What do u guys think am I overthinking?

[Gilda16]

Ok so there’s this guy from India who’s very cute and he works at this liq store I go to sometimes near my house and he would literally always flirt with me when I would go in there and ask me like 20 personal questions for example like if I had a boyfriend if I was married where I lived etc… he even told me he hoped he sees me again lol then one day when I walk in he ends up finally asking me for my number which I give to him. And since I gave it to him that day we have been texting a lot every single day and some days he will even call and we will sit on the phone the most we’ve talked was an hour but we’ve only talked for a week so far lol.. the past couple days he will text first and even say goodnight first he’s even asked for naked pics which I send without my face in it and he did the same but then today something weird happened… he called me and started going on about how he thinks Americans are lazy and the girls are crazy and how he doesn’t want to marry a girl from here how he prefers a girl from India and just I don't know not as flirty as usual.. and then he didn’t even text me goodnight like he says the past couple nights I mean I kno he had a lot to do tonight a Walmart run then dinner but idk… Is he suddenly not into me and trying to hint it to me? Or could he still want to try things out and just was playing hard to get? I don't know why he would say those things to me act less flirty suddenly I mean he was still nice but I don't know my feelings are hurt I don't know if he knows it or not but y even waste my time like this if he just wants an Indian girl? If keeps texting again and trying to date I’ll be surprised after saying that to me I don't know what to think anymore

[SueShe]

I can't believe you fell for his scheme.

Of course he is not into you romantically. He got you where he wanted, he got your nudes and you lost control of them now and are probably somewhere on the internet. All he wanted is to get your nudes and you gave them without a blink of an eye.

Sure he gave you his but you cannot be certain that they are not stolen pictures from the internet, can you?

Just wait till his has fornicated with you and then you can guess what will happen. Yes, you will be unknown to him as if you never existed. Are you willing to let it go that far?

[Anonymous Asker]

I didn’t show my face in the pics either…

[SueShe]

I am aware but I can't believe that you lower yourself to such an extent to do something like that.

[Anonymous Asker]

I didn’t u dumb bitch

[SueShe]

So how should I understand this

"... he’s even asked for naked pics which I send without my face..."

So you did and your comment is unjustified.

[Anonymous Asker]

I did and what’s wrong with that you fucking cunt? I was with a guy for ten years and we started out that way,.. ur just mad cuz nobody wants ur ugly ass nor will they ever so pls do the world a favor and die

[SueShe]

once a hoe, always a hoe

[Flower7]

Maybe he mentioned you to his family and they talked negatively about you.

[Oliverlogan263]

Whoa, that's a lot to unpack there! Sounds like you're really confused and a bit hurt by the mixed signals this guy has been giving you. I can totally understand why you'd be feeling that way.

At first, it seemed like he was super into you - all the flirting, getting your number, and constant texting and calling. That's a pretty clear sign of interest, right? And the fact that he even asked for some spicy pics is a pretty bold move too. So it's understandable you thought things were going well.

But then for him to suddenly start talking trash about American girls, saying he only wants to date Indian girls, and getting less flirty - that's a major shift in behavior. It's like he did a complete 180 on you, which would throw anyone off.

My guess is he's either playing some kind of weird game, trying to act all aloof and disinterested to see how you react. Or maybe he's just got some major cultural/family pressures around only dating Indian women, and he's feeling conflicted about his attraction to you.

Either way, it's a mess and not fair to you at all. You deserve someone who's gonna be upfront and consistent with their feelings, not keep you guessing like this. If he's really set on only dating Indian girls, then he shouldn't have led you on in the first place.

I wouldn't try to read too much into it or overthink his sudden change in behavior. Sounds like he's the one being all over the place, not you. I'd just try to distance yourself and not put too much energy into trying to figure out what's going on in his head.

If he reaches out again and tries to keep things going, you could give him one more chance. But make it clear you won't tolerate the mixed signals and cultural hang-ups. Otherwise, I'd say it's probably best to just cut your losses and move on. You don't need that kind of drama in your life, girl!

[Anonymous]

Tip: avoid all men from India.

[Gilda16]

Sick and tired of these troll replies…