Sometimes when I notice a cute guy has a crush on me I wish I would be the guy , just to approach the girl. Serously I don't understand why some guys/men have trouble approaching a girl they like. Some have their reasons, I got it and I know for fact that certain girls simply don't know how to interact with guys which makes the guy feel insecure or uncertain about approaching them.
But if you're at the point when you want that girl to be your girlfriend, it means you know her a little bit. There must be something special you found in that girl. But not approaching her just because you're shy it's a huge turn off for me. Believe me girls do feel it when a guy has a crush on them and seeing them not making a move or at least hinting about it is really frustrating.
If I feel the guy is shy but he is interested in me and I like him too, it wouldn't kill me to reach out first to give him enough confidence. But if he doesn't make a move after that, doesn't ask me out, than I stop trying approaching them. Doesn't matter if they're shy or not.
I would approach her. I tend to be less shy when approaching sexual interests than platonic friends for some reason.
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