverstone · Answer

Yup.

roy_ricky09 · Answer

Multiple times

TiaNour · Answer

yesss lmao

Have you ever been hit on by someone way older than you?

Most Helpful Opinions

What Girls & Guys Said

Have you ever been hit on by women older than you?

Have you ever been hit on by someone way older than you?

Most Helpful Opinions

What Girls & Guys Said

Have you ever been hit on by women older than you?

We're glad to see you liked this post.