I think my teacher fancies me?

[Anonymous]

So as you may know I'm under 18 and I do have a crush on someone my own age but I feel like my teacher has a crush on me. It all started when I was in yr 7 / 7th grade and I really hated the teacher because of the way he looked and spoke to me but then when it was time to move up to the next year/grade I promised that I would be nice to him because I felt sorry for how I was treating him. Ever since then he's gone so different. Sometimes when he dismisses the class he says I should stay back and I always think im introuble but usually it's to compliment me or something and my best friend notices it aswell whenever he comes over to me while I'm working he's like "be careful with your presentation usually your work is BEAUTIFUL" then he looks up at me and Stares then looks back at my page I know he's flirting and it makes me feel so uncomfortable. And when he's teaching the class I feel like I'm giving him wrong signals like I have this pen and I'm always taking it apart then fixing it again but in order to do that you need to put the inky but in right? So I do that and he looks at it and takes it the wrong way when really I was just fiddling and I see him adjusting his belt (this is all true) and I immediately think he's a pedo but I don't know. He's sending me signals aswell and from afar he's always doing flirty faces when I look at him so I quickly look away and act like I'm not interested but when he adjusted his belt that was to far even my friend thought so :( does he fancy me or not?

He fancies you

He doesn't fancy you

[Student123Flower]

I have a teacher at my school who i think may be a child predator. I am 11 and I have just started secondary schol For his privacy I will call him Mr Strange. Mr Strange immediately began to talk to me a lot more than everybody else in my class. He would constantly try and talk to me and when he said stuff to me it also had strong sexual undertones and I was really creeped out by it. In class he would lean over the table really close t me and say 'I'm in a silly mood today' and he would smile a really smug twisted smile. In assembly when he does assembly he will stare directly at me the entire time and walk as close as he could get away with to me. I think he went for me because I'm a bit of a wierdo and I have some personal issues (that he had no business in getting involved with). He would take me out of class to spend time with me in his office, alone. He always smiles at me creepily and stops me in the hallway just to say 'Hi, (my name)', and then walk off leaving me standing there. Sometimes I'll catch him smiling smugly, looking me up and down, very obviosly, in class. Other times I'll turn round in class to see him staring over my shoulders, so close I can smell him, staring at my chest and butt area. He wears thius hungry look when he llooks at me and he tilts his head at me, smirking. My older friend, who I will call May, has experienced this too and me and maisie are the same 'type'. Slim, brown short hair, glasses, very pale, and with personal issues. May has experienced her fainiting in PE and waking up to him bent over her stroking her face saying 'welcome back to planet earthg 'May'. Is he a pedo? I have spoken a bit to my mum (who Mr Strange has gained her trust through private phone calls) says that its a load of bulls***. My friends say he does seem to have a 'thing' for me, but that I am overreacting Please share your opinion.

[Anonymous]

Uuuh ya, but becareful.

[Anonymous]

Impossible to say now! Wink at him and see if his head turns red. This is the exterminator determinator. Hold a friend's hand for support if you fear his expulsion. It never hurts to smile at everyone you know.

the work is bootiful, not necessarily yoo

[Asker]

But I feel that it will encourage him more and he's like 30 and I'm let's say between 12-14 plus him doing those things is making me lose respect for him

[Opinion Owner]

You seem pretty mature for your age, seriously. I would not have said something like that probably...

You said you like someone your own age right? Couple with your same age crush, and make it obvious to everyone you're together. If he really likes you this will also make him red, but from anger due to jealousy. It won't encourage him because he will see that you were taken, he will either back off or do something that will get himself fired.

[Asker]

Thank you :)

[Opinion Owner]

Oh, and if I understand what you are saying, do not use a pen any more. If you can't stop playing with them in a way that could be interpreted as an inappropriate manner that means stick with PENCILS only.

So what exactly did he do with his belt? I don't want to raise a false alarm and ruin someone's life if they didn't really do anything but depending you may need to notify

[Asker]

Basically he saw how I was inserting my pen ink thingy in and out (not several times but yeah) and my friend was doing it too we always too it and. He looked and my pen and held his belt buckle and started quickly moving it around and pretended as if it was loose and kinda just slighty undid it the do it buck up again and thing is me and my best friend were only people who noticed and both of us gave each other eye contact (me and my friend) and he lpoked us us and smiled

[Asker]

*looked

[jacquesvol]

Liking someone is not necessarily crushing (or more) I like my 75 yo neighbor but I don't crush on her.

You're seeing way too much in this. If he knew it he'd be afraid.

[Sexualchrist]

All sounds pretty creepy to me...

[Asker]

I know right

[Sexualchrist]

If I were you, I would see if I could change classes.

[JackPack]

Wow what a creep. I hope what your telling us is warped by your mindset

[Asker]

Not at all it's all true it's been. Happening for 2 years now

[JackPack]

But you may be taking it the wrong way because you thought the first time was creepy so your finding ways that he could potentially be into you

[JackPack]

If it is true then I suggest what the anon guy said, couple up with your crush. This needs to stop immediately!

[Asker]

You know what that could actually be true now that I think about it

[Asker]

But still..

[JackPack]

Yeah... still, what do you lose by coupling with your crush? ;)

[JackPack]

Be careful though if this guy is serious then please watch out :(

[Asker]

Thanks :)

[Anonymous]

Be careful...

[chrisbigman]

Probably he does
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