I can’t tell whether my middle aged guitar teacher fancies me or not?

[KezHarris]

He’s 46, I’m 22. He laughs at my jokes a lot and seems to find me hilarious… and he’s very nice and tries to make me laugh in return sometimes… he also seems pretty comfortable with me flirting a bit with him… I’m not sure whether he likes me back or whether he’s just being polite or friendly?

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

Young men seem to appreciate and enjoy, flirting with middle-aged women for variety of reasons. He might be somewhat emotional if he is significantly younger than you, and he may find you attractive due to your looks and wittiness and intelligence. These are all characteristics most men appreciate

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

I read the ages wrong, you are the younger one. I'm sure he enjoys flirting with you regardless. It might be somewhat of an ego stroke for him to be flirted with by a young lady.

[KezHarris]

Oh ok! I’d love to have sex with him.

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

@kezharris if he is single, he might like that, too. Just know that some people will judge both of you in terms of your age and those choices. Be safe!

[RebelinSteel]

I would guess he would want in your pants. however…. The thing is, is he married or in a relationship or single. It’s his business so he needs to keep personal and business separate.

[KezHarris]

He’s recently divorced and self employed. I’d love to get in his pants!

[RebelinSteel]

Well then it’s his business he needs to think about. Also do you know why he got divorced? Did he cheat, her cheat, cash etc, if he has been burned he may be unsure about putting his fingers in the cookie tin again

[KezHarris]

Oh ok! I have no idea. I think she divorced him probably because of money or childcare.

[RebelinSteel]

Well you can always trying being less than subtle that you want to take it further. Unless he’s brain dead, getting into a guys pants should be easy as.

[IslaTheWitch]

He probably likes you. If there is anything else? I son't think so. He just looks at you because he has an opportunity.

[KezHarris]

Thanks!

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Of course he fancies you. You’re 22. For him you look like youth fountain.

[NathanDavis]

he's waiting for you to make a definitive move

[KezHarris]

He doesn’t flirt back though? He just smiles. I’ve also caught him looking at my cleavage but then looks away.

[NathanDavis]

well, isn't he married or something? at his job? and being a lot older?

he would be risking a lot

[KezHarris]

He’s divorced. And self employed.

[IslaTheWitch]

lmfao

[NathanDavis]

does he have kids your age?

even self-employed people need a reputation for their work

[KezHarris]

His son is 7 years old I think

[NathanDavis]

ask him out

[LiamJHayden]

If you are interested, ask him. A lot of guys his age have been labeled as creeps for approaching younger women.

[KezHarris]

Yeah true! Although he might not want to date a younger woman

[jjj101010]

U need to move the conversation away form the guitar lessons and see how that goes

[KezHarris]

Yeah I have done that! Conversations go fine but i don’t want the conversation turning too sexual just in case he feels uncomfortable

[Nik1hil]

He plays a 🎸 Guitar !..

Its Literally giant indicator that the Man loves to bone and get laid. And you are 22 .. ✅

[KezHarris]

Omg hahaha

[OtterMan68]

does he constantly stare at you?
Has he ever ask you to meet him somehwere outside of lessons?
Does he compliment your physical appearance?
Does he ask about your dating life?

[KezHarris]

He hasn’t done any of that yet.

[TallAnon]

You probably remind him of a time where he used to flirt/get flirted with more and you're a young woman, so he's naturally attracted to you.

[laly520]

yes he does n it feels so strange

old men at his age would target younger girls usually

just be careful

[Ds4739]

Every guy likes to be fancied by an attractive woman. More so in that age bracket.
Is he with someone?

[Ds4739]

Separate the business from the personal. Tell him you'd like to see him outside of teaching. and give him your number

[Keith469]

Does it matter?

Really, it's just academic unless you're interested in him. in that case, my advice to you is to step up. and tell him how you feel.

[Nice222]

He might like you but it doesn’t mean it will go anywhere.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I'm sure he cares, but shy to make a move.

[Anonymous]

he's a teacher, being nice, it's what he's supposed to do.

[Anonymous]

That's not normal at all. You are seducing a 46 year old man. He is old enough to be your father. where's the moral values?

[Anonymous]

Likely he wants you to keep coming back to pay him.

[Anonymous]

Just suck his cock then he'll be happy and you can go back to your lessons.

[HelpfulWoman]

unless he outright tells you, then never assume.

[Anonymous]

My dear sister, you also know that that man is too old for you.

[Alex-Snow]

Hopefully he is just trying to be friendly

[Jerre]

Sounds like he’s flirting

[KezHarris]

I don’t know

[Anonymous]

Show him your tits.

[DreamLife7]

He's being nice psychopath

[riverrat3]

Where would you want the relationship to go

[MrMore1]

He wants to do you

[msc545]

ask him