I think I’m in love with my guitar teacher?

[KezHarris]

It sounds silly but he’s in his late 40’s and recently divorced….
He seems to flirt back, been complementing me more recently. He called me smart and then his cheeks went red and he looked down.

He seems to enjoy my flirting (he has a big smile on his face when I flirt) and he’s been blushing a lot around me lately… and conversations have started getting deeper. I dunno.

What’s the chances that he likes me back?

I think I am too young for him though 🤷🏼‍♀️

Also he’s not conventionally attractive and a bit out of shape so maybe he hasn’t made a move because he doesn’t think I actually like him? Not sure. Or maybe he’s not interested?

I also tell him a bit about my sexual experiences and funny sex stories and he’ll happily sit there and listen with a smile on his face… surely he would’ve said something if I had crossed a line? Or changed the subject?

He’s a very sweet man and he sometimes seems quite nervous around me. I’d also say he’s sensitive and a bit submissive. Which I find adorable. 🥰
But something strange is that he calls me mate over text… hmmm…. Is he trying to make it clear that he only sees me as a mate? Or would he just call everyone mate?

Yes he likes you

He just wants to get in your pants

He probably doesn’t like you

He just sees you as a friend/mate/client

[AviatorTom]

He's divorced, and probably thinks of you (and his other young female students) when he masturbates. But he's a professional, and knows that the money he makes teaching you is more important than risking having sex with you.

[KezHarris]

Do men really think of their students when masterbating?

[Levin]

@KezHarris There is no stone unturned when it comes to a man's masturbation habits...

[Surely]

He also thinks that the age gap is too great. So he is keeping hands off and enjoying talking to you.
He doesn’t want to be a cradle robber.

[Surely]

Thank you for the MHO!

[Summeroflove]

The chances of mutual interest are very high but the whole sex stories thing really creeps me out especially if that’s what the relationship if one ever comes of it is built on it will end just like all the previous ones for both of you.

At the end of the day it seems you flirted and got flirted with back now it’s time for you if you want to move things along to tell him you’re interested you’re both adults. See if he will meet for coffee and you can talk there some and just see where things go.

Don’t wait too long because if you do he may just think this is too risky being your guitar teacher, the age gap, etc. Last thing you want to do is miss your chance while he’s single. I’m sure you’re not the only person interested in him and eventually he may start moving on. Then you’ll wonder why did he used to do all of this and now he doesn’t. That’s gonna be a sad day for you.

[WhitneySnow]

He definitely likes you back. He does not see you as a friend. He calls you mate because he doesn’t think you like him that way and he doesn’t want to make you uncomfortable.

[CrazyGirl2]

Just tell him:
“you are the sun, I am the moon”
“You are the words, I am the tune, play me!”
He’ll take it from there, if he’s interested. Good luck🤞.

[AviatorTom]

@CrazyGirl2 I didn't know you were a Neil Diamond fan... 😃

[CrazyGirl2]

@AviatorTom Oh, sorry hun, but I’m really not, my mom is. She always plays music on Sundays, it’s usually 70’s, 80's and early 90’s rock, which I really like, but sometimes she’ll play ABBA, Neil Diamond, Elton John, Wings, and stuff like that. While I really do like Wings, I’m not a fan of Neil Diamond. I just heard it vicariously through my mom. In fact “Play Me” is one of my least favorite Diamond songs. “Sweet Caroline” is fun to yell out “bam bam bam”, but other than that, I could take or leave him. I was just forced to listen to it on Sundays.

[ZS007]

I don't know thats a big age gap. If you could imagine yourself dating him sure drop hints.

[chrissykerdock]

wear a minidress and place his hands on your thighs

[LiamJHayden]

It is actually common to be attracted to people in some sort of authority position in relationship to you. Just make sure it goes beyond that.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

He likes you, and I find this cute that you are in love with him.

[Jpie555]

I think you’re super cute… if you would tell me your sex stories I would totally make a move on you, lol 😂

[KezHarris]

Would it make you horny?

[Jpie555]

Hell yeah… especially with you 😊

[eagle1951]

don;t get into it with him

[KezHarris]

Yeah hmmm

[NathanDavis]

that's not how love works