What do you think about a shy girl?

[Anonymous]

I don't talk much. I just smile and nodding to someone talking to me all the time, but I can handle a conversation but the problem is I don't open up a lot, I'm very silent, some of my friends said I'm a smart shy person, a silent kind, some guys tell me I'm cute, some of them ask my phone number, but if they asked me a date, I always say no.

I don't flirt, if I like a guy I ignore him every time I see him...

I feel that this is not good, I want to get rid of being shy sometimes, I don't want to look stupid.

[Anonymous]

Ok hears the thing. I would say about 30 percent of guys or more realy like shy girls. I am one of those guys and I prefer shy girls. There so cute and sweet. Here is the problem when you tell a guy no or shut yourself off totaly you go from shyness to cold. So if you talk to a guy its ok to be nervous. If you are scared to date a guy its ok to tell him your not ready. Of coarse if you realy don't like him don't date him. but all aguy needs is like one little word to get a cue from a shy girl. Like did you understand the homework. That's it you are now shy but not unapproachable. Or even laugh at a guys joke when he is talking to someone else. A real winner for shy girls is to just draw a picture of a hppy face and say d you like my picture. The kind of guys that like shy girls will go nuts over this. Remember once guys realize your approachable but you are shy one third of mankind will like you. I mean go crazy for a shy girl. And not all of us are nerdy guys. I was a football player weight lifter and wrestler and went nuts over shy girls. I would always choose them first even over the chear leaders. But get ready for one third of mankind. Lol its true a lot of guys like shy girls. Anyone who likes the sweetness in women.

[Asker]

Really why they laugh at us though if they notice that we are blushing or when they see that we can't stare at you back?

[So-Innocent]

Wow great answer. I just had to comment!

Yeah, s lot of guys say I'm cold, but it's just the shyness. I'm trying to overcome it.

Where do I find these guys that like cute shy girls? All of the guys who've ever been interested in me didn't like me for being that way. They said I was too shy or too innocent or too sweet. One guy even said that I act like his little sister. Why do most guys like wild girls as opposed to shy girls? Thanks for you input! ^^

[Opinion Owner]

We laugh cause we think its cute. and we think your adorable. we tease cause we like you. so innocent you can find a man that loves shy women right here. I'm gona message you. :)

[Forgetable]

Not sure I could have said it better myself even down to the teasing. But I would like to add about the blushing and looking down and away, I personally think that is very attractive and try my best to make girls blush if I'm in a relationship with them, even if I'm not in a relationship with a girl I still love getting them to blush, it's adorable and attractive to me.

[doctorwhofan23]

I understand you completely I am a shy guy and I understand why you feel this way. I know it seems to talk to guys which I assume it is because I find girls to be really hard to talk to. Just know that you will find the right guy at some point just I as I will find the right girl you will know when you meet him. But as for what I think of shy girls is that I love them. they are more the kind of girl that I would like to hang out with. shy girls seem to have a better personality to me than the outgoing one's. But just be yourself you will know when you meet a guy you are comfortable dating.

[Naash]

First of all I love your question for the reason I am no different from you. Forget about guys even talking to girls (smart, bold) makes me uneasy.

But staying in the cocoon won't help. You have to break the shell and come out of it. Observe how other girls or friends of yours talk to guys. Note their body language. And then imbibe in your own. Won't be easy to start with but will definitely pay !

I am not asking you fake but add the positives in others that you don't own.

The idea is to enhance not change !

Picture it like an airplane that speeds on the runway to take off and finally kisses the sky !

You are the plane, and runway is what I suggested you and sky is what you desire.

Believe me it isn't that tough. I tried it on me and it worked.

Remember, you learn a ton from observations!

[So-Innocent]

You sound A LOT like me.

I'm shy too and if I like a guy I will ignore him, and if he talks to me I won't say much to him for fear of looking stupid if I say something crazy. I don't really know how to flirt either. In a conversation I prefer to be the listener rather than the speaker.

Thanks for posting this question. I too am interested to know what guys think of us shy girls. ^^

[Asker]

Hahhha I'm glad I'm not alone, when I think about it, it just so stupid, sometime I practice everything what to say later, but when I'm in a group or in front of guy I like, I just listen to everything they say, and I don't look at him, I don't want him to catch me looking at him...

[So-Innocent]

Yeah, you don't have to stare into his eyes or anything.

I just glance up and smile every now and then, to show I'm interested and not come off as cold. I don't know if that works or not. Oh and smile with your eyes because it's cuter and it tells him a lot if you're too nervous about talking. I know it's hard for us shy girls. Hopefully you'll find a guy that loves you for being shy so that you won't have to change who you are. Good luck! ^^

[Cool-Relax]

I'm the same way as you.

My biggest problem is that I know guys like shy girls, and I know I get guys' attention because I'm shy, but I don't know how to act on it. Well, that's because I don't know how to flirt lol. I try, but I end up feeling awkward. I don't think flirting is supposed to be that forced.

[enviro-shery]

How do you know you are getting guys attention? And why does being shy make them give you more attention? I would have thought they would give less attention because you are shy.

[Cool-Relax]

Shy girls tend to come off as mysterious, so it makes some guys curious. And you know you have their attention when they ask and do random things to get you to open up more. It doesn't necessarily mean they're interested, just curious.

[RyanAPOD]

Well the thing is, for guys who like why girls, you don't have to flirt. All you really have to do is keep being that cute shy girl that we fell for in the first place. My fiancée is that kind of shy girl and she never had to flirt with me. So if this guy really likes you for being a shy girl, don't try to force anything. Just be yourself. Because we love it.

[soxfan94]

Well, there's nothing wrong with being shy generally. In fact, it's usually quite attractive when a cute girl is a little shy. The problem is that you're meeting guys who are interested in you, but your shyness is stopping you from getting to know them on a date. You don't have to be exuberant and loud on a date, you can still be your reserved personality, but it's probably going to require you to talk and open up just a little. This is the only way you'll really get to know a guy. And don't worry about looking stupid, just be yourself since that's all you can do. And if he likes you, then great, if not then welcome to the world of dating where it only works out once in a long while.

[Asker]

My problem is when they start staring at me I get blush, when I said blush, my whole body is red,and can't look back,it happened to me when one of my guy friend stare at me, he laughed so loud when I turned into red...i don't want that to happen to me again.... that's the time when I look so stupid...its a turn off I know... it just hard for me to get used to it.

[Anonymous]

Ignoring a guy you like won't get you anywhere. I personally love it when girls stare at me from across the room the look away before we make eye contact. It's just so mysterious and it drives me crazy to the point where I just can't stand it when she ignores me.

Then when we finally have eye contact & smiles that's when I get over my shyness.

As long as they know how to give signals & flirt then Shy girls are at the top of my list.

[regular-guy]

I think you, like a lot of other shy girls, are shooting yourself in the foot with regards to guys. There are a lot of girls who I thought were really stuck up, but later I found out that they were really just very shy.

[Romanticguy1988]

Why not go on a date?... You would be quite surprised how awesome it might be ^_^

Just watch for guys who wants only one thing..

Ignoring all the time all people who like you.. Will eventually drive you in state of lonely.