For a guy, what are some shows/movies you can recommend from which I can learn some good flirting charisma?

[Tuntus]

[OneViewpoint]

I hate to break this to you but... watching TV and Movies to learn how to flirt with a woman is a really bad idea unless you want to be laughed at constantly. Those scripted lines won't teach you how to come up with conversation in the moment, rapid fire.

1.) Stop caring if she's gonna like you. The point of flirting is not to "score". The point should be to have fun. Laugh. Make her think... "wait what, what did he mean". Flirting should just be a fun way to kill some time not some "do or die" mission.

2.) Be aware of the clock. Don't overstay. Less is more. Walk away and leave her wanting more, not desperate for you to go away.

3.) Read the person. Adapt your conversation to the audience. Is she very shy or very playful?

4.) Don't be afraid to push her boundaries, disagree (outrageously) with her, or toss out vague compliments that may not be a compliment at all. But nothing hurtful. Example: That dress is an interesting choice. Challenge her. Do it with a smirk. If she replies with an equally suspect "compliment/insult", laugh... she's playing with you. Do not spoil the vibe.

5.) Keep it coming fast and furious. Make her head spin. And keep smiling.

6.) If she doesn't respond, smile and wish her a good evening. It was fun trying. And there's always another one. She was great to practice with. NEVER be the butthurt asshole. No matter what happens.

Good luck!

[OneViewpoint]

Get out there and do it. Fail 200 times. Learn 200 times. It’s really the only way to learn to flirt in a way that will work for you.

[Purpleronnie]

Learning flirting and charisma from a movie? .. the idea of learning to be charismatic , well in theory you could , it can be a developed skill but I really don’t think those “acting” from a script is going to develop that skill. Flirting , again you could copy techniques that are said to be successful but that won’t be “you” and it won’t convey confidence.. just a pretence and a falseness. Women , in my opinion , are very emotionally perceptive , and while you could pull of “trying” and “resourceful” you would soon be exposed for having “no game”by just acting out rehearsed scenes from movies when your target goes off script.


My advice , put yourself out there and be you , your experience , skill and confidence will grow from every win and loss BUT you will be “You” and not some fake wannabe Casanova

[DishLady]

A lot of things you see working on TV are creepy when they happen in real life. For example, a girl pepper sprayed a guy for startling her with his declaration of love, which was a scene from some movie.


Just be yourself. You don’t have to be the most charismatic guy in the world — sometimes that guy ends up alone.

[Anonymous]

Actually that show Two and a Half Men, Charlie shows guys just how it's done. He makes fun of it but what he does works on girls. It would work on me.

[AviatorTom]

Just watch The Hallmark Channel for several hours... 😏

[Anonymous]

What I learned is, stay true to yourself and open your heart to the woman… Love will be the guiding light, if it doesn’t work out then it never was meant to be.

Shows / media don’t really teach how to be ‘real’ with a woman, a lot pull at the strings of emotion to convey a certain narrative. I would say look deep inside what’s special about you & what makes you, you! Hobbies, careers, people in your life, creativity, and favorite books / movies. If she is interested, she’ll continue with it and same with you.

Have faith in yourself and your capabilities, don’t rely on TV and movies to define who you are. Good luck man.

[Opinion Owner]

Also be warm and inviting, she’ll be more comfortable opening up that way. Treat her the way you’d want to be treated.

[Joshydavid25]

Oof, most movies romanticize overly pursuing and are made to purely entertain and produce feelings to keep the viewers coming.. So many things are exaggerated.. Real life is kinda random, and fickle in comparison. So basically most movies won't teach you anything except how to be a dramatic creep.. LOL..

[In_Trance]

If this were true that would mean everybody that binge watches TV and movies would have an understanding of these skills.
That's simply not true

[Miristheiss]

Craig Ferguson talk show. Watch Youtube clips of him flirting with the female guests.

[Uglygaypoorcoward94]

The Brooklyn Nine 9 is a great watch in my trash opinion

[Communicationisking]

Billy Bob Thornton in Bad Santa

[Anonymous]

The notebook is a classic.

[Jupiter1]

Scent Of A Woman (starring Al Pacino)

[Crazzyyworld]

American gigolo in Paris

[blackeagle007]

Anything you see on tv isn’t worth buying

[sodomanie]

pride and prejudice.

[Priya99999]

Vikings tv show and patrick bateman s ego