Guys, Did he take it as an innuendo?

[Lalalove11]

I asked him how big his harp was even using hand gestures, like an idiot, as in hand gestures to show the scale of it. I was obviously nervous as he is a crush and I noticed he exposed his neck, by looking up to think about it. And it felt awkwardly funny 🤣 🤣 but he answered normally thankfully

Would you have taken it as an innuendo?

[SteveSmith1985]

This is cute. It could go either way. There would be all kinds of subtleties in the moment that none of us can see. This is one of those things... only you and he can answer. It really could be either. It depends on context, how you two are together, all sorts of specific things only you two know.

Sorry, but you stumped me. I don't know.

[Lalalove11]

Hmm well he paused and looked up, which exposed his neck making me feel he could have felt vulnerable possibly. But it's also possible I'm overthinking it.

[Lalalove11]

And when I replied medium he agreed and it felt like we made longer eye contact 🤣but I didn't laugh or smile because I didn't want to make it awkward

[SteveSmith1985]

In response to the looking up thing. Yes, that you are indeed overthinking. But the longer eye contact and everything else in that moment... that's what I was talking about only the two of you knowing. But if you think he took it as inuendo, he probably did.

But you know what? He's probably second guessing it the same way you are. Especially if you made a point to try and not make it seem like inuendo. He's sitting there asking himself is that what she meant? No... she's so not like that (that's me making an assumption. could be wrong).

haha this is cute

[Lalalove11]

Haha I think so , I felt we could both sense it but took the question seriously because it's not like me to do that. Oh well, If I got him thinking about it that's good. 😂

[Shiprex]

My sense of humour probably would at times do that but only if I knew the girl well and had no interest in her romantically or sexually.

[Shiprex]

He absolutely had that thought and wanted to make it an innuendo I think. That kind of thing in most men's minds is very likely to create that sort of thought process when it's actually meant to be an innocent query.

[Lalalove11]

Yes I think he did because he said '26 strings I think' then I said oh medium sized, he affirmed yeah medium and we made slightly long eye contact🤣🤣or at least it felt like it

[Shiprex]

ROFLMAO
YOU made it into an innuendo with that answer. Good on you that's a St Patricks day parade of green flags.
Shoot away Ronja Catniss it's time for a Hunger Games feast

[Lalalove11]

Oops 😰😰I swear to god it was not a conscious thing but that's hilarious.🤣
happy at Paddy's day from an Irish gal☘️

[Shiprex]

Top o tha mornin to ya 🇮🇪☘

[Summeroflove]

It depends my mind isn’t super dirty so probably not. Just if you like him talk to him some people will take anything the wrong way even if it’s completely innocent.

[Lalalove11]

It was supposed to be innocent but I felt we both thought the same thing potentially for a second. I made it awkward when I said 'oh so medium?' and he looked at me for a second and was like 'yeah, medium'.
It was pretty funny looking back

[Summeroflove]

Maybe he did

[Spencer10]

Well I do not own or play the harp so I would have thought WTF? lol

[Lalalove11]

Hahaha but if you did🤣

[Spencer10]

Well i say all kinds of stupid things... so I think i would cut you some slack and not be too worried about what you said.

[Lalalove11]

Okay, thank you ☺️☺️ I'm just overthinking it. I also accidentally interrupted him and I'm not sure why it was so awkward. Like he stared and paused for a second, at the floor, when I interrupted (I never interrupt people also I was just that nervous and excited)

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

An innuendo with a harp? Hmmm no, that seems too far-fetched for me, I don't think I could see an innuendo here, unless I know for certain I'm dealing with a personality fan of allusions?

[stratford]

Depends if you had a cheeky smile on your face :-)

[PaleDale]

Haha yeah maybe

[TallAnon]

Probably