How do you flirt w/o being a creep?

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Discuss….. I see a woman I’m interested in, how shall a guy proceed in a gentleman way? Open to opinions

Ez-Bri-Z_v2 · Accepted Answer

Make sure she is wanting to be talked to, in other words, if she is reading a book, already engaged in conversation, working, looks like she is in a hurry or wearing earphones then it's probably not a good time to approach.

As for the approach itself, be confident and casual. Good sense of humor doesn't hurt but just generally be normal. Don't put on an act or try cheesy pickup lines.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

ask "Hey, What are you doing?" and start a conversation. wait for the opportunity flirt in a subtle way. If she gets weirded out just say "I didn't mean anything by it" as an excuse. whatever you say, it must be said with the intent of being flirtatious, or funny. Not with the intent of pleasing her, picking her up, or being "nice". We all know what men want.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I wear clothes that blatantly show my genitals and then pretend it's just for comfort. Chicks love that shit

Summeroflove · Answer

Well flirting doesn’t have to be overly sexual flirting should be more testing the waters to see if there is mutual attraction. Sometimes you’re just not feeling it with someone because they aren’t into you like that.

I will say just directly express interest don’t play stupid games or you’ll win stupid prizes. Either she will say yes or she will say no or she won’t give a direct answer. A yes….. plan a date. No. Be glad you’re not wasting your time and have closure. Move on. No direct repose the balls in her court if she’s interested she knows where to find you.

ShellyB · Answer

Well I guess this isn’t a great answer but, just act normal. I guess if it was clear what acting normal meant though, it would also be clear how not to be a creep.

To me, someone being a creep can mean two things. One is a jerk.

But I think what you mean is the other meaning, which is something like, weird, not confident, maybe kind of a perv. To not seem that way, I would say just be direct, don’t spend a lot of time sneaking looks or staring, walk up smile say hello and start talking if she seems open to that. Make normal eye contact, that is, some but not 100% all the time staring into her eyes. Don’t stare at other parts of her body, don’t spend hours working your way up to asking a direct question and stuff like that. Basically don’t seem like a weirdo who obv wants to ask but is afraid to ask.

NicholasRedone · Answer

Anytime I ever did lol 😆 😅 I don't think I even got anywhere successfully other than me apologising and either never seeing those women again (there's been a couple in my lifetime who chatted to me) really, and so it is what it is. My short answer is, it's basically impossible

Roldrake · Answer

Dress well, be funny and dude, freaking relax. REMEMBER this is a numbers game so hit up as many as possible (of all ages and types) until you get a couple bites. Pound a few of the promiscuous ones along the way for practice (elderly women are easy targets) and you'll learn the bait to trap the fish. Don't hate the player baby, hate the game.

Anonymous · Answer

just be attractive. that's really it

all this other bullshit about doing X Y and Z etc. is all gynocentric pseudoscience

"but attractive guys can be creepy too" yeah but ugly guys are automatically creepy. there is no "can be". they just are

CalmUntilAbused · Answer

Are You attractive? That's pretty much enough. However, if You are not attractive, I know no way to talk to women that would not make You a creep in their eyes.

coolbreeze · Answer

Make eye contact and say hi. If she says hi back and looks at you try to start a conversation with small talk.

Nikki1989 · Answer

There is nothing creepier than flirting 90% of the time. Talk and act like a mature human-being if you want to get somewhere.

HungTexan · Answer

Start a casual conversation, keep it light, see if she’s interested in talking or not. Don’t be creepy or too direct.

FreyaRed · Answer

You have to recognize the difference between "no" and "fu** off"

MJVillarama · Answer

flirt with fun, not fear. Big difference! Learned this from Jared Laurence ,

TheStaleMarshmellow · Answer

This has to be emphasized You have to be attractive

serious · Answer

That is a really good question

SleepingHazard · Answer

You say kind things and don't overdo it.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Be attractive.

Anonymous · Answer

Can't be done these days

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